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Oct 22, 2012 – Kate Henshaw Speaks Up On Her Failed Marriage, Divorce – I’m Not Looking

Nollywood actress Kate Henshaw who was involved in a messy divorce with her ex British husband, Roderick James Nutall has spoken up for the very first time since the divorce. naijagists.com

In this recent interview, the actress spoke on issues surrounding her divorce amongst other things

Interview excerpt below:

How have you been able to cope with the separation?

I don’t know what to say. The Bible says, “He makes all things beautiful in His own time.” When you are down at the rock bottom, that is when God will lift you up. People have died in their marriages, some have lost one part or the other, some are still married, they have spent 30, 40 years in their marriage. You have to make the best out of your situation and move up. I have so much I want to do, I don’t have to wallow in self pity. That is just an aspect of me. Marriage does not define anybody. Our daughter is the most important thing. We have to make sure she is happy, she gets the best.

Through it all, stories are flying all round. What was your reaction then, what lesson did you learn from it?

I was driving through traffic one day, a vendor who knew me brought a magazine, saying, “Na you be this, you have to buy it”. I just laughed. They said I was dating Tonye Cole. Tonye is like a brother to me, his wife was my school mother. I called the two of them and we laughed over it. It hurts. Yes, it does. It is now a year but it seemed like yesterday. I am here, smiling with you, I am just grateful for life.

Any regret?

No regret at all. My daughter came out of the union, she is the most beautiful thing ever.

Any possibility of reconciliation?

No reconciliation. Please, my daughter is the most important person, she is still part of us. we still talk about her, we are going to look after her. We talk about her welfare. The marriage just didn’t work out.

Any consideration for second marriage or new relationship?

(Laughs) I am not looking for anybody. If it comes, it comes. I cannot say I will never love any man again. I wouldn’t say that. I can’t say I won’t.

What led to the break – up?

I can’t say that.

At over 40, you are graceful. Can you tell us your beauty regime?

I work out regularly, maintenance culture is high. I love to rest, I love to travel, I eat right, I love massage. I then leave others to God. I was even dancing in DJ Zeez’s video, that was a traditional dance.

About your failed marriage, did he ever beat you?

No. He never did. I can’t just say why it failed. Marriage does not define anybody. Once it doesn’t work, we move on, although it hurts.

But I am sure so many people would have come along to date you now that you are single?

I am not looking in that direction but if an ideal man comes, it comes. I can’t say I would never love again.(interview culled from OMG)

35 Comments

35 Comments

  1. Onah Chinenye

    October 22, 2012 at 4:56 PM

    dnt worry God wil give u the idle man.

  2. Onyinye Offorkansi

    October 22, 2012 at 5:12 PM

    The lord is your strength dear.

    • Anonymous

      October 25, 2012 at 1:25 PM

      HOW IS THE LORD GOING TO BE HER STRENGTH?? she is bent on not telling the world why she left her holy matrimony & you are here consoling her, what did she do & why did she choose to show her ""beloved daughter such a bad example"??

  3. Rotimi Ajimatanrareje

    October 22, 2012 at 5:15 PM

    Rethink and remember what brought both of you together before having a child together.

  4. Tepsy

    October 22, 2012 at 7:53 PM

    Dnt giv up ur mariage 4 anyfin nd dnt ever tink of acepg anoda man cuz dats sin. Stand in d gap thru prayer Nd restor ur home as a virtous woman. Lov u

  5. Dada Titex

    October 22, 2012 at 8:38 PM

    Indeed, rethink! It wasn't because of the daughter u married each other at the first place. Things that goes wrong do always have ways of fitting them. Jesus Love U.

  6. Owen Ng'ambi

    October 22, 2012 at 9:37 PM

    God's time is the best.

  7. Dr David

    October 22, 2012 at 9:47 PM

    Why is it that the highest cases of divorce in Nigeria is recorded in Nollywood, especially among the female folks?
    Well, I think it’s because they marry for the wrong reasons like wealth, fame, looks which often don’t last. And most of the times they often neglect their duties as wives and mother, basking on the euphoria of “celebrity”. A few wks back it was reported that the reason why Monalisa Chinda divorced her husband was that he had a business set-back, thereby creating a room for her to contribute more to the family upkeep. She, now seeing the man as a failure decided to end the marriage.
    Thank God, the man is now happily married to another lady who will respect him as the man of the house.

    Woman, take my advice: Know that marriage is “for better and for worse, for richer and for poorer” you must submit to your husband, no matter who puts food on the table. These injunctions are biblical. If you can’t keep to them don’t even bother trying to get married because chances are that it the marriage will end in divorce.
    A word is enough for the wise!

    • femi

      March 26, 2013 at 7:57 AM

      I agree with Dr. David marriage is for richer and for poorer till death do them part. i will like to use this opportunity to advise ladies to ask for direction from God before going into marriage, dont go into it for the sake of doing that and dont love somebody for what he has for the moment but love him for you will be there for him in the sun and in the rain. we are not all perfect but we should continue asking for God direction in all in other not to fall apart as we move on in life. God helping us the male folk and the female folk

  8. Irikefe Jude

    October 22, 2012 at 10:05 PM

    …stupid celebrity ******** who was fornicating with several nigerian governors, their aids, & even local comedians…. shes very stupid to bring up her daughter's topic in such a case, she doesn't deserve to be a mother ***************

    • flossy

      December 6, 2012 at 3:37 PM

      i am so disapointed in you. Who are you to judge her ? u run ur moth like a tap, wat do u do in ur hidden places? did it occur to u that it may be d mans fault and not hers? were u there wen she was fornicating, ? u all shud learn to mind ur buisness and pray for ur own home!

    • flossy

      December 6, 2012 at 3:39 PM

      i am so disappointed in you Ola and Jude Who are you to judge her ? u run ur mouth like a tap, wat do u do in ur hidden places? did it occur to u that it may be d mans fault and not hers? were u there wen she was fornicating, ? u all shud learn to mind ur business and pray for ur own home!

  9. Solex Izomon

    October 22, 2012 at 10:12 PM

    your rightful man is coming don't worry.

  10. Favor zoe

    October 22, 2012 at 10:21 PM

    Rember if u are a christian u can’t marry again,i advice u to go and settle with ur husband.

  11. Precious o amanze

    October 22, 2012 at 11:32 PM

    Leave every thing for God, let His will be done in ur life, if the man is your real husband, I believe he will come back to you.

  12. odejinmi Nofisat

    October 23, 2012 at 4:17 AM

    @jude,U̶̲̥̅̊ don’t Ђɑ̤̥̈̊√ǝ̩̩̩̥ 2 use D̶̲̥̅̊ãτ̲̅ word,y would U̶̲̥̅̊ say D̶̲̥̅̊ãτ̲̅ she I̶̲̥̅̊S̤̥̈̊ stupid,did U̶̲̥̅̊ caught her goin out wit dose people U̶̲̥̅̊ mention,U̶̲̥̅̊ Ђɑ̤̥̈̊√ǝ̩̩̩̥ 2 b mindful of wat U̶̲̥̅̊ write nd d̶̲̥̅̊ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ nt criticize or judge odas.@kate,Ȋ̝̊ knows G̶̲̥̅O̶̲̥̅̊D̶̲̥̅ knows d best nd he will surely help U̶̲̥̅̊ out

  13. joan

    October 23, 2012 at 5:04 AM

    I think is the will of God, she kate is not expected to kill her self, if the oyinbo man feels he can not cope with nija fine woman like kate. Make him go gud person go come, but as for the pikin dey just have to know how to make the arrangement to care of her, kate just take am easyyyy, e go better.

  14. teewhy

    October 23, 2012 at 6:36 AM

    most peoples comment are just so irritating.we are all aware of most actress act.i guess she must have commit a crime that she can even tell to ppl herself.most of the actress are good for nothing alot.they go around sleeping wit those rich man.i think her case must be related to that?

  15. Akila

    October 23, 2012 at 7:31 AM

    inSince u knw tat “He makes all things
    beautiful in His own time’ i want 2 believe tat u also knw wat the bible says abt divorce and getn maried again as lng as ur partner s stil alive.

  16. Sunny Akande

    October 23, 2012 at 9:41 AM

    Kate, hank GOD for ur faith & trust God dat HE will make a way where u think all hope is lost, but if d fault is from u & not d man, then u need to go bck & settle ur differences. For d fact dat ur marriage produced a baby girl, pls for d sake of d girl, try to go back dam d consequences, hardship, risk, & have one or two more. It is wel with u IJN.

  17. nelly

    October 23, 2012 at 10:40 AM

    Jude,stop saying wat u don’t kw,u saw ar doing all dat were is ur prove,pple stop saying wat u don’t kw GOD is washing US.

  18. Bolalove

    October 23, 2012 at 12:19 PM

    You can still work it out if you allow the will of God, Divorce is not always the best option some times, the mistake u see in one can be as well seen in so many mariages or even worse. you guz are 2 imperfect person and it will also take two of u to work it out! Think about it dear Kate…

  19. Lydia

    October 23, 2012 at 2:02 PM

    My dear,with the way i c u exhibiting your temper on NGT Show,i think u need to work on that before getting another man.

  20. Ola

    October 23, 2012 at 2:55 PM

    It’s easier said than don, like someone says marriage is for better for worse, women of today see marriage as starting from Nursery to university level but who can judge who in any marriages. we all have coping mechanism and there is a limit to human endurance, if one party can not cope any longer in the marriage that is when they check out. no matter how you start from nursery education to university level you can never hold a PHD in marriage. I will say people should start going to altar and ask pastor to join then to compromise not marriage as I see it as compromise with each others but when adultry and fornication enter I beg e don do.

  21. Nyiam Anthony Odey

    October 23, 2012 at 4:39 PM

    please my good people og Naija Abego help me i want 2 get the form too Plaese!

  22. Nyiam Anthony Odey

    October 23, 2012 at 4:42 PM

    please my good people of Naija Help me In joining the NIGERIAM ARMY ACADEMY Recruitment

  23. Nyiam Anthony Odey

    October 23, 2012 at 4:45 PM

    please i want 2 joined NIGERIAN ARMY HELP ME

  24. Ufuoma jessica

    October 25, 2012 at 9:34 AM

    God will see u thru.

  25. Jesse

    October 25, 2012 at 1:31 PM

    All this BIG EYED LONG THROAT NOLLYHOOD GOAL DIGGERS, that is how the like taking advantage over rich guys, after exploiting them they will look for one unnecessary irrelevant excuse to work out of the marriage and continue with their promiscuse way of live. Why is she unable to tell the world why she is breaking up with the young man??????

  26. Enifome Elijah

    October 25, 2012 at 4:08 PM

    Jt do what is right.

  27. aldrch_karl

    November 3, 2012 at 9:39 AM

    their destiny dosent match, thats all….Kate you can try me, i am crazy about you

  28. nnenna o

    November 24, 2012 at 4:36 PM

    May God forgive all these celebrities. I use to admire them but now they don’t worth a thing in my eyes. On all their flambouyancy, they still don’t stand tall till the end. What a small strenght they have. Dat is why they are failing themselves and those that looks up to them. Imagine Kate of all people. Divorce no fit am. Sebi na she reject naija men for oyinbo. Now she don run out come dey look for naija. Shame.

  29. Portia Nyahoda

    January 14, 2013 at 10:30 AM

    Pray for your marriage and declare or catalambano everything that belongs to you, remember you are what the word says, so never mind what people say, there is someone who love you most, who died for you on yhe cross. His love for you is not only unconditional but itis also eternal.Only fear the Lord and follow his commandments,for it is written in Prov 1vs 7 (… the fear of the Lord is the begginingof wisdom) Its better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. God loves you

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