10 Secrets Of Couples Who Never Fight

10 Secrets Of Couples Who Never Fight

Welcome my people to another episode of Tori and Wisdom: Naija Moral Stories With Bible Light. This tori go open eye and teach us how to live in harmony with our partners. Sit down well well, relax, and listen to this true-life story.

Love in Lagos

Once upon a time, in the busy city of Surulere Lagos, dey one couple wey everybody dey admire. Their names na Tunde and Ada. Tunde na successful banker while Ada na talented fashion designer. Dem meet for university and since then, their love story don be like something wey you go see for Nollywood film.

From the outside, Tunde and Ada relationship dey perfect. People dey always wonder how dem dey manage to live without fight. E be like say dem get some kind secret wey make their love dey strong like rock. But as time go on, people begin dey curious. “How una dey do am?” one neighbor ask one day. Tunde just smile, him look Ada with eyes full of love, and say, “Na God and understanding.”

The Foundation of Their Love

The secret to Tunde and Ada peaceful relationship start from the foundation of their love. When dem first meet for university, dem promise each other say honesty, respect, and communication go be the pillars of their relationship. Dem believe say if they fit build their love on these three things, nothing go fit shake them.

For their small apartment for Surulere, Tunde and Ada dey always make time to talk about their day. Dem no dey hide anything from each other. Even small small things, dem go share. Ada go tell Tunde about the new fabric wey she buy, and Tunde go tell Ada about the new client wey him get for work. This open communication make their bond strong.

The Power of Prayer

Another secret to their peaceful relationship na the power of prayer. Every morning before Tunde go work, and every night before dem sleep, dem go hold hands and pray together. Dem believe say God dey center of their relationship. The Bible talk for Philippians 4:6-7, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

This daily prayer dey bring peace and calm to their home. Even when small misunderstanding dey, dem go pray about am and God go give them wisdom to resolve am.

The Test of Love

Life no dey always smooth, and Tunde and Ada relationship no be exception. One day, Tunde come back from work, him face dey full of worry. “Ada, I don lose my job,” he say, his voice shaky. Ada heart skip a beat, but she quickly hold his hands. “We go pass through this together,” she say with confidence.

The next few months hard well well. Money no dey like before, and the pressure begin dey. But Tunde and Ada refuse to let the situation break them. Dem continue to pray, to communicate, and to support each other. Ada start to sew clothes from home to make extra money, and Tunde begin find small small jobs to support the family.

One night, as dem dey sit down for their small living room, Tunde look Ada and say, “I thank God for you. Even with all this wahala, you never complain or blame me.” Ada smile, she say, “We dey this together. God go see us through.”

The Role of Understanding and Patience

Tunde and Ada understand say for any relationship to work, understanding and patience dey very important. When Tunde dey find job, sometimes him go feel frustrated. But Ada go always encourage am, tell am say better days dey come. She go say, “Psalm 37:5 talk say, ‘Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will do this.’ We go continue to trust God.”

On days when Ada dey overwhelmed with work, Tunde go help around the house. He go cook, clean, and even help her sew clothes. This mutual understanding and support na one big secret to their peaceful relationship.

Resolving Conflicts Peacefully

No matter how perfect relationship be, small conflicts go always come. But Tunde and Ada get special way to resolve their conflicts. Dem don agree say dem no go ever raise their voice at each other. When misunderstanding dey, dem go sit down, hold hands, and talk am out calmly.

One day, Tunde forget to pick up something from the market, and Ada vex. Instead make she shout, she take deep breath and say, “Tunde, I know say you forget, but next time try remember. E dey very important.” Tunde nod, he apologize sincerely. This way, small issues no dey escalate to big fight.

Celebrating Small Victories

Tunde and Ada believe say to keep the love alive, dem need to celebrate small victories. When Tunde finally get new job, dem celebrate am like say na big achievement. Ada cook special dinner, and dem spend the evening laughing and thanking God.

When Ada get big order for her fashion business, Tunde surprise her with flowers. Dem believe say to keep the spark alive, dem need to always appreciate each other and celebrate every milestone, no matter how small.

The Power of Forgiveness

Forgiveness na another big secret to their peaceful relationship. Dem don agree say no matter the offence, dem go always forgive each other. The Bible talk for Ephesians 4:32, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

One day, Tunde forget their wedding anniversary. Ada feel hurt, but she remember their promise to always forgive. She gently remind Tunde, and he apologize sincerely. She forgive am, and dem decide to celebrate the next day. This way, dem no let small issues turn to big problems.

Learning and Growing Together

Tunde and Ada dey always find ways to learn and grow together. Dem go attend seminars, read books, and even watch videos about how to improve their relationship. Dem believe say knowledge na power, and to keep their relationship strong, dem need to keep learning.

Dem also dey take time to reflect on their journey and how far dem don come. Dem go talk about the challenges dem don face and how dem overcome am. This reflection dey remind them of their strength and the power of their love.

A Legacy of Love

Years don pass, and Tunde and Ada love still dey strong. Dem don become role models for many couples for Lagos. People dey always ask dem for advice, and dem dey always share their secrets freely.

One day, their neighbor, Nkechi, come meet Ada. She say, “Ada, I admire your relationship with Tunde. Wetin be your secret?” Ada smile, she say, “Nkechi, no be magic. Na God, understanding, communication, and plenty love. Always put God first, pray together, and never forget to show love and respect.”

Nkechi nod, she thank Ada, and she go back with a heart full of hope. Tunde and Ada continue to live their life with love, peace, and joy, always thanking God for the gift of each other.

My people, this story dey teach us say peaceful and loving relationship no be by magic. E dey require hard work, understanding, patience, and most importantly, God. Make we remember to always communicate openly, pray together, and forgive each other. Make we celebrate small victories and support each other through thick and thin.

Remember the words for Philippians 4:6-7, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Another important verse na Ephesians 4:32, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

Make we hold on to the words for Psalm 37:5, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will do this.” And the words for Colossians 3:13, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

My people, make we learn from Tunde and Ada. Make we put God first, communicate openly, and love each other deeply. With these, our relationships go flourish and we go find peace and joy.

Thank you for listening to this tori. Until next time, make we dey remember the secrets of couples who never fight, and make we apply them for our own relationships. God bless you all.