By NG Relationship Expert
- How To Improve Relationship With Your Family, Husband, Wife, Girlfriend Or Boyfriend
- Guide To Making A Relationship Better When It Is Bad
Man is naturally a social animal. We can hardly thrive without relationships. They are a massive part of our lives; we can’t live without them. Even though sometimes it is very difficult to keep up with them but as time goes on, you will realize that they are one of the most important things in life, and yet also one of the easiest things to neglect.
Let’s just say that relationships are like flowers that need to be watered by two or more people in order to survive. when it is just one person that keep watering the flower, the tendency that it will wither and die is high. But then, rather than waiting for the other person to start watering the flower before you do, why not take the initiative and start the watering first? Who knows, you might just trigger them into watering it as well.
There are no doubts that relationships with family, husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend always go through testing times and there will always be ups and downs. Sometimes they will let you down and sometimes you’ll let them down. But by practicing the points below you can help reinforce those bonds so that the hitches along the way can be smoothed over quickly.
- Always keep in touch.
How often do you check on people? Your friends? Your family? Those you hold dear? Your girlfriend? Boyfriend? Husband? Wife? These days technology have made it so easy to keep in touch and yet we still find ourselves drifting apart. Technology can help you keep in touch but it can never replace being together in person. Even though someone doesn’t really check up on you, still try to check up on the person. Communication is by far the bedrock of any relationship. Without communication, there is no relationship.
- Spend quality time together.
One way to better your relationship with your partner or your family is to do things together that you both enjoy. Finding joy in the time you spend together can help build a stronger friendship and a deeper bond. As for your partner, you could spend more time with them by recreating your first date together, taking a vacation or weekend gateway, playing video games together, having a pillow fight even though it sounds childish or you guys can simply go swimming together.
- Don’t forget birthdays and other important dates.
A girl once told me that the moment her boyfriend forgets her birthday, she was going to break up with him straightaway. I actually laughed but thinking about it, she doesn’t sound petty. For someone to forget your special day goes a long way to show that they hardly have you in mind. Yeah, there are some people who claim that they aren’t bothered about people remembering their birthdays but actually everyone appreciates it. But then, these days with Facebook and other social media platforms. it’s easier than ever to keep track of birthdays.
- Master the art of listening.
Some people don’t know how to listen. Perhaps they listen just so they could respond but really listening goes beyond that. It requires complete concentration, giving space to the other person, and not interjecting your own thoughts and feelings at the wrong moment.When lovers listen to each other emphatically, they foster a closer connection.
- Learn to open up.
Opening up about your feelings is a good way to improve a relationship. Even though some men think opening up about their feelings makes them vulnerable, it goes a long way to reinforce the relationships they have either with their wives or girlfriends. Telling your partner how much you love them; the specific things you love about them; how much you value them in your life. Particularly, I love it when my boyfriend calls me unexpectedly to tell me how much he loves me. It makes me blush and I go on throughout that day feeling fly.