How My Sister Abused & Slapped Her American Husband In Nigeria (Reply To Chika Ike’s Domestic Abuse Claim)

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August 12, 2013 – How My Sister Abused & Slapped Her American Husband In Nigeria (Reply To Chika Ike’s Domestic Violence Claim)

This story is a response to Nollywood actress Chika Ike’s domestic violence claim in her last marriage.

Few days ago, Chika Ike shared a mind-sobbing story of what she went through in her former marriage, how she lost her pregnancy and her narrow escape from death in the hand of her former husband, Mr Tony Eberiri.

Minutes after the actress released her abuse story, some skeptics refused to believe her story stating it’s a one-sided story.

One of Chika Ike’s critics named Chioma has narrated a sad story of how her blood sister used to maltreat her husband in America and how she slapped him during his father’s burial in front of family members in Nigeria.

Hear Chioma in her own words below;

My sister and her husband are based in New York, USA. My sister, her hubby and their two sons visited Nigeria this last April for the burial ceremony of her hubby’s late father. What really suprised my family is the way my sister was treating her hubby especially in the presence of our family, friends and public. A day before her father inlaw’s burial, I caught my sister slapping her husband and I was so furious about that. I confronted my sister right away about her senseless behaviour so that her hubby would know that my family did not support that kind of behaviour. I asked how would she feel if she found her son’s wife slapping him.

I told her that, I would never treat my hubby the way she treated her hubby in my presence. She ordered me to leave their hotel room instead of showing remorse for her bad actions. I reported her to our mother and asked my mother how would she feel if she catch my younger brother’s wife slapping him.

My mother said she would not be happy, and I told our mother that, that was exactly what I caught my sister doing to her hubby, who was still mourning the loss of his father. Our mother sent for her and talked sense into her brain, but she would not listen instead making justifications for her misdeeds. At one point, I was shocked when my sister said, she had to treat her hubby that way because he was a big fool that needed to be scolded at all times.

My mother, myself and my younger brother met with my sister’s hubby and begged him for my sister’s behaviour. The man told us that, that was a piece of what he had been going through in America. He told us that, my sister had called police on him more than twice, trying to get him into trouble, but police never acted on her false claims. Before this visit, my sister used to call us in Nigeria and lied to us that her hubby was mistreating and abusing her, but looking at her behaviour towards her hubby during their visit to Nigeria, it became clear to us that she was the one abusing her hubby. My sister’s hubby is such a nice man and we all knew that before she joined him in America, and we were all shocked when she started talking about domestic abuse about two years after she arrived in America and labelled the man (her hubby) as a monster.

So, I dont buy a single story from Chika Ike’s story. She needs to examine herself so that she will not commit same blunders in her next marriage.

Women are not the only victims of domestic abuse, most men today are also silent victims of domestic violence.

23 thoughts on “How My Sister Abused & Slapped Her American Husband In Nigeria (Reply To Chika Ike’s Domestic Abuse Claim)

  1. Chioma or what ever u called ur self, even though ur sisther did all those things u claimed,are u suppose to publicise her? This is a family issue that can be settled amicably at the family level,why making it a public issue and expossing ur sisther into the hands of condemers? Will that solve the issue? Now, what benefit have u achieved by doing so? SHAME on u!

    • Well everyone there are some situations that requires assistants okay not everything U̶̲̥̅̊ keep inside okay just in case anything happens now U̶̲̥̅̊ pple that are talking like this will be †ђξ one to condemn her

  2. She is trying to tell us dat men can also be victims of domestic abuse.so let’s pls look at d mens point of view before we jump into any conclusion .as for dis chike ikes case I think she is jst lookin for way to dump her husband for richer men

  3. Look we should all try to learn wen issues like dis comes up, chioma only want us to understand Ъᵗ some women are very terrible. Look victory u dont cover evil. Chika ike is not wise enough to deal wit her marital issues and if care is not taking Ѕнᴱ will keep running. U don’t run from problem u deal with them cos dat were ur maturity comes in. Any way maturity i say is not age .

  4. @ Victory and @ Ekpo . Education , open-mindedness and exposure goes a long way. I wonder where you left your brain . @ chioma , i love you . The fact is that abuse should not be tolerated at all . if your brothers are in such shoes as explained above , will you take it? .
    Many men had committed suicide or have their children taken away from them due to lies of some women. It is a two way thing , it does not only happened to woman , men suffers it a lot . If you emotionally suffer someone , brain torture them as Chika does to her husband, then she is bound to receive enough beating
    Look Niger girls , do not be deceived by the new Lagos law that u are all hailing. I believe that if you hide under such law , you will all remain single especially LAGOS girls.
    Ko si ibi ti ise o si. A man does not have to beat you before he become violence, you can be emotional tortured, sexually abuse which is worse.
    Why did the your Governor has to married two wives and has many comcubines before he can become satisfied ? Well if you want happy home use your head.
    As per Chika, married a coporate guy at 20yrs , definitely u were not working then and no education , and yet living in 2bedroom in lagos which is very expensive is not enough for you , then you must be ungrateful ,idiot. So when you started working , you realised the guy is below your standard . You are a fool .
    We will see how you will manufacture your own husband. Ask your mother and women in your village what they endured in their marriage .
    Nigeria girlssss, stop living in denials .Omotola Jolade said African man want respect and that is why she is enjoying her home , if you do, they will treat you well . Do you want to tell me that Omotola has not gone through abuse in the past ? Meenh, she keeps her head down , even when the media were carrying it around.
    i can’t say cos i am a london girl and i treat my husband according to English law . lol another woman is outside there that will treat him better and bring the best in him. I do not tolerate abuse in any way, girls retrace your step and do not push men to treat you badly . We are Africans and stop treating your husband like English boy
    Wake up girls a word is enough for the wise.

    • Look dem chika ike has started acting before she got married although her story is one sided but any man who beat his pregnant wife is a beast & coward his should challenge his fellow men in a fight if he is not.
      Women are weaker vessils so u need more patience in dealing with them they not your slaves & as for chioma pls pray for sister & not judge her she must be submissive to her hubby b4 she losses him & pls mind your business pray 4 your own home execept if u want your sis hubby to find comfort in which will make u worster then her

  5. @dem my dear i love ur talk, u see money is not every thing what matters in a woman is how respectful u’r ladies we should learn how 2 be submisive 2 them (man)4 God has made them head over us (woman).

  6. Thanks a lot Chioma, I appreciate your shared experience.
    @ Victory and Ekpo, you need not be myopic with your level of understanding. We are all adults and the watch word here is “respect”.
    We have a culture as Nigerians for our women to respect the men, but trust me, a lot of that has been flushed down. My husband, as educated as he is, once told me during our courtship stage that though he’s lived out of Nigeria over half of his life, he would want me address him as ‘e’, rather than ‘o’. For my non-speaking yoruba brothers and sisters, e is for older people, while o for mates and those younger.
    We ladies of today let fame and money rule our hearts…..we need to check ourselves and be careful, for only you can shape your destiny! Respect your husbands and see if they wont treat and pamper u as golden eggs.
    This is a challenge to all the ladies out there……even the Bible preaches it.
    God bless you all!

  7. victory you must be mad honestly…you are wise without a single knowlege…people like you turn to slave after marriage

  8. Any man dat beats d wife to d point of loosing a pregnancy is a monster nomatter what!!! I hate breakups but I think Chika took a very wise decision…..u must not die cos u want to remain married…..As for ds chioma….I don’t know what to say abt ur level of stupidity……smh

  9. Domestic violence is not always directed toward women. Men half of the times are victims and because the want people to believe they are incharge die in silence. Often fake claims of abuse by women are accepted as credible.

  10. I think chika ike took d right decision coz som women hz loose dere lives interms of dz domestic violence.u hv only one life n dz world so u dnt need 2 use it carelessly al bcoz u wnt 2 kip ur marriage.As 4 dat ragamuffic idiot cald chioma,u r ntin bt a gossip.

  11. Most times ppl comment bcs it’s free. Dat’s y they open their mouths evn wdout havn wat 2say. 1st off, dis name, Chioma, could neva b d real name of dis poster 4 security reasons. So doze of u who reproach her 4 d eye-opening truth she told us should take not. 2ndly, Chika’s story is just her own part. We cnt draw a conclusiv line here until we hear both sides of d story. Chika claims she lost her preg bcs of d abuse. So sad! A man who beats his pregnant wife is surely less dan a beast. But com 2 think of it. Wat if dis Chika wz lying? Wat if she wz neva pregnant in d 1st place? Wat is dis whole thing is2whip up sentiments against her ex so dat ppl wud support her quitting? I’m only asking, bcs I’v learnt a lot frm dis Chioma’s story. Some men, true, r beasts. But women can as wel b terribl.

  12. Well done Chioma. Your sister is someone who needs help and lacks honor. But her pain also lurks. When I look at our Naija society today I see ‘plastics’ and loss of identity. Our generation like western ideals but copy the bad aspect of the west. (Women abusing their husbands is one of them.) Many of these people do not know the value of their marriages or what they bring to the table therefore, they measure their marriages by what others do. False competition. I don’t tolerate abuse but there is a trend in many Naija women abroad that they have to lie against their husbands. I’ve seen a few arresting their husbands yet police found nothing. One got divorce last month yet she was the one having afair with boyfriend she left 28 yrs ago. Here in UK the worst wives are those women their husbands went to marry from home. Here’s the problem; they get into the myth of, ‘this is what they say they do in London..’ married but living as single women. Sometimes, the men are not exonerated from these foolishness. Where are the Real Naija women who build their homes? My wife and I value each other’s company and we are best of friends. There are set of values we discussed before we got married we pray for God’s help daily. What we love and hate. I love her to honor and respect her feelings. I don’t flirt with other women because I am too holy. I stay away from those things because it messes up lives and relationships with wife and children. I believe she shares the same value. Does it mean we don’t have our differences? No, but we do it without raising hands with mindful words. I think we all have to examine our beliefs, our relationship to money and children. The root of these unfathomable abuse lie within these factors. Nothing is as painful as those around you not realizing that they are the missing puzzle in your lives. It’s like slow death. Let’s hope Chioma’s sister learns this quickly.

  13. Chioma Ur level of understanding showed that, U are a true Africa woman, don’t mind does who abuse by saying is a family mater not public and forgotten de problem share is problem solve. They are already abandoned properties. Kodo to U (Chioma)

  14. D fact is dat wen a man beat his wife even to d point of losing pregnancy he is probably not normal and d woman in question have every right to leave the fool. I am a man and I hate that act because u don’t correct someone by beating d person to death.

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