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AIT Presenter Aisha Falode’s Only Child Killed By Arab Man In Dubai

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AIT Presenter Aisha Falode’s Only Child Killed By Arab Man In Dubai

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March 6, 2014 – AIT Broadcaster Aisha Falode Loses Only Child; Read Her Emotional Tribute To Late Son

AIT Broadcaster Aisha Falode’s Only Son Killed By Arab Man In Dubai

The only child of Mrs Aisha Falode, a sport broadcaster at the African Independent Television(AIT) has died.

Oloruntoba Oluwadamilola Falode popularly called Fray Falode passed away on Saturday the 15th of February after an Arab man allegedly pushed him off a 17-Storey building.

Initial report stated that he died in a car crash but family sources have revealed the exact cause of his death.

The 19-year-old boy was a student at the University of Dubai and a budding rapper before his untimely death.

Meanwhile, his mother, Aisha has written an emotional poem titled “You’re Me, I’m You” for his burial.

The tribute reads:

I held you in my arms and my heart burst into a million pieces of joy. It was an indescribable moment. You were adorable as I touched every bit of you. Giddy with joy, I counted your toes, your fingers, tiny and wriggly; a tough bundle of joy.

Your innocent gaze upon my face, those two adorable eyes, wide and searching as only a child’s would. All the gems in Arabia would fade into insignificance at the emergence of your presence. My son had come into the world, whole and complete you were.

I had looked forward to having my own son. I carried you with pride and honour in my womb for 9 good months. Knowing that you will eventually be born made the discomforts of 9 months seem like chewing a candy bar. Here at last you were.

As you grew up into a most interesting young star, you were my joy. In all of my trying moments, knowing that you trusted me and believed in me spurred me through even the roughest terrain. Your childhood was joyful. Your sister and you were my life. You still are my life. Nothing can erase your memory, not a thousand winds or a million rainfalls can replace those memories, not even a fearsome volcano can wipe you from me.
You are me, I am you.

I am devastated, I am pained, I am inconsolable, I am a mother shattered. Who can console me but God? He knows best and did they not say those HE loves HE calls home early?

My Son, the curtain fell too early for you, for us. I am in the audience; I cannot jump on the stage where you are. Even if I could, the curtain is drawn already. I cannot reach you. I am tempted to say, why me, but why not me? God loves us. HE took you my bundle of joy, even now I lean on HIM. I can see you, stretching out those strong arms, I see you trying to console me, I see you saying:

“Mum, it was meant to be, it is not your fault”, I see you. I see you everywhere.
Together, we walked for 19yrs, you brought me joy. You excelled in your academics, you made me a proud mother as you grew into a handsome, responsible, caring, humane, disciplined man. I will forever remember you my son. Those fun times, the times you held me when I was down, like the man of the house, which you became so early in life…I am consoled because I know for sure that you are in the bosom of the LORD.

I know for sure that we will meet again. You have not died, you are only asleep. This thought will keep me going until I behold your delightful presence again. I know you are here for I am you and you are me.

We feel your pain Aisha… Take heart God will console you.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.



  1. Tokunbo Rainbow

    March 6, 2014 at 9:01 PM

    what is he doing in dubai when there good private uni. in Nigeria
    Nigerians pls stop killing ur kids
    rip tobi

    • zainab

      March 6, 2014 at 10:15 PM

      u dnt hav to say xo All u hav to say is R I P. And may his gently soul rest in peace

    • AgasBaba

      March 7, 2014 at 4:57 AM

      Why not keep ur stinky brain shut if you have nothing tangible to say..Ode

    • Akinbola

      March 7, 2014 at 7:05 AM

      Tokunbo, Y r u so heartless? Ur negative opinion is nt welcome if u av nothing gud n consoling words to say…………..Do u even av feelings for human? I doubt.

  2. kelly

    March 6, 2014 at 9:52 PM

    May his soul rest in perfect peace,
    The Lord will console the mother and all the member of the family.

  3. preshy

    March 6, 2014 at 10:24 PM

    Tokunbo y r u asking a baseless questn,r u sayin if ur parent cn afford to send u abroad to study,u wnt go?…guy abeg say sumthin beta jare….may hs soul n d soul of all d faithful departed tru d mercy of GOD rest in peace.amen!

  4. dupe

    March 6, 2014 at 10:30 PM

    So sad. I feel your pains madam. God ll console u

  5. olatoun

    March 6, 2014 at 10:50 PM

    Falode’s family God will console you especially the mother.Reading the tribute made me cry but God is unquestionable and we all die someday.RIP

  6. fac

    March 6, 2014 at 10:51 PM

    So sad Rip in peace boy, may God console u woman. Pls a lesson only son of a person is like an egg at least she shld hav put him in any good uni in nigeria though death is inevitable.

  7. Ola

    March 6, 2014 at 10:53 PM

    What a sad news Rip TOBA

  8. chukwuemeka

    March 6, 2014 at 10:57 PM

    May his soul rest in perfect peace Amen. God brings & God takes. Take heart AISHA & stop crying for there’s no amount of tears shed during cry would bring him back to life ok.Death is inevitable & there will every one go to. We all are dust & to dust we shall all return.I know it’s so painful to lose such a grown up guy like him after much cash that’s being invested on him through-out his education. We all love you AISHA. May almighty God heal your broken heart & wipe away your tears. Take care k.

  9. Ogieriakhi

    March 6, 2014 at 11:14 PM

    Too bad…rest in peace young man, please madam take it easy.

  10. Eduvie Donald

    March 6, 2014 at 11:14 PM

    Those gulf nations are evil, demonic and diabolical and yet, people still go there – RIP!!!

  11. Nigeria Black

    March 6, 2014 at 11:15 PM

    ooo shit maybe the guy go sit for work at the wrong time

  12. Ritz Inyang

    March 6, 2014 at 11:16 PM

    What a painful loss,pls take heart nd RIP Toba.

  13. T

    March 6, 2014 at 11:22 PM

    It’s a terrible thing to lost a child not to talk of only child, mrs Aisha nothing I can say but it’s only God that can console you .
    I pray zit hat God will not leave you he will make you strong to bear the lost take heart . Rest in peace Oloruntoba Falade Adieu .

  14. T

    March 6, 2014 at 11:25 PM

    Rest in peace Oloruntoba , may God console your mom to bear the lost.

  15. Prophet Gbenga Rotimi "KINI IWO NFE"

    March 7, 2014 at 4:59 AM

    OH LORD, console this woman. MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE.

  16. Hjovial

    March 7, 2014 at 5:34 AM

    “Your SISTER and you were my life”

    NaijaGists palava!

    …R.I.P Toba

  17. Chika

    March 7, 2014 at 7:50 AM

    May the soul of Tobi rest in peace and madam, I thank God for who you are, believing in Him that he is able to keep Tobi in safe hand and for you who took the life you cannot give, the wrath of God will fall upon you. You did not even think of the pain the family of the boy will go through should you harm him. Will, we leave everything to God Almighty who knows best.

  18. Saphire

    March 7, 2014 at 8:20 AM

    Tears runs uncontrolable down my cheek reading this tribute….am tempted to ask God why…..God knws best…take hrt the great heroin and Rest in perfect peace the young star

  19. jones ogbonnaya vera

    March 7, 2014 at 8:51 AM

    The agony of a mother. Aisha take heart and may his soul rest in perfect peace. I had experience so I feel your pain.

  20. patience

    March 7, 2014 at 9:17 AM

    I feel 4 u madam,may he soul R.I.P.

  21. atinuke

    March 7, 2014 at 10:30 AM

    RIP Toba.

  22. atinuke

    March 7, 2014 at 10:32 AM

    rip Toba

  23. cindy

    March 7, 2014 at 12:28 PM

    God will keep, consoling you.RIP

  24. onowu harmless

    March 7, 2014 at 1:38 PM


  25. joe

    March 7, 2014 at 3:13 PM

    Hmmmmm, may his soul resp in peace

  26. Berty

    March 7, 2014 at 4:08 PM

    Hmmmmm,so pathetic. may his soul RIP.

  27. captain

    March 7, 2014 at 5:20 PM

    God knows everything!! He know the reason why He took him from you(madam). Take heart and may Almighty God that no man can withstand console you and your entire family. May the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace; Amen!!

  28. Dee

    March 7, 2014 at 6:12 PM

    1. Never send teenagers to school abroad as these kids are to young to be left alone so far from parents management
    2. Create boundaries for your kids at a young age – in a place kike Dubai, these kids live a very very, very reckless life style, and its no surprise when this kind of things happen.
    3. Parents send their kids to school here with no GUARDIANS or checks and balances, allow them easy and unlimited access to cash (What is an UNDERGRADUATE doing living in Dubai Marina, where rents start at least 3 Million Naira Equivalent per year?
    4. A word is enough for the wise, if you must send kids abroad to study, and Ghana is not modern enough for a First Degree program, you should consider that GUARDIANSHIP for that ward, for the duration of the program. As a parent you want a well rounded graduate at the end of 4 years, not a wild, despondent, unruly child. Most of these universities do have Hostel accommodation provided, why setup your kid like a “Multi-millionaire Rich Kid” if indeed he/she is here to study?
    5. Lessons learned unfortunately this cannot be reversed.

  29. Ajala Adeola

    March 7, 2014 at 6:24 PM

    Unquestionable God!
    It is well…..

  30. Teelove

    March 7, 2014 at 9:56 PM

    It is very painful 4 one to loose one future, madam sorry 4 d irrepairable loss. But has d offender been brought to book?

  31. sussan

    March 8, 2014 at 4:12 AM

    R.I.P Toba,…

  32. Melody

    March 8, 2014 at 4:17 AM

    Hmmm;nigerians i wonder d kind of pple u i;u guys i even more heartles than dese countries that dese killins i happenin;somone is dead instead of u to sympathise wit her;all u guys nw do is to b typin some kind of shits here;askin y pple send dere children to abroad to study bcos poverty hv blocked u pples head;LET ME ASK U GUYS DIS QUESTION;
    Please nigerian stop criticisin nd criticising all d time;dis y tins i even worst nww in dis country;if u dnt no hw to comment on a particular page;jes relax instead of typin shit all d time:Am so angry wit u guys:

  33. Melody

    March 8, 2014 at 4:30 AM

    Hmmmmm;Mrs aisha;i may nt no u nd we may hv neva meant before;but wit construction of ur poem i no hw painful it truly is to miss nd lose someone so dear to u;hw wich tears could bring him back;bt it wont;so my dear;plss nd plssss take heart;i no u i inconsolable nww nd dat dis memory cn nva b erased till u last;bt try to b strong;God knows d d ansa to all ur questions nwww;stand still nd try to subdue ur pains;its jes a matter of time;God we all revenge for us:
    I no u feel empty nwwww;bt i assure u u i nt alone;ur creator is still vry much wit u;remeba tough times dnt last bt tough do;dat vaccum dat ur boy left is irreplacable bt try alwaz try to replace it wit his past alwaz feel he is still wit u nd dnt tink he is gone;tnks;

  34. daudouye

    March 8, 2014 at 8:25 AM

    R.1.P Aisha, n may God strengthen u ma’am to carry on.


    March 9, 2014 at 2:09 AM


  36. Alhaji Olatunde Lawal

    March 9, 2014 at 8:46 AM

    The Agony of a true Mother:

    Hmmmmmm Aisha you such a mother I feel your sorrow please take heart,when reading your motherly message tears rolled down from my eyes,I feel like you’re my mother, It’s very painful for one to loose the only son in the family, but God is there to strengthen u and the remaining Fray Falode’s Sisters to bear the lost. R.I.P FRAY.

  37. red

    March 10, 2014 at 3:26 PM

    Aisha, Am so sorry for your lost and pain. I know sorry can’t solve this problem or bring him back to you.Be brave and hope in God,Don’t let this weigh you down physiological .The God that brought him to you will rebuild your broken walls,he will never let you down or leave you nake.May his soul rest in peace.

  38. HERO

    March 25, 2014 at 1:25 PM


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