Baby Mama, Child Custody Battle: Open Letter To Mike Adenuga’s Son, Eniola

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April 17, 2016 – Baby mama, Child Custody Battle: Open Letter To Mike Adenuga’s Son, Eniola 

OPEN LETTER TO RICH KID, MIKE ADENUGA’s SON

A Reply To Eniola Adenuga’s Child Custody Battle story

It is so disheartening that you could allow this kind of mess in the social media . Well you could have foreseen this with all your exposure and affluence . I believed two of you adult are consenting and might have been in love before the pregnancy issue or possibly in relationship of convenience.

As a consenting adult, two of you could have prevented this mess from happening g by using protection rather drawing a shameful show to yourselves. Hence you have to tread careful.

Mind you since there is no marriage between you too, that does not give you superiority over your baby mama. Yes you both could have a share of the custody , I do not see reason why you should have more over the woman that carry the pregnancy and went through hard time . Sweetie money is not all .

You claimed to have spent thousand of pounds on the baby mama during pregnancy, believe me it is because you chose to do it. There are many good hospitals there in Nigeria that she can use . Well I think your wealth and class made you to.

The more some mother in law try to keep to their business , the less stressful relationship becomes better. How could Mike Adenuga’s wife expect baby mama to be spending fortnight in their house when they are not married, don’t you want her to have a life, sheer wickedness. Just for the sake of having contact with your grandchild?

If what I read is true , why did you go to the baby mama’s house with police ? This is a total HARASSMENT which could make you guilty under the court of law.

The baby father as an adult need to be able to sort out his mess without mummy and vice versa from the other end .

Baby mama, you are in it for a long time and you all need to find a common ground.
Baby father , you went to your baby mama’s house and you found out that your baby was living in squalor.

What you defined as a poor environment as a rich kid could be a heaven for others. All you need is to define the environment in appropriate way rather that insulting your baby mama’s end.

Notwithstanding , you should not expect the baby mama not to have a life . She is a career woman and you need to respect that. At least if you do not want to marry her, you should allow her to move on. I do not see reason why she should be sitting down at home with almost 2yrs old for 2years old . It is real wickedness

Baby daddy , I share your pain and you do not have to marry your baby mama but respect for the mother of your kids goes a lot.

I am tired of the rich kids in Nigeria behaving as if they are above the law. Mind you, the wealth are of you parents not yours, please do have fear of God.

Lastly , I am fed up of you best school , 600,000 school fees , they are just numbers and does not make a child or train a successful child . Your father is a testimony , never had this background but went on to be successful in life . Agree together with your baby mama and respect her as well . Without her , there can’t be any baby .

Your mother didn’t raise you out of wedlock which is why you are thriving, if you choose to raise your child out of wedlock, do it wisely.

[By Popular commentator Dem]

16 thoughts on “Baby Mama, Child Custody Battle: Open Letter To Mike Adenuga’s Son, Eniola

  1. All dis Ajebo pikins why dem no dey fall person hand self make i put some senses into that his empty coconut head? I just see de clear definition of stupidity in him. Nonsense no go beg her na

  2. Hateful post. Pure hateful. Kai no wonder pple can’t move forward cos of hate. If u were in his position, dem u would do same so pls try shut ur trap and stop hating so good things will locate u. Bloody poor hater. Instead of ranting like a nuisance on here, y not go to one of their offices on the island n lodge a complain. Hide behind computers to drop rubbish with ur curse hands. Am sure if u were given an opportunity in his father’s coy, u would gladly accept it (mentality of someone fighting with poverty)….. SMH

    • Sweetie , just to let you know that I do not have connection to any of the parties , I am just a concerned citizen just like you . Also, may I let you know that I am a self made woman happily married with kids. Hence I will not or do not need Mike Adenuga ‘s money. With due respect to chief Adenuga
      It is just a logical thinking and if you live in a civilised environment, I guess you will have knowledge of appropriate behaviour.
      Mind you, your thought is about worshipping money I guess you lot especially girls have to think beyond that . Your handiwork will show you out anywhere you are , just like chief Adenuga ‘ wealth did.
      The write is not partial at all , it is just offering advice and opinion to the parties . Moreso, as a woman who have gone through reproduction through pregnancies, I know what it takes to have a child and wait for someone to take such child away all for the sake of wealth. Consider yourself, if you have ever gone through childbirth , I consider your opinion valid , otherwise keep it to yourself.
      Also , the woman in question can only be denied access if only incapacitated e.g
      Serious mental health, serious illness, even that does not totally denied of motherhood.

  3. i wonder who wrote this open letter, i wonder what their relationship is to the parties involved. this letter seems to be anti-Adenuga. i wonder why its so personal to the writer. i believe its only fair to applaud him for going to court in the first place. some fathers wouldn’t care. all they say is ‘when the kid grows, he ll ask of me’ this man has actually made an effort, he paid hospital bills et al
    some women can be very vindictive. they use their kids as weapons ie if you don’t marry me, you cant be in my child’s life. i stand unbiased, subject to debate, both parties are in the wrong especially the baby mama. you would expect a mother to do what’s right by their kids

    • Sweetie , just to let you know that I do not have connection to any of the parties , I am just a concerned citizen just like you . Also, may I let you know that I am a self made woman happily married with kids. Hence I will not or do not need Mike Adenuga ‘s money. With due respect to chief Adenuga
      It is just a logical thinking and if you live in a civilised environment, I guess you will have knowledge of appropriate behaviour.
      Mind you, your thought is about worshipping money I guess you lot especially girls have to think beyond that . Your handiwork will show you out anywhere you are , just like chief Adenuga ‘ wealth did.
      The write is not partial at all , it is just offering advice and opinion to the parties . Moreso, as a woman who have gone through reproduction through pregnancies, I know what it takes to have a child and wait for someone to take such child away all for the sake of wealth. Consider yourself, if you have ever gone through childbirth , I consider your opinion valid , otherwise keep it to yourself.
      Also , the woman in question can only be denied access if only incapacitated e.g
      Serious mental health, serious illness, even that does not totally denied of motherhood.

    • Believe sweetie , these are two consenting adults.Paying for hospital bill is not a big deal . If he claim to be the father on the then foetus , then it is right for him to pay but it is by choice whichever hospital he chose to deliver the baby . I believe the baby mama in question is also a carrier woman which indicates that she can as well cater for the baby herself . Having said this , they both need to deal with the situation .My problems is when the public show passion or sympathy for the baby father because he is a rich kids ,it is totally depressing .
      Women need to stand up for their right. This is why many feels it is right to be violent towards women or in law take advantage of women or men in relationship

  4. Dat was wot i said earlier..
    Hw can d judge grant favour 2 a man who haven’t pay a woman bride price not evenwithstanding her rude behaviour on d step he took..
    But everytin has spoken 4 itself, just bcos he come 4rm a wealthy home & unlawful country nigeria were anytin can happen aslong as u re rich..
    As a matter of fact why is it dat naija gist can’t show d person in concern rather than his father

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