Oct 23, 2016 – I Feel Guilty For Cheating On My Kind Boyfriend, I Love Him So Much But Can’t Stop Seeing Other Guys
I’m a 25 year old lady in a relationship with a 32 year old man, but I have a serious problem. I love the attention of other men. I feel like an ungrateful person because I’m blessed with the most mature, kind, loving, understanding generous man; yet, I keep cheating on him.
We’ve been together for a little over a year now and in the course of our relationship I’ve cheated three times with three different men. I don’t have any emotional attachment with these men, as I keep them only for the attention.
I have countless other men constantly calling me, taking me out and giving me gifts. I just love the attention and I know I need to end it, because my boyfriend is talking serious about marriage. We give each other the freedom to hang out with other friends and he feels when I am out, I’m with my girlfriends.
Recently, he told me that he loves me so much and that’s the reason he doesn’t check my phone or messages because he doesn’t need a reason to distrust me. I feel so bad because he works really hard and even when I was faced with financial problems, he was there for me. I love him too much but I can’t stop seeing other guys. I enjoyed being chased by multiple guys and making them to prove their love but right now I’m stuck with this ‘habit’ and I need a way out.
Please help me out.
Clara S writes from Abuja