My Wife Was Gentle When We’re Dating, After Wedding She Became A Demon – Man Tells Court

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July 28, 2017 – My Wife Was Gentle When We’re Dating, After Wedding She Became A Demon – Divorce-Seeking Husband Tells Court

A 49-year-old woman, Mrs Bimbo Olajumoke today told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos that she caught another woman cooking for her husband.

The fabric statement made the statement while responding to a divorce suit filed by Gbolahan, her husband of 23 years, that she (Bimbo) was troublesome.

“My husband relocated us to his house in Ikorodu, Lagos and rented another apartment in Ikotun claiming Ikorodu is far from his working place in Ikotun.

“I sell clothes in Idumota, Lagos Island and I go from Ikotun; I never complain of distance.

“Since my husband insisted on leaving alone in Ikotun, I always take food to him every week.

“He told me to stop bringing food for him and stop coming to his house.

“There was a day I went to his house unannounced when he stopped picking my calls and I saw a woman in his kitchen cooking,” she said.

The mother of three said that the children told her that their father told them to vacant the house in Ikorodu that he had sold it.

She begged the court not to grant her husband’s wish for the dissolution of the marriage that she was still in love with him.

“Please, help me beg my husband to come home; his room is still there vacant, I am not ready for divorce,” she pleaded with the court.

The petitioner, Mr Gbolahan Olajumoke, 52, had approached the court to seek for dissolution of his marriage claiming his wife was a troublesome woman.

He said that his wife’s behavior changed after he married her.

“My wife was cool and gentle when we were dating, but after the wedding, she became a demon.

“She is a trouble maker, she fight with me, my family, my friends and even neighbours.

“Because of her frequent fight, I had to relocate to a different area, “he said.

Olajumoke told the court that his wife sometimes goes out and do not return home until the following day.

“My wife always take extra clothes in her bag when going out in the morning to her shop and will not come home to sleep,” the petitioner said.

He urged the court to dissolve the marriage as he was no longer in love with his wife.

“Please, I can no longer tolerate this loveless marriage, I have tolerated her enough,” he said.

The court president, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, urged the estranged couple to come for Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) along with three members of their families and adjourned the case till Sept. 26.

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8 thoughts on “My Wife Was Gentle When We’re Dating, After Wedding She Became A Demon – Man Tells Court

  1. MADAM PLEASE DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME CRYING OVER THIS MAN.

    BOTH OF YOU SHOULD JUST WALK AWAY FROM EACH OTHER AND ACCEPT THAT THIS MARRIAGE IS DEAD ALREADY, PLEASE JUST GO IN PEACE FROM THIS ASSHOLE.

    BE STRONG AND BE SMART, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME CRYING OVER SOMEONE WHO HATES YOU, YOU ARE NOW A BORN FREE,[ LO JAIYE ORI E O ],

    THERE ARE A LOT OF BELEJAYAN EVERYWHERE WHO WILL EMBRACE YOU BETTER.
    YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS NOTHING LEFT IN YOUR MARRIAGE ANYMORE,
    PLEASE GO AND MARRY YOUR JOB AND FEED YOURSELF AND BE HAPPY.

    DO NOT EVEN WASTE YOUR TIME TALKING ABOUT HIM TO ANYONE OF EVEN THINK ABOUT THIS ISSUE. WISH YOU GOOD LUCK AHEAD

    • Walking out of marriage many at times is not the solution to marital problem, after all you don’t know if those that will embrace her out their will make good husband. That marriage is not beyond salvage. The woman has now seen her husband’s displeasure over her wayward lifestyle by bringing the matter to the court. Since she’s still in love with her husband,they can both work hard to correct their marital discord and live happily.

  2. Once you started to eat another woman’s food, the equation in the marriage changed. It was a mistake and I hope it is not too late to save your marriage.

  3. @madam eranko… Do you think that working out of marriage is the best solution after how many children? You are what your name implies, Don’t just comment on marriage issue if you are not married because that is another thing In life anyone can not forget.

    My advice for them is to settle it out of court and the both has seen where they are lacking, Amendment is the answer so that the love can come into their family as husband and wife. God bless you all

  4. Madam please go ur way. No more love in the marriage. U have children and a business that u need to put ur effort on.

    • PRINCESS, THANK YOU, YOU ARE THE ONLY OLOPOLO IN THIS NIGERIA,

      OTHERS PEOPLE, SUCH AS THE SO CALLED [ DHAKA OR AAKA OR MEKUTURU MEKAFO] AH, AH AH AH THEY ARE JUST KNUCKHEADULLERS AN IGNORAMUS, ZOMBIE O ZOMBIE

      THEY SAY OH, HOW CAN ERANKO ASK HER TO WALK AWAY BECAUSE OF THE SO CALLED CHILDREN, SO IF SHE DIES, MAY I KNOW IF THE CHILDREN WOULD NOT LIVE?

      WHAT YOU PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW IN MARRIAGE IS THAT, AS SOON AS YOUR HUSBAND STARTED FUCKING ANOTHER O.B.O , OOOOOOOBO,

      THE OTHER WOMAN OUTSIDE MAY END UP GOING FROM WITCH DOCTOR TO THE OTHER TO MAKE SURE THAT SHE DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOU MIGHT BE IN DANGER

      BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND SECRET LOVER MAY WANT YOU DEAD AS TO GET HOLD OF YOUR HUSBAND TO HERSELF.

      IF YOU DO NOT BE-CAREFUL SHE MAY KILL YOU. SO IT IS BETTER TO JUST WALK AWAY IN PEACE BEFORE THE DEMON CUT OFF YOUR JOURNEY, EVEN JESU WILL NOT HELP YOU IF YOU DO NOT APPLY WISDOM SOONER.

      BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING LEFT IN THE MARRIAGE ONCE YOU HAVE CHILDREN, THE ONLY THING THAT LEFT FOR YOU IS TO WORK HARD AND ABLE TO FEED YOURSELF

      YOU DO NOT LET YOUR LIFE DEPEND ON ANYONE EVEN IF YOU MARRIED,
      MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE AND LIVING WITH A MAN SHOULD NOT BE BY FORCE,

      HAVING BELEJAYAN DOES NOT MEAN THEY MUST BE THE ONE TO FEED YOU OR PAY YOUR RENT, YOU CAN JUST HAVE A COMPANION IN ORDER TO HAVE A GOOD TIME AND HAPPY WITH YOURSELF

      WOMEN SHOULD STOP HAVING IT IN THEIR COCK HEAD THAT, AS SOON AS YOU COME ACROSS A MAN, THEY MUST BE THE ONE TO PAY YOUR RENT AND FEED YOU

      WHY SHOULD YOU TURN YOURSELF INTO A FREELOADER, IT IS WRONG . YOU NEED TO RESPECT YOURSELF, AND BE FINANCIALLY DEVELOP

      YOU NEED TO BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR POCKET AND BE PROUD, DO NOT LET YOUR LIFE DEPEND ON ANY MAN OR WHAT A MAN WOULD GIVE YOU

      BECAUSE MEN ARE BUYERS,

      THEY ARE JUST GIVEN YOU ALL THOSE GIFTS IN ORDER TO MAKE YOU BE UNDER THEIR SPELL
      AND THEY WILL ORDER YOU AROUND AND ASK YOU TO USE YOUR MOUTH FOR BLOWJOB, SCRUBBING THEIR ARSEHOLE, AH AH AH AH

      BECAUSE YOU MUST PAY THE PRICE OF ALL WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN, IT IS NOT FREE.

      SO DO NOT ALLOW ANY MAN PAYING YOUR RENT AND BILLS, YOU NEED TO WORK HARD AND HAVE YOUR OWN MONEY, BE FINANCIALLY DEVELOP.

      WOMEN NEED TO BE FINANCIALLY DEVELOP BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED, YOU CAN LIVE ALONE WITH YOUR CHILDREN AND BE HAPPY WITHOUT A MAN,

      THAT DOES NOT MEAN, YOU SHOULD TURN YOURSELF INTO PUBLIC WHORE.
      YOU CAN HAVE A COMPANION.

      DO NOT BEFRIEND A MAN FOR SEX AND GIFT, THEY LOOK AT YOU AS ONE OF THE RUNS GIRLS,

      THAT IS WHY THEY TREAT YOU LIKE CONNIVING LITTLE SHIT WHEN YOU MARRIED THEM, BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE MARRIAGE OTHER THAN SEX AND THEY GIVE YOU YOUR GIFT.

      THEN THE MAN WOULD GO OUT AGAIN TO BUY SOMEONE ELSE FOR SEX AND GIFT,

      BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOTHING TO CONTRIBUTE TOWARD THE MARRIAGE,

      YOU ARE JUST A LOW-LEVEL WIFE WHOSE THE CHILDREN WOULD BE CRYING FOR FOOD , AND YOU WILL TELL THEM TO WAIT TILL THEIR FATHER COMES BACK. CHIRIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

      MADAM LOW- LEVEL WAITING FOR HUSBAND TO COME BACK BECAUSE SHE HAS NO MONEY TO FEED HER CHILDREN.

      • MADAM ERANKO..one thing you should know in marriage is that,it is never easy to face marital problems and deal with the pain and wounds that has been inflicted. But if couples are willing to stay and tough it out,research has shown that they can usually restore the marriage and be happier than before. This woman in question that you are advising to quit the marriage is still in love with her husband despite the fact that she didn’t deny the accusation laid against her by her husband in the court,that she always took extra clothes in her bag when going to her shop and do not come back home to sleep’. The woman knew she was the architect of the friction in that marriage, that her life style may have driven her husband to get along with another woman in the other area he newly rented an apartment. But because she valued and respect marriage institution,and because she have that strong believe that their is going to be a common ground to resolve their marital problem, she decided to beg the court not to dissolve their marriage. And of course the court president, mr Adegboyega Omilola who advised the couple to come for Alternative Dispute Resolution also need to be praised for not dissolving their marriage. This is because people believe that walking out of marriage as recommended by you is often times not the solution to marital dispute. The woman begging her husband not to abandon the marriage doesn’t mean she can’t cater for herself,after all,she has shop in IDUMOTA lagos where she’s selling to make money for her upkeep. The husband only need to be told by the court to retrace his step. They need to also let him know that leaving your wife behind and marrying another unknown woman will not also solve any marital discord. But if so many session of counselling in the court must have held and the husband still insist he’s no longer interested in the marriage,then the woman should accept her fate and move on with her life. But if we advocate for swift exit out of marriage at every slightest marital problem that confront people,then we will not be helping ourselves neither are we going to be equipped with enough experience and knowledge to impact to our children in case they latter fall victim of this type of situation.

        If you move out of a problematic marriage with your children because you are financially okay and marry another man,the question is,what if you face similar challenge with your new lover,what will you do at this stage? You will also leave him for another man? If you do that,that means you are gradually turning yourself into a public whore counting several so called husbands that have slept with and abandoned you. This immoral act of course does not dignify any God fearing woman. This is why marriage counsellors will always advise married couples to take concrete and practical steps so as to amend the cause of their marital dispute. What I will advise you is to change your perception about marriage. Don’t always view marriage as a bondage for women that is totally devoid of love and happiness. If marriage is based on forgiveness,respect for one another and the showing of love,God fearing couples can successfully surmount any mountainous challenge that confront them. So always be positive about marriage no matter your past experience.

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