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How To Relate With The Special Man In Your Life

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How To Relate With The Special Man In Your Life

As women, it is important to learn how to relate with the special man in your life to get the best from him, and be a fulfilled woman.

Here are key things men look for in the women they love.


Every man wants a woman who is homely, one that will make a house into a home.

No man wants a woman about town, one who goes everywhere, never remaining at home. There is an art to this, and it must be learned at all costs.

This trait was taught and cherished in traditional African societies that have been thrown out of the window in the name of civilization.

You should always find time out of your busy schedule to spend moments with your man and family.


Committing to a relationship is a big step for any man, so when you have a man who has made a commitment to you, either in marriage or relationship, pay him the same compliment.

No games, please. Be transparent in your commitment.

For some reasons, many ladies think it is okay to keep more than one man, but it is really not worth it.


An industrious woman is hardworking, whether in keeping the home or maintaining the equilibrium in the relationship, or her workplace.

There are ladies today who can’t cook, clean, wash or keep their environments clean.

Also, the reality of the financial situation in the country demands that women work, if not outside the home, but at least do something to supplement the family income.

The truth is that most guys today are not ready to commit themselves to women who don’t have a means of livelihood as they are seen as liabilities.


Every man wants his woman to love him. How? Give unconditional love. Show him affection. Be nice to him, especially when times are rough or he is feeling down.

Treat him with kindness always, not only when he buys you things or is nice to you. As human beings, we need love the most when we deserve it the least. So treat your man with the kindness you would extend to your baby, spouse, or dearest relative, come what may and he will show you the same.

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Feed him with his love language, for some its acts of service, for others, words of affirmation, or touch. Whatever it is, find out what your man likes or wants.


Men are wired in a peculiar way, what do I mean by this? Every man wants to be treated with respect from his woman. For men, their ego is of utmost importance.

As such, the wise woman will treat her man with utmost respect.

How do I show respect? Some ladies ask, by deferring to him, in all things, by not criticizing him to anyone, by treating him like your man.

Why? Because in every man there is a king, and a boy, treat him like a king and he will treat you like a queen.


Every man wants a woman he can trust. Not one who says one thing in the morning and another thing at night. But one who is so reliable. So ladies, no lies, no tricks.

Don’t be in Lagos and say you are in Abuja, the truth can never be hidden for long, and a lie will always be exposed. Also, honesty; which is an integral part of integrity builds trust and sustains a relationship.

Be the type of woman your man can trust.

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  1. Dotun

    November 12, 2019 at 5:17 AM

    well said can you write things women look for in men. I have one that never gets satisfied. Looking for ways to please her before I ask her to marry me

    • Ruth

      November 12, 2019 at 3:11 PM

      Looking for ways to please her before marriage? Once you marry her, trust me you to PLEASE HER FOREVER. Best is to get her to UNDERSTAND you as a person, with that, you can build your relationship together. Relationship building is just like team working. I am in my 50’s and I have seen how relationships break down when a man tries too hard to please his woman, especially when there are children in the relationship and the woman does not care. It also applies to when a woman tries hard to please her man and the man does not care. So understanding, trust, respect and love are what you need to build your relationship. Also remember to keep your relationship as One to One (heart to heart) and not One to Many.
      Take care.

  2. uzoma

    November 12, 2019 at 4:05 PM

    Well said. A lot of women have thrown this out of the window due to Western influence.

  3. Bintu

    November 12, 2019 at 4:23 PM

    I really appreciate this post.

  4. Gbolagade Ibrahim

    November 12, 2019 at 4:25 PM

    naijaigsts I like you load, please keep up posts like this. More business ideas and health tips will also help

  5. Mon

    November 15, 2019 at 6:36 AM

    I guess the # 1 has to do with cooking him his favorite dishes….and don’t be sarcastic in rejecting his sexual arouses..

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