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Adebayo Salami Oga Bello Warns Kids Against Polygamy “Marry 1 Wife 4 Peaceful Marriage”
Sept 27, 2014 – Adebayo Salami Oga Bello Warns Children Against Polygamy, Says Best Marriage Comprises Of A Man & Woman
Veteran Nollywood star Adebayo Salami aka Oga Bello in a recent chat with the entertainer said he has warned his children not to follow his footsteps in their marriage.
Mr Salami said a peaceful marriage comprises of a man and a woman.
In his own words:
“I have never said I regret being a polygamous man. However, I am warning my children against polygamy because not everybody can be like Adebayo Salami who runs a peaceful home.
“It is not easy to run a polygamous house and it is only by God’s grace one can do that. It cannot be applicable to everybody. The best marriage is that of one man and a wife, but if any of my children’s destiny is to have more than a wife, then there is nothing I can do about it. I believe I am destined to be a polygamous person.
“The position anyone holds in life is their destiny and that is my belief. I also advise my children to be tolerant, focused and prayerful. In anything they do, they have to put God first.”
The veteran actor has two wives.
bezo
September 27, 2014 at 6:59 AM
You didn’t lay good example for them and dis warning is coming a bit too late
Blame yourself if anyone of dem marry 5 wives
princess
September 27, 2014 at 7:03 AM
true talk sir
Tunde Adegbola
September 27, 2014 at 7:31 AM
Since your religion permits it, I think they might likely follow your path
igboonu
September 27, 2014 at 10:56 AM
yes because life without peace is hellfire
Prophet Gbenga Rotimi"KINI IWO NFE"
September 27, 2014 at 11:55 AM
Experience is the best teacher, he know better than the newly coming fathers.
GOD bless you sir.
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Gbenga
September 27, 2014 at 1:55 PM
@bezo what is your own if they like they can marry 20 each for all I care
Rethink
September 27, 2014 at 3:39 PM
l know some peoply who are enjoying their polygamy and l also know people who lack peace in their monogamy. lt is better to have more than one wife instead of exra marital affairs.
ik
September 27, 2014 at 5:16 PM
Please sir said the simple truth, you have never have a peace mind since ever you put yourself on this polygamous mess, Iam married and know that It takes they grace of God to live with one wife talkless of two, if you are happy now just wait when it start please dont hide your face.
Taofeeq
September 27, 2014 at 7:56 PM
Almighty Allah say yes,some human being say no. Are you the creator? Either you like it or not God is going to prevail.Dont you know that any muslim that against an alphabet in Noble Quran is a disbeliever takless of a verses.Allah allow muslim men to marry 2 or 3 or 4 wives and said if you cannot do equity 1 wife is ok Quran 4:3.pls muslim should careful on whatever you want to say.
Amanda
September 28, 2014 at 2:02 AM
@ Taofeeq, thank you. Mr. Salami is very wrong. At least Islam recognizes rights of all 4 wives compare to having 1 wife and many girl friends outside marriage. Those girl friends do not have equal rights has only wife. Therefore, it’s lose lose game for those women. Havign 1 wife and many girl friends outside is a way of avoiding responsibilities of those ladies or women.
For Mr. Salami to make such statement, he’s threading line of kufr if care is not taken.
yekini
September 28, 2014 at 4:47 PM
Ture talk
yekini
September 28, 2014 at 4:42 PM
Happy home is joy of life, do your best and live the rest
Nonsense
December 4, 2015 at 3:01 AM
Polygamy is allowed in Islam but not mandatory. Polygamy is not about religion but about social harmony, protection and provision for vulnerable women and orphans. There is NO WHERE in the Quran that says “you MUST marry more than one wife”. If Allah has not made it an obligation, then it is a choice for individual to make.
Oga Bello advising his children to marry just one wife is because he knows the pitfalls. How many of you can do Justice. The condition Allah place on poligamy is “JUSTICE”. What do you understand by justice in this context and how many people can do the reall justice.
In conclussion. Polygamy is a choice not an obligation. There are divine reasons for it which many people ignore but for the carnal needs.