Lagos Prostitutes: What Married Men Tell Us About Their Wives & Why They Love To Patronize Us

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Lagos Prostitutes: What Sex Starved Married Men Tell Us About Their Wives & Why They Love To Patronize Us

Some prostitutes in Lagos had revealed why married men hire them for sexual satisfaction.

In some of the hotels and brothels PM express visited in Ejigbo, Yaba, Mushin, Ikotun, Shasha, Idimu and Agege areas of Lagos, the commercial sex workers revealed why married men are their favourite clients.

According to PM Express, one of the sex workers, simply known as Jennifer, who operated as a worker in Shasha area of Lagos said that most of her clients were married men. She said that even though she used to collect good money from them, she still pitied them as their wives were not taking care of their emotional needs at home.

She narrated that one of her clients opened up and complained that he got married some years ago and they had three children. But that since then, the wife had practically abandoned him and faced the children without knowing that he needed care as well as the children.

Jenifer said that as a graduate, she knew what those men needed and they were not getting them in their different homes. She then worked on them; they stuck to her and had been paying reasonable money unlike the single men who came with many fake stories.

She further narrated that she had three regular married clients and whenever they came, she made sure that she treated them well. She said that she usually spent good time with them, chatted them up generally, and then attended to their sexual needs which they lacked in their homes and at the end they paid her reasonable money.

Another, Miss Grace, revealed that married men were preferable because they considered and appreciated the workers more than the single men who may not want to pay at all or pay more. She however noted that dealing with married clients was a huge task, as such workers must have patience in order to treat such clients well and at the end the patience will be worth the pay as they will pay good money for the service and become regularly clients eventually.

She observed that married men preferred them because of the attention and time they usually gave to them which they were not getting from their wives in their various homes and once they got them from the workers, they get stuck to them. She said that some even got carried away and proposed to marry her but she usually declined because marriage was not part of why they became workers but money to cater for other things.

Another worker, Miss Chizoba, equally agreed with her colleagues’ assertion on married men but added not all were good clients as some may come and start telling woes of their wives at home; even making terrible demands and may not have the money to match what they want from them.

Some other workers who spoke had almost the same opinion and noted that the married clients preferred to stay longer with them because they find solace and enjoy themselves more any time they come around unlike in their homes. One Miss Anita equally noted that not all married men was worth the time because some may come and after wasting a lot of time may end up not paying the appropriate amount worth the time wasted.

Some of the patrons our reporter met at some of the joints declined to comment on the matter as they considered their coming there to patronize the workers top secrets and private lives away from their wives which should not be made public.

However, a patron at a popular hotel along Ejigbo/Ikotun Road, simply known as Emman, said that there were many reasons married men patronised those sex workers and most times they were full of excitement and fun.

He noted that the workers had a lot to offer when men have issues with their wives. He said that the workers exploit the situation to the fullest as they reckon that they had become immediate alternatives.

Emman explained that he was not getting the needed attention from his wife at home. He mentioned it to his friend and he introduced him into that kind of lifestyle. He said that he embraced it and since then had been enjoying it. He noted that it was not that he did not love his wife but there were things he was getting from the workers which he realised that he was not getting from her.

Mr. Emman cited that sometimes he may prefer to forget all the financial and family pressures which he will not get when he was with his wife as she will only help compound them. Hence, he will find his way to the hotel and will temporarily forget them.

Another patron, Mr. Peter, said that no man will ordinarily like to go to the hotels to fraternize with sex workers if his wife was rightly taking care of his emotional need at home. He noted that hotel life was expensive but it was also fun and difficult to give up.

13 thoughts on “Lagos Prostitutes: What Married Men Tell Us About Their Wives & Why They Love To Patronize Us

  1. Married Nigerian men both muslim and christians are serial cheats
    I believe everything these sex workers said
    That is why many innocent women get infected with HIV by their husbands
    If you marry a man that doesn’t cheat count yourself lucky because they all do.

    • Oddly enough though, Nigerian men who claim that their wives are not giving them enough attention can never seem to find a woman who is 100% capable of giving them the attention they crave. These men just move from woman to woman to woman desperately searching for sexual satisfaction.

    • A wife should know how to get wild and sexy for her husband but that does not keep a promiscuous person from cheating.

  2. As disgusting as it sounds, that is the truth.
    Some of them even sleep with these HIV carriers without protection.

  3. As this is the truth a lot of men get pushed to using the services of prostitutes by their wives. When the relationship was in the boyfriend/girlfriend stage, the sex was endless but, when the relationship advances to husband/wife stage, the sex is either drastically reduced or completely stopped by the wife. I am not condoning using the services of prostitutes as that is risky due to contracting diseases but there is no commitment. The next best option becomes having a mistress outside but that has its own down side financially. The best thing will be to talk over your sexual situation with your wife. Some women after having endless sex relationship with their boyfriends who later dump them to marry another woman exert their anger on the man who later marries them by not giving their husband sex or find an excuse to satisfy their husband sexual urge only once a week or when she feels like. This is what drives men to cheat. No man will marry with the intention of cheating on his wife. So @ Dorothy California, not all men cheat and those who do get pushed into it.

    • You hit the nail on its head! Quite a few married women make the mistake in thinking once they get married they didn’t have to be attentive to their husbands. Most husbands go astray because of neglect in the home. Most women can go a long time without sex most men cannot! They fail to realize that if they “close” the gate men will just go find another gate to open. Everything is give and take in a marriage.

  4. I just think that some women may not be ready for the frequent sex that comes with marriage. They may have some hang ups about sex being a “bad thing” for a woman to do often. For whatever reason, some Nigerian wives can’t seem to keep up with the libido of their husbands.

  5. The way many married Nigerian men have been out there patronizing prostitudes does make me wonder if many Nigerian wives are in fact acting uptight/prudish about sex at home.

  6. Truth and lies joined together.most wives are busy to the detriment of the marital duties,cooking,sexual gratification as they always say,shebi i don born pikin for him,boy and girl wetin again he want.and again drunkards,night crawlers will always find excuses to give inorder to eat the other forbidden fruit.the sex workers are not compassionate but glued on those married men who drops wads of cash and who can pay anything to keep the romps confidential.if u think otherwise,wait till those harlots finds where u live or what u do then she will blackmail u for a huge ransome payout or your wife will get the whole hints.Bottom line,marry who u love it doesnt matter where u met than arrangee or she is beautiful hence bringing everlasting hell fire into your house.compatibilitty is the key,hot or cold,rich or for poorer ,she go de gidigbaa.all that glitters aint gold.

    • Suit yourself Iron Bar. I would like to inform Nigerian men that if they want to get more attention from their wives they simply have to help by freeing up their wives time. Help with the dishes, help comb the children’s hair, help with their homework, help with the grocery shopping, help with the cleaning, washing and ironing, go to the PTA meetings, cook a meal one night a week. If you are a man who helps with all of those things, then I can understand your frustration. If not, you have no say. If you want a wife to give you all her attention at the end of such an exhausting day then get a maid.

      Lastly, the idea of attention is not the real issue here since most Nigerian men are CHEATERS that keep moving from one woman to the next with the same excuse that they are not getting enough “attention”. The problem is deeper than that and sometimes, like in this instance, it really is about men who are promiscuous.

  7. Suit yourself Iron Bar. I would like to inform Nigerian men that if they want to get more attention from their wives they simply have to help by freeing up their wives time. Help with the dishes, help comb the children’s hair, help with their homework, help with the grocery shopping, help with the cleaning, washing and ironing, go to the PTA meetings, cook a meal one night a week. If you are a man who helps with all of those things, then I can understand your frustration. If not, you have no say. If you want a wife to give you all her attention at the end of such an exhausting day then get a maid.

    Lastly, the idea of attention is not the real issue here since most Nigerian men are CHEATERS that keep moving from one woman to the next with the same excuse that they are not getting enough “attention”. The problem is deeper than that and sometimes, like in this instance, it really is about men who are promiscuous.

  8. MARRIAGE IS A VERY DANGEROUS GAME, AS SOON AS YOU GIVE THEM WEDDING CERTIFICATE, THEN THEY ABANDON YOU AND GO OUT THERE TO GET SERVICE OF THE PUBLIC DOGS.
    AND COME BACK HOME TO SAY THEY ARE TIRED WORKING ALL DAY IN THE OFFICE. BECAUSE THEY HAVE STOPPED OVER AND SATISFIED THEIR LIBIDO.

    THESE MEN HAVE GONE ROUND LICKING A LOT OF DIRTY OOBO, AND THEY WILL COME BACK HOME TO USE THE STINKING DIRTY MOUTH TO KISS THEIR WIVES,

    THERE IS NO ENJOYMENT IN GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH THOSE WHO ARE PUBLIC DOGS, THERE IS NOTHING THEY WOULD DO FOR YOU THAN USING THEIR DIRTY STINKING MOUTH TO SUCK YOUR DICK, DOING BLOWJOB.

    WHEN A MAN GOT STUCK WITH BLOW JOB , THEN THEY WANT THE WIFE TO DO THE SAME, TURNING THEIR WIVES INTO PROSTITUTE IN THE BEDROOM

    SO JUST BECAUSE OF MARRIAGE, HOW CAN YOU ASK YOUR WIFE TO USE HER MOUTH ON YOUR SHITHOLE ? WHY?

    A LOT OF MEN END UP ABUSING THEIR WIVES DEMANDING FOR BLOWJOB. WHAT AN INSULT, MY ADVICE TO WOMEN.
    PLEASE DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME TRYING TO FORCE PEOPLE TO ACCEPT YOU IN WHICH YOU BRING YOURSELF DOWN SO LOW TO BEND AND USE YOUR MOUTH ON THEIR SHIT HOLE.

  9. Most married women pushed their matrimonial husband out because they are unable to satisfy them with their sex desire. Some even went to the extent of telling their husband that they are are not a prostute.

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