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Timi Dakolo To Divorcees: Stop Making Divorce Look Cool, Marriage Is For 2 Complete Adults
October 25, 2017 – Timi Dakolo To Divorcees: Stop Making Divorce Look Cool, Marriage Is For 2 Complete Adults
Soul singer Timi Dakolo might have crossed his boundary when he took to the social media today to call out divorced people for giving love a bad name.
The happily married father of 3 argued that marriage is for two complete adults who have patience to tolerate each other.
His words:
While many are busy blasting the musician for crossing the line, a lady named Sophie Anderson made an intelligent comment.
Her words:
“people don’t just wake up and get a divorce. If every divorcee can be truthful they will tell you that before the marriage, one or two things were not in order but they felt they could endure it, it could also be that they didn’t really get to know their spouse very well because of circumstances or material things, it may also be that God was not invited into that marriage from day one.
I perfectly understand @timidakolo ‘s post and I think we should all ask ourselves real questions before marriage. Nobody can be real to you better than you. Most importantly, pray about it and get answers, that is the ultimate. A word is enough for the wise.”
On a more serious note, we have no right to blame people who get divorce.
Many left their marriages to escape the grip of death while others just happen to find themselves in a situation they least expected.
May God help us all.
Berry blue
October 26, 2017 at 6:39 AM
Only God knows best
Babmorogy
October 26, 2017 at 6:44 AM
May the Lord Almighty have mercy.
Ama
October 26, 2017 at 3:03 PM
I agree with you, no one has a right to condemn divorced people. I don’t think people get into marriage to get divorced in the first place. Sometimes we make the wrong choice by assuming this person we are going to get married will live with me forever, but unfortunately, it does not happen. Divorce is a place of pain, anguish, weary and sadness. Like you said, we should know what we are getting into before getting married, but it is sad, things dont go the way we go or want. It is always sad, people look down on people who are divorced, instead of praying for them to heal. As a divorcee myself, I have had people come down on me, or looked down on me as if i am not a person. We all have our expectations in life, but unfortunately, those expectations take us to place we dont like. Love is a thing we all crave for and to be in love is something we all want.
MADAM ERANKO
October 26, 2017 at 5:00 PM
I AM A DIVORCE AND I AM SO PROUD THAT I WALK AWAY FROM HELL HOLE .
DIVORCE IS THE BEST NEXT THING, INSTEAD OF KILLING EACH OTHER,
MARRIAGE SHOULD BE A CHOICE NOT BY FORCE,
IF YOU ARE HAPPY WITH YOUR OWN MARRIAGE , I SAY GOOD LUCK TO YOU .
WHOEVER IS NOT HAPPY ,SHOULD WALK AWAY WITHOUT A FIGHT .
DIVORCE IS THE BEST SOLUTION,
BECAUSE WE ARE NOT FROM THE SAME HOME, WE ARE BOTH STRANGERS WHO AGREED TO DATE AND TO MARRY AND IF ONE OF THESE TWO IS NOT SUITABLE FOR MARRIAGE,
THEN, IT IS BETTER TO WALK AWAY.
DIVORCE WOULD NEVER DIE,
THE ,,VERSES,, SAID IF IT WERE YOUR RIGHT HAND THAT WAS TROUBLING YOU, OR YOUR LEFT HAND , THEN YOU NEED TO CUT IT OFF.
SO,IF I CUT OFF THIS ASSHOLE IN MY LIFE, I DO NOT FEEL SORRY AT ALL AND I DO NOT GIVE A GODDAMN SHIT , I AM NOT ASHAMED FOR GETTING RID OF THIS ASSHOLE.
PEOPLE SHOULD STOP MAKING DIVORCEE LOOK LIKE A LEPERS, YOU PEOPLE SHOULD JUST SHUT UP THEIR COCK MOUTH.
I DO NOT HAVE TO BE A SLAVE TO ANYONE BECAUSE, OF SO-CALLED MARRIAGE ,
I DO NOT HAVE TO LOVE ANYBODY, I LOVE MYSELF.
LOVE IS NOT SEX , AND SEX IS NOT LOVE AND MARRIAGE IS AN AGREEMENT , YOU AGREE TO MARRY AND YOU MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO WALK AWAY .
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE WITH SOMEONE FOREVER, BECAUSE NOTHING LAST FOREVER