August 14, 2016 – My Husband Is Not Romantic, My Marriage Is Crashing – Worried Wife Cries Out
My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of my loving him before has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy.
My husband is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.
I’ve tried to tell him about my feelings and misgivings a thousand times but he brushes me aside like I’m asking for too much. Right now, I’m having serious problems in my marriage.
I don’t like my husband touching me again like before and he seems to have noticed the way I rebuff him at times. Now, he’s even accusing me of loving someone else and that makes me very angry.
Why can’t he understand that all I want is for him to show me a little affection, be romantic, engage in foreplay before sex and fulfil all the romantic dreams I’ve always had?
Dear sir or madam, am I asking for too much?
[Abimbola writes from Lekki Lagos]