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How To Deal With Haters & Negative People In Your Family By Lola Omotayo Okoye

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How To Deal With Haters And Difficult Family Members By Lola Omotayo Okoye

Check out this unique inspirational piece Peter Okoye’s beautiful and wise wife, Lola Omotayo wrote on Instagram few hours ago to encourage fans going through the same family issue like her.

“People send me DM’s asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple: Anger only hurts you!.

What people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth!.

When your sense of satisfaction and self-worth is derived from the opinions of strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness. This constant need of validation from randoms is so unhealthy.

“We are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then how will you grow your Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you, hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way?.

Only YOU are responsible for your psychic hygiene, only you can clear and fill your energy with love and goodness everyday, no one can do it for you and you can only do so through life experiences good and bad. Aim to be kind to your enemies and haters.

Your acts of kindness are never wasted because ultimately, God sees your heart and that is really what matters at the end of the day. Wishing you a blessed week.

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Since she married her hubby, Peter Okoye, her in-laws, Paul and Jude Okoye have been on her case.

They didn’t support her marriage to Peter because of her age and tribe.



  1. Mark Orjiabor

    November 27, 2018 at 3:37 PM

    I pray to have a wife like dis. She is beautiful inside out

    • Flavour

      November 27, 2018 at 7:47 PM

      Don’t be hasten to judge a book by its cover…

  2. iron bar

    November 27, 2018 at 6:14 PM

    let them settle their scores and leave us alone.

  3. Fanny eve

    November 27, 2018 at 7:27 PM

    Peter is not standing by u for nothing. He know what he sees in u. I love u so much mam.

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