September 27, 2017 – Doris Simeon: I’m Not Yet Divorced But I’m Single & Happy
Doris Simeon: Time Has Erased The Emotional Trauma I Went Through When Stella Damasus Snatched My Husband
In a recent interview with ThisDay, ex-wife of US-based filmmaker Daniel Ademinokan, Doris Simeon talked about life as a single mother and how she’s not in support of single parenting.
The single mother of one said her divorce case is still in court.
Read experts of the interview below:
What’s your marital status now?
I am not legally divorced – the divorce suit is still in court. Yes, I am single and I am a happy woman.
Don’t you think being a single mother is now fashionable in Nollywood?
Single motherhood is not peculiar to Nollywood. If you go to the banking sector, there are single mothers there; in the military, in law firms and other fields, there are single mothers. It is not our fault; it’s just that men no longer want to play their role as husbands.
I am not a supporter of single parenthood: every man or woman has the right to live their life the way they choose. It’s just by God’s grace that I am acting and producing. Emotional trauma is not what I will encourage anybody to pass through. God created every woman for a man. So marriage is good.
Is there any possibility that you and your ex will reconcile?
I don’t dwell in the past. I don’t want to talk about that anymore. I have moved on. I have no regret at all. I have only learnt to be stronger. The truth is that I have forgotten about everything. Time has erased it (the emotional pain I went through). I am now a better person. Today, I am closer to God and I put God first in everything I do.
I never gave up on love. I have found love again in Jesus. I am married to my career right now. I am in a relationship anyway but I want to be private about it. I thank God because I am a better person. My career and business are going on well.
Will you remarry?
I am single and ready to mingle. If God sends a man to me I will not reject him.
I am not bored. If it’s God’s plan for me I will go ahead (and get married); if not, then I will remain single.
Do you still have a good relationship with your ex-husband and his wife?
Yes, I do.
What’s unique about you?
It’s my patience. I am also playful. I am playful to the extent that a lot of people think I am not a serious person. I am a very funny person.