Feb 17, 2018 – Why Is My Husband Not Interested In Me Sexually – Sexless Marriage Victim, Wife Sexually Rejected By Husband Cries Out
I never saw myself as that girl who would find herself in a sexless marriage.
Trapped in a very sad and lonely place with no way out.
Crying herself to sleep each and every night. Longing for him to just reach out for me and take me.
But I am.
I’ve been in this relationship for 18 years. They have not all been bad years. We started our relationshi very in love and couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. That lasted only about 2 years. Then love making became less frequent.
Not all at once but gradually. From once a day to 2 or 3 times a week to once a week and then once a month. Sometimes there would be a 6 month period he wouldn’t touch me. Always some excuse.
He was tired or he was still mad at me because I kept him up crying about no sex the night before. He even tried to go with the whole E.D. thing until I got him into a doctor who promptly put him on some hormone cream which he used for about a month.
Now it is a constant battle. I cry he yells calls me names and goes to sleep. I can’t sleep, I stay awake crying all night and when he wakes up I am good and pissed and the whole shit storm starts all over again. He blames me I blame him and there you go.
What the hell do I do? I love this man sooooo much I honestly can’t even picture my life without him. In every other aspect of our lives he is awesome. We laugh we cuddle while we sleep. He is a great friend. But he just will not be intimate with me.
I need intimacy!!! I long for it. I day dream about things I can only wish he would do to me. Most men would love to have a woman that is more than willing to do just about anything in the bedroom he would want. Short of sharing it with another woman.
I clean, I cook, I do his laundry and I work. This man hasn’t had to wash a dish in 18 years! I feed the 2 dogs I do it all! I’m 47 he is 54.
I believe I’m an attractive middle age woman that seems to have no problem attracting the attention of other men so why doesn’t he want me? I don’t think I can take this anymore.
I need to leave or he needs to change. I’m just not sure how to make either of those things happen.
I’m tired of feeling ugly and undesired. I am mostly tired of crying. Please help.!