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Wife Exposes Man Who Allegedly Used Son For Money Ritual At Igando Lagos Divorce Court
July 21, 2016 – Wife Exposes Man Who Allegedly Used Son For Money Ritual At Igando Lagos Divorce Court
A 46-year-old businesswoman, Mrs. Funmilayo Adedeji, told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Thursday that her husband had denied her sex for 10 years.
Funmilayo, who said this while responding to a divorce suit filed by her husband, Omotayo, added that he gave no reason for starving her of sex.
“My husband refused to make love to me since 2006, I don’t know his reason.
“I have called members of my family and those of his family to intervene but he refused to change.
“My body yearns for sex but I don’t just want to commit adultery because I want all the children to be fathered by one man,” she said.
The mother of two said that she accused her husband of using their son for ritual because he started making money immediately the boy was born.
“My husband’s wealth came and money started booming after the birth of our baby. Our son is now 12-year-old, but he can neither walk nor talk.
“He wanted to divorce me so that I will no longer persuade him to take the boy to the hospital for treatment.
“ He had always rejected medical treatment and had refused me approaching a church for deliverance.
“I always curse him because he used to beat me; he once beat me to pulp and I landed in the hospital,” she said.
She, however, begged the court not to grant her husband’s wish, saying she was still in love.
The petitioner, a 51-year-old clearing agent, had approached the court seeking to end his 16-year-old marriage over defamation of his character by his wife.
“My wife won’t stop accusing me of using my physically challenged son for money ritual.
“It is God that has blessed me with wealth; I never used my son,” he said.
Adedeji said that his wife was also “good at fighting,” claiming she has the habit of beating him in public.
Apart from the beating, Adedeji also claimed that curses from his wife were beginning to affect his life and business negatively.
“My wife always curses me very early in the morning and those curses are now coming to pass in my life,” he said.
He, therefore, pleaded with the court to dissolve the marriage, saying he was no longer in love and would not want to commit murder.
“Please, dissolve the marriage before the devil will use me,” the estranged husband said.
After listening to both sides, the court’s president, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, adjourned the case to September 6.
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Metu Nyetu
July 21, 2016 at 4:48 PM
“Please dissolve the marriage before the devil will use me!” Quite a prayer there.
The crippled boy is 12, and he has starved her of sex for 10 years, meaning he stopped making love to her when the child was 2. I don’t think there’s a ritual to this. Ritual, to me, would have stopped immediately the baby was born.
The truth is that this man no longer loves his wife. He is probably seeing another woman outside, and that is the only reason he could be seeking for this divorce. If their marriage has turned this violent, I’d advise the woman to just pack her things and move out of his house for her own safety: she doesn’t have to wait for the court to institute their divorce.
Many people are just in hell, saying it’s marriage. May God help D Hunter and people like him in making the right choice!
Keeping it real
July 21, 2016 at 6:31 PM
@Metu Nyetu God help me too I’m in a process of one at the moment…
I would say let the woman move out of the man’s house but don’t move on until court makes decisions and please apply some prayers as well
Metu Nyetu
July 21, 2016 at 8:39 PM
@Mr Real, are you serious? Congrats there! The Lord’s word says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. May it just be so with in your case!
Best wishes!
huchennar
July 21, 2016 at 5:03 PM
chai !!!
na big gbege b dis ooo
… only God knows who is telling the truth
Koolz
July 21, 2016 at 5:54 PM
Divorce ain’t gonna solve the puzzle. Settle your difference, forgive one another, pray always and put the devil to shame. If you both can’t do this, then I will want to believe someone is involved in rituals, knowing fully well that ritual always have a bad side where the devil gives u small n demands fr extra large in return. Refusing to allow God come into your marriage is like locking up d door of solution in d midst of evil.. its like finding urslf in a pit full of scorpions n snakes in which u knew d only way out, but won’t come out of it n yet won’t allow others to get out of it cos you are definitely enjoying the show using others as ur prey.. That’s total wickedness…
Divorcing one on mere issues that has nothing to do with d devil, is absolute one way or the other a hot opportunity to granting devil a chance in ur life as both parties will definitely end up planning d worst evil against themselves… Please let prayers n luv prevail in the mean time n allow Karma do d rest..!!!
Running in an out of marriages has nv been an easy task… Denying a woman sex is like sealing up her horny pot n sending her to an early grave.. its like denying babies their God’s given heritage/food (breast milk)… its like converting a woman into prostitution… This is mostly unfair knowing fully well a woman’s body needs enough sex. Why did you married her to deny her sex for 10 good years… Haba Bro, whatever the case may be, please find a place in ur heart to forgive n forget that God may also forgive ur sins if any… Let luv reign by welcoming much friendship.. No one is above mistakes, but we worsen issues when we refuse to find a possible solutions to little problems.
Sis., take heart and also go down on ur knees n plead ur hubby for forgiveness n never ever stop praying hard. God will surely intervene.
Mark this today that….:
** Love doesn’t make the world go round; Love is what makes the ride worthwhile..
** It’s not lack of love, but lack of friendships that leads to unhappy marriages..
**Love is a friendship set on fire….
PLAY RIGHT!!!
Increase your friendship in your marriage life and watch how love will grow with speed of light like never before, if an only if u refused to compromise ur faith in God too!!!
I pray that God in His infinite mercies will touch your hearts and grant your marriage a flourishing new beginning, and also destroy all satanic webs in your home now and always. In Jesus Name, Amen.
Forgiveness is the only way… Forgive one another today!!! Settle your difference n put all ur enemies to shame…!!!
#N so… LGO: Life Goes On#
fifelomo
July 21, 2016 at 6:28 PM
This is interwoven.
Truce
July 21, 2016 at 10:08 PM
Hmmm, my question is after d divorce who will now be responsible for d disabled child upkeep, if d father is ready to take on d responsibility without leaving him at d mercy of a new wife, then I will say d judge should grant d divorce.
Bcos from d story I think since d husband realized d child is disabled he as since then been thinking of hw to get out of d marriage.
sola olaniyi
July 22, 2016 at 11:40 AM
the judge should dissolve their marriage abeg