July 19, 2017 – Wife Divorces Husband Of 13 Years Over Seizure Of Menstrual Pad
One Mr Kafayat Akinade has approached a Grade C Customary Court at Agodi, Ibadan, to seek dissolution of her 13-year-old marriage over seizure of her monthly menstrual pad by the husband.
Akinade told the court that her husband, Muideen Akinade, was in the habit of picking her menstrual pads for unknown reason.
She also accused the husband of brutality, saying he had turned her to a punching bag and a slave in her matrimonial home.
She said: “I live like a slave in my husband’s house without proper care. I shouldered the responsibility of our three children and never experienced happiness since I married him.
“I left his house seven months ago when I sensed that my life was in danger, but he did not bother to beg me to return, instead, he cursed my mother and threatened to kill me with charm.
“I pray the court to dissolve the marriage so that I can have peace of mind, the court should also order him to be responsible for the upkeep of the three kids.”
The woman threatened to kill herself if the court declines her request, adding that she had made up her mind to end the union.
In his defence, Akinade denied all the allegations, but accused the wife of adultery.
He alleged that one of his apprentices slept with the woman when he travelled.
He, however, did not agree with the dissolution of the marriage and urged the court to settle the matter.
The president of the court, Chief Mukaila Balogun, said the evidences of parties had shown that there was no more love in the union.
He dissolved the marriage and ordered the man to take custody of the first child, while the second and third children should remain with their mother.
He also directed the respondent to pay N7, 000 monthly allowance for the children up keep.
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Beg you to return…. Who send you away.
MARRIAGE HAS BECOME VERY DANGEROUS GAME AS YOUR HUSBAND TOOK YOUR MESTRATION PAD MONTHLY, HE MIGHT BE USING IT FOR A CHARM .YOUR LIFE MIGHT BE IN DANGER ,
YOU HAVE MADE GOOD DECISION, JUST GO AWAY AND NEVER GET TOO CLOSED TO HIM NO MORE .
THERE IS NOTHING LEFT AGAIN AS YOU HAVE ENOUGH CHILDREN , JUST GO AND INVEST ON YOURSELF AWAY FROM THIS ARSE HOLE. WORK HARD AND NEVER FIGHT EITHER HE CONTRIBUTES TOWARD THE CHILDREN OR NOT .
I am not belief say is Ms Eranko was say this. Bicos where is all the haaaaaaaaaaa and asshooooooooll and all the shouting? Or it be like say she no smoke igbo bifor she say this. Bicos if she was first smoke igbo, she must shout aaaaasaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaass. But she just talk small small like good persin.
There is no doubt this woman suffers serious abuse in her relationship but she is careless on her own’s part to let her husband be picking up her menstrual pad around the house. A well cultured woman would never allow any man let alone your husband see her menstrual pad flowing around the house. Your husband may be picking up after you because you are not clean enough. Some men do not like in hygienic women. On the other hand if your hubby is one of those money conscious guy you have given him a leeway to take your pad to native doctor for money ritual.
Why he no go siez your menstrual pad. You be mens? Menstrual pad is for mens. Womenstrual pad is for womens. I am not know wetin mens are do womens weyris make womens leave their thing to be wearing mens thing. Womens are leave skirt to be wearing trouser weyris mens get am. Now they have leave womenstrual pad to de wearing menstrual pad. Nonsens. Your husband sopos to siez am. Naijagists abeg wetin be menstrual pad. I no get am o. I never see am bifor. E de be like jacket or trouser? It remain many things wey I am doesn’t knows o.
IT SEEMS 13YRS MARRIAGES WITH 3 CHILDREN ARE SUFFERING FROM BREAKUP THIS TIME. MAYBE SINCE YOU ARE NOT ALLOWING HIM TO ENJOY THE CONJUGAL PROPERTY,HE WAS SNIFFING AT IT TO KNOW WHAT WENT WRONG.
woman you applied wisdom. Better to be saved than slave.
Apart from Eranko and Jill, the rest of you are a ********* . Bench ,what is men’s and women’s pad? Please stay away from media if you are severally uneducated. I feel sorry for Nigeria. Are you the present and future representation of Nigeria. So sad . Please read a book, learn something meaningful and intelligent everyday.