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My Husband Only Lasts A Few Seconds In Bed , He’s Not A Real Man- Divorce Seeking Wife Tells Court

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Nov 17, 2017 – Woman Divorces Husband Of 4 Years Over Erectile Dysfunction, Says He Is Not A Real Man

My Husband Only Lasts A Few Seconds In Bed , He’s Not A Real Man- Divorce Seeking Wife Tells Court

A woman identified as Kate Ude, has prayed an FCT High Court in Jabi to dissolve her four-year-old marriage to Mr. Michael Ude, for alleged erectile dysfunction.

Part of the petitioner’s prayers before Justice Vera Venda was to declare that there’s no longer love in the marriage.

32-year-old Kate alleged that Ude suffers from erectile dysfunction, adding that anytime it became erect, he ejaculated within a few seconds, “which is not expected of a real man.”

She said the man did not make known his health status before the consummation of the marriage in Calabar, Cross River, in 2014.

The petitioner said during her traditional wedding, Michael did not show up, as he was represented by his younger brother.

Kate said it was at the registry she got to know him well and implored the court to dissolve the union.

Ude, who filed a cross-petition to divorce the woman, denied the allegations when cross-examined by the petitioner’s lawyer, Mr. Ishaka Awaliene.

He said: “The non-erection of my manhood is not regular; it is just that I’m not always in the mood whenever she is in the mood. I don’t use enhancement drugs for sex as she alleged.’’

Ude told the court that on June 28, 2014, Kate left their matrimonial home, saying she was no longer interested in the marriage.

According to him, she returned and left again.

He said his relations made efforts to reconcile them, but she refused and resorted to insulting them through text messages.

Justice Venda adjourned the matter till February 6 for adoption of final written addresses.




  1. Kolade Alli

    November 17, 2017 at 6:13 AM

    I should blame u why u were dating didn’t u notice it

  2. fifelomo

    November 17, 2017 at 6:54 AM

    At times its advicable to sample what you are buying mostly when its meant to be a long term business. A sorry case to both parties.

  3. Elvis

    November 17, 2017 at 8:20 AM

    Both of them should see a psychologist for examination and advise.

  4. Endurance

    November 17, 2017 at 11:06 AM

    It can be painful especially when a sexually active woman has husband that is suffering from erectile dysfunction. But I don’t think divorcing is the right antidote to such sexual malfunction. It almost ruin my marriage too about 5 Years ago after so many years of marriage. It all happened within a year but it was as if it was more than two decades I experienced this problem. Looking carefully at myself, am not into any bad habit such as smoking, drinking and taking a lot of sugary thing that I would have concluded caused this problem. The problem seemed to persist and deteriorate all the more with my wife clearly written all over her face that she no longer enjoy our sexual life. I became so depressed and frustrated. Eventually my sexual revival came when I stumbled on one of the pornographic-related website that stated clearly how a man can cure his erectile dysfunction using just your hands! It was like a magic after following through their advice and technique for the specified months. It is an exercise that specifically target your pelvic floor muscle known as (KEGEL). It is meant to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle in your body that help increase blood flow into your penile region which aftereffect is, more rigid and more potent manhood. That was my savior! No use of drugs at all. After few months of this exercise, it immediately became noticed by my wife who constantly stir at me in disbelieve after about 45 minutes of sex which the least is 30 minutes. She often asked me what I have done to myself to experience this dramatic change to my sexual activeness. I explained to her the secrete and she became so happy and constantly thanked God for our new life. Ever since 2012 up to this moment I became more active than her sexually using this simple penile exercise. You the wife seeking for marriage dissolution can experience similar happiness if you can be patient and seek for solution to your husband’s erectile dysfunction rather than abandoning him for another man. It is curable even without the single use of drug. Am a living prove. I would have been willing to help if I can have there contact.

    • Concern Citizen

      November 18, 2017 at 10:36 PM

      May God bless you for sharing this piece of valuables information.

  5. Joy

    November 17, 2017 at 11:26 AM

    I guess there was a relationship before the marriage? So why complaining.

  6. iron bar

    November 17, 2017 at 12:33 PM


  7. Keep it real

    November 17, 2017 at 12:56 PM

    Anyways I saw calabar on this story so do the math. Kate probably wants it every minute since is in her blood. stop saying he’s not a real man, if that’s the case Why not support him and look for solutions .

  8. J. B. Hunter

    November 17, 2017 at 2:31 PM

    REAL PROBLEM HERE. But nothing really confuses a woman than dating or marrying a Broke man who‘s extremely good in bed.

    What do women really really want?

    I take a stroll…

    • Keep it real

      November 17, 2017 at 6:36 PM

      Good question bro! The answer is that women just want everything in life just perfect/ No skin pain kinda situation..

  9. Gendary

    November 17, 2017 at 8:26 PM

    I reserved my comment.

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