April 22, 2016 – 3 Things Married Men Want From Their Wives
Ever wonder why your man is acting strangely, is there anything you wish he could do differently from what he is doing right now, the simple solution is a good understanding of the psychology of men.
Some women feel men don’t need to be loved and cared for. They feel we men care only about food and sex. Maybe in those days, but not any longer.
The popular saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach is no longer true at all. Men also want to be loved and cared for by their wives, but in a different way?. So how do you show that you love and really care for your husband? How do you show it?
1. Take Your Man Out On A Date: This sounds unbelievable but it is very true. Men love to be dated as much as women do. So why don’t you plan a weekend or even a day off for both of you? And present the plan to him, all signed, sealed and delivered. Of course you are the one inviting him out. So don’t involve him with the planning or the finance. Especially the finance. You will be pleasantly surprised at his reactions.
In fact his friends and colleagues will become envious. Because he will never allow them to rest about how his wife took him out on a date.
2. Mutual Participation In Bed. My dear, for you to be always willing and ready for him is not enough. Don’t just always lie down there like a piece of log of wood. You must participate and even initiate the sex at times. Ratio 1-4 is fine. This means if you have sex 5 times, one of those times must be you initiating.The best of course is one to one.
3.Make Him Safe At Home. I’m not talking about physical safety. Of course no man expects you to confront armed robbers at night whilst he stays hidden inside the cupboard. No way. What we expect is for you to be able to keep our secrets secret.
Even when we have challenges. Some women whenever there is any misunderstanding between them and their wives use such secrets to taunt them.
Especially when it has to do with money or sex. Worse still some will taunt their husbands openly about their inability to perform on the bed. Either due to small manhood, premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction in public.
Even when they are fighting each other. This is why most men keep things from their wives. Fear of exposure. Especially about sex. By the way, no man should allow this to happen. Because there are natural solutions for all of them. See an expert doctor. Don’t just patronise quacks both online and offline.
[Dr Taiwo Fadeyi]