Why Won’t My Husband Sleep With Me Anymore?- Sexless Marriage Victim Cries Out

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Why Won't My Husband Sleep With Me Anymore

Feb 17, 2018 – Why Is My Husband Not Interested In Me Sexually – Sexless Marriage Victim, Wife Sexually Rejected By Husband Cries Out

By Aliana

I never saw myself as that girl who would find herself in a sexless marriage.
Trapped in a very sad and lonely place with no way out.
Crying herself to sleep each and every night. Longing for him to just reach out for me and take me.
But I am.

I’ve been in this relationship for 18 years. They have not all been bad years. We started our relationshi very in love and couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. That lasted only about 2 years. Then love making became less frequent.

Not all at once but gradually. From once a day to 2 or 3 times a week to once a week and then once a month. Sometimes there would be a 6 month period he wouldn’t touch me. Always some excuse.

He was tired or he was still mad at me because I kept him up crying about no sex the night before. He even tried to go with the whole E.D. thing until I got him into a doctor who promptly put him on some hormone cream which he used for about a month.

Now it is a constant battle. I cry he yells calls me names and goes to sleep. I can’t sleep, I stay awake crying all night and when he wakes up I am good and pissed and the whole shit storm starts all over again. He blames me I blame him and there you go.

What the hell do I do? I love this man sooooo much I honestly can’t even picture my life without him. In every other aspect of our lives he is awesome. We laugh we cuddle while we sleep. He is a great friend. But he just will not be intimate with me.

I need intimacy!!! I long for it. I day dream about things I can only wish he would do to me. Most men would love to have a woman that is more than willing to do just about anything in the bedroom he would want. Short of sharing it with another woman.

I clean, I cook, I do his laundry and I work. This man hasn’t had to wash a dish in 18 years! I feed the 2 dogs I do it all! I’m 47 he is 54.

I believe I’m an attractive middle age woman that seems to have no problem attracting the attention of other men so why doesn’t he want me? I don’t think I can take this anymore.

I need to leave or he needs to change. I’m just not sure how to make either of those things happen.
I’m tired of feeling ugly and undesired. I am mostly tired of crying. Please help.!

8 thoughts on “Why Won’t My Husband Sleep With Me Anymore?- Sexless Marriage Victim Cries Out

  1. You need to confront him and hear his answer. He can’t just be ignoring you like dt. Challenge him and see what he says

  2. This is one side of the story. Talk to him and if he’s not willing to change, move on. Also, u need to know what you have done wrong so that such mistake don’t repeat itself again.

  3. Men are like that. They think women are a piece of furniture. If a woman does not satisfy them they are out on the streets with another lady, but when they don’t perform their responsibilties, they want her to die in silence.

  4. There should be libido test before marriage and for this article,since no other issue between two of you,then the man is having an erection problem which is eating him up, just confront him and he will open up.

  5. AH AH AH AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH,

    YOUR HUSBAND REFUSED TO MAKE LOVE WITH YOU BECAUSE HE HAD FOUND A VERY TIGHTER PUNANI BECAUSE YOUR HAS BECOME TOO LOSE AND EXPRESS FOR HIM

    AH AH AH SO, PLEASE GO AND USE LEMON AND ALLOM TO SCRUB YOUR PUNANI TO BECOME TIGHT AGAIN.

    PLEASE, IT IS BETTER TO JUST LOOK FOR SOMEONE ELSE, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME WITH JACK THE LAD .

  6. Before you draw a conclusion about ending your marriage have you exhaust all your options in making sure things get back to normal as it used to be before. From your narratives, you all started well and along the line things started declining.

    I think what happened to your man is an old age related problem due to his Testosterone level. What happened to him may not be attributed to cheating on you or having extra marital affairs outside. It may be due to different factors, for example as we men are aging, our testosterone level decreases. This is the hormone in our body that makes us virile and enables us to perform more sexually but in some men, they may start experiencing this in their early 50’s even in late 40’s. Just as in Female counterparts also declining of female estrogen may leads to early Menopause, Night sweat, mood change, depression, nagging, lack of sexual appetite etc.

    This problem may arise due to Stress, bad nutrition, diabetic, heart problem or depression. After confirming from the medical Doctor which one of these problems, then the solution is simple. Improper diagnosis may compound the problem. I have once been to the Doctor before who certified me okay on my testosterone and other problems but when I treated my high blood pressure, I started experiencing my good strong sexual libido just like before. I asked my Doctor, could it be because of my slightly high blood pressure he said yes! it could be. Since then I have changed my diet. As we are aging our immune system declines. Our body cannot process the food as in when we were in our teens and whatever we ingest does matter because it can affect our system including reproductive system. This problem may be varied due to different body. My body is different from your hubby’s body.

    In conclusion Madam, my instinct told me your husband is just having some medical problem which you’ve not been able to figure out. Please take your time, don’t jump on conclusion and note that not everybody giving an advise experienced the same issue. I wish you good luck in your marriage.

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