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Bisola Aiyeola: My Father’s Selfishness Caused My Relationships Failure, I’m Finding It Hard To Forgive Him
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Bisola Aiyeola: My Dad’s Selfishness Caused My Relationships Failure, I’m Finding It Hard To Forgive Him
Former BBN star, Bisola Aiyeola is now blaming her father for her relationships failure.
The entertainer who lost her baby daddy few months ago revealed in a recent interview that her dad’s selfishness caused her relationship failure.
According to her, she was deprived of something that should be inevitable in the life of every child, which is a father.
“My dad was selfish. Forgiving him, truly letting go, I don’t think it can happen at once. I always was searching for a fatherly figure in my relationships.”
So sad!!.
Ama
November 7, 2018 at 7:29 PM
My dear lady, it is time to let go and forgive your father of what he was supposed to do as a parent. I know it is very hard to forgive, but from the article posted today about forgiveness, it takes grace to let forgiveness into our lives. If you cannot forgive him, then find a way to work on yourself and move ahead. With or without a father or mother figure in our lives, it is up to us to make the best of our lives, because we cannot change or turn the hand of the clock. It is very painful for the absence of a parent in our lives. Speaking from experience, I had both parents, but my mother made me feel like I never had a mother. We were three girls growing up, but she favored some over me. I have carried the pain with me for years, but when I had my daughter, I made sure I will be the best mother ever to her so that she will not feel my pain. Unfortunately, she grew up without her father. I have been counseling her, talking to her to not let this hinder her life. Our parents are the gift that God gave us, but they are not our God. Please try and let go and move on otherwise, you can never have a good relationship with a man. Without him in your life, you have made it possible to be where you are today.
Don’t get me wrong, it is tough, painful and selfish to have a parent not being part of your life, emotionally it is a wreck and torture, but sweet girl please look up to God and let Him heal your heart and be a good mother to your child. You have lost the father of your child, so you need to be the mother and father to the child. You cannot raise a child with bitterness in your heart, it affects the child emotionally and psychologically. Don’t let your father’s refusal in your life hinder the beautiful life God has given you. Stop blaming him and see the beauty in life. Thank you
Ajie Peace
November 8, 2018 at 5:08 AM
I grew up with so much pains, my father died when I was just seven years old & my mum favoured my other siblings over me because I was a daddy’s girl & I reminded her of
him because of my looks & character but I never gave up hope, I am self motivated & God has always been there for me, I know its very painful, I have been there & I almost committed suicide but trust me, forgiving those who have hurt us is better, when we do that, we place them in God’s judgement.
Danti
November 8, 2018 at 9:48 AM
Girl, I don’t blame you, it is tough to forgive and forget sometimes due to circumstances before and after of any misdeed(s). At this point, you should thank your God that you’re still living after what might have happened to you. Some were not so lucky to have the opportunity to talk about their predicaments in the hands of their loved ones. Try to develop a strategy to soften the intensity in your heart, you don’t want to be dominated by this feeling because it might lead you to detach from people (society).
Rabiu sani Doguwa kano
November 9, 2018 at 6:32 AM
my dear,just follow your parents,your end will be good in your life.