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Pregnant Igbo Wife Narrates How She Rescued Husband From Pretty Secretary
Sunday July 31, 2016 – Pregnant Igbo Wife Narrates How She Rescued Husband From Pretty Secretary
My husband’s secretary is a threat to my marriage I hate making mountains out of a mole hill but God has wired women with instincts to know when someone is trying to invade their territory unless that woman is totally insensitive.
Well, I’m one of those women with a high volatile instinct and I pick things off from a mile away. My husband got this pretty young lady as a secretary about 18 months ago when I got pregnant our second child and unable to go to the office as often as I use to.
Hubby insisted that I should not bother till after I must have weaned the baby, I complied. All through my pregnancy and giving birth, I kept hearing from my husband how wonderful and efficient the new secretary was. I didn’t have any reason to be suspicious until she came for the dedication party.
Merely observing her and how she looks at my husband gave her away. I tried to see if my husband feels the same way but it was a bit difficult.
So one day I just paid a surprise visit to my husband’s office and my suspicions were confirmed. My husband is attracted to her as well but for reasons best known to him, he has not made any serious advancement to her.
As a sharp Igbo girl that I am, I quickly took charge and told my husband that I’m back to resume my duties at the office and that the secretary should be transferred to our new branch we just opened.
He protested a little but I was firm and he had to give in to me. I later employed a more matured lady to be in charge of the office business when I was not able to come to work. Ladies, shine your eyes! Don’t allow all these small girls to ruin all that you have laboured to build in your home out of sheer carelessness.
[ Ugonma writes from Lagos ]
fifelomo
July 31, 2016 at 2:18 AM
Wise madam. I love that, I no blame you joo.
Maryf
July 31, 2016 at 2:37 AM
Weldon ma, you tried cha, one get to protect her something before oles out there take it by force or by pretense
D Hunter
July 31, 2016 at 7:06 AM
Smart woman. Good moves that paid off.
Women, pls beware of all these Mercy Johnsons and Stella Damasuses out there seeking for whose husband to snatched.
I take a stroll…
Bokemb
July 31, 2016 at 8:40 AM
just like that, just say you are lucky.
Truce
July 31, 2016 at 8:45 AM
Na today, only God will help us with dis men.
Danti
July 31, 2016 at 8:58 AM
You can physically do that, but the main thing na feelings. If your husband has tune-up, then the distance you have created will make her hotter in his mind. In fact, when they meet, e go happen ooo…. Wetin be separation? Meen! That is sexy.
sola olaniyi
July 31, 2016 at 9:26 AM
you have done well pregnant-igbo-wife
Endure
July 31, 2016 at 10:28 AM
Its good to have a smart and sharp girl as a wife. I nearly fell into one but I quickly told my wife about it who eventually used indirect abusive speech on her before she stopped locking around me every now and then after church service. We packed away from that environment and start attending another branch of our church. A married lady with two kids always made a suggestive move after our service in that new environment. Though she had my phone number including that of my wife which my wife was fully aware of but I didn’t read any meaning to her suggestive move initially ,not until when she called if am at home that she’s coming for a visit. By then the two kids have gone to school and my wife was at home. And I’ve being telling my wife about her flirtation around me after church which she also said she has being carefully watching for sometime. But what baffles me was that, she never told me and my wife that she would pay us a visit. As soon as I discovered what she was trying to insinuate after her call,I quickly gave my wife go ahead to do her mind but not fighting her. Our both attitude toward her especially that of my wife shows to her that she was really unwelcome and Its didn’t take anytime before she left. And ever since,she has hated me like a plague. But is all funny to me because I didn’t request for a relationship and beside,she also knew that am married. So ladies,wives you got to be smart. But remember don’t insult your man because it might be that,that lady is the one looking for your husband. So be wise and be smart to grab back what God has ordained that belongs to you.
Metu Nyetu
August 1, 2016 at 7:06 AM
I love your comment@Endure. Your kind of man is not found in a million. Sensual temptations are welcome by most married men. Thank God you are different. More grace to you!
betty
July 31, 2016 at 8:58 PM
u tried, but transferring her doesn’t mean if ur husband is interested in her he wldnt to to d other branch to meet her.
EBY LOVE
August 2, 2016 at 5:11 PM
MY SISTER TNK GOD FOR U O, I DNT KNW D PROBLEMS OF DS GALS DAT GO FOR PPL’S HUBBY, GOD SHLD HELP DEM. EVERY DAY WE C PPL ADVOCING, MORE R BCOS OF DS GALS. GOD ABEG SAVE MARRIAGE O