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Husband Dumps Transsexual Wife Of 9 Years After Discovering She Was A Man

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Nov 27, 2012 – Husband Dumps Transsexual Wife Of 9 Years After Discovering She Was A Man

A Belgian husband has spoken of his ‘horror’ after learning his wife of 19 years used to be a man.

The duped 64-year-old – identified on first name basis as Jan – said he had ‘no clue’ his bride had been born a boy.

The shocking revelation only emerged after almost two decades of marriage when a cousin from his wife’s native Indonesia finally exposed the truth.

Jan told how he met ‘Monica’ in 1993 when she arrived in his home town of Antwerp as an au-pair to his sister’s children.

He described as her ‘very beautiful and feminine’ – but said he now understood why she was ‘no good at ironing’.

Jan told a Belgian paper: ‘My second marriage was on the rocks at the time and we quickly fell in love.

‘I thought she was an attractive woman, and she was all woman – she had no male traits.

‘She was 27 years old at the time, so I asked her if she wanted children.

‘I was glad when she said she didn’t as I was 44 and already had two of my own.

‘Over the years she said she was taking the pill, and even during sex I never noticed anything, though now I understand why she always used a lubricant, which is apparently normal among transsexuals.

‘She was always a good mother to my children, and also a fantastic cook, though we wasn’t that great at cleaning and ironing – and now I know why!

But Jan said the relationship had begun to suffer over the past two years as she insisted on staying out late on her own wearing ‘very revealing outfits’
He added:

‘She would wear tiny tops that revealed a lot of flesh and had more than 100 pairs of shoes.
‘I also caught her ogling pictures of young men on the Internet.
‘But I didn’t suspect a thing until a cousin of hers came to visit and let something slip.

‘I mentioned it to my son and he said he’d heard a rumour too that Monica used to be a man.

‘One evening I confronted her and she finally confessed she had been born a boy and had a sex change operation.
‘My world collapsed in a few seconds. I was horrified. I feel like have been violated for almost 20 years.’

The couple are still living under the same roof after a judge refused to grant Jan an order to evict her.

But he added: ‘We live in separate rooms and rarely speak. What Monica has done to me and my family is unforgivable. I just want her out of my life.’ (DailyMailUK)



  1. Sunny

    November 27, 2012 at 4:38 PM

    It’s a pity, I don’t know why a man will change himself to woman, that’s very ugly, God made enough beautiful women in these world, my point is, let man be man and woman be woman.

  2. Adejumo Katherine

    November 27, 2012 at 4:52 PM

    Nawa ooo wonder shall never end, noting we no go see 4 dis lyf.

  3. Aminu

    November 27, 2012 at 5:00 PM

    Diz iz demonic………dAt woman,or shud I say dat man anyhw shud b crucified!

  4. Arinze Janothan Arinze

    November 27, 2012 at 5:17 PM

    If na me be dat man, i go use dat boy-gal do r***al money.

  5. Sopian Dominic

    November 27, 2012 at 5:47 PM

    What a terrible world. Nothing is new.

  6. Charles Holt

    November 27, 2012 at 5:53 PM

    What a worst experience for a man to have, and I know how frustrated he's right now seeing her still under his roof. This is purely a bizarre situation.

  7. Onome Ohre

    November 27, 2012 at 10:00 PM

    Wonder shall neva End.

  8. GG

    November 28, 2012 at 1:07 PM

    What’s the real issue here? Where is he/she lacking? They both agreed they don’t want children; what did he say she couldn’t give him as a woman?

    The man is simply making a mountain out of a molehill!

    There are millions of naturally born women and he decided she was most attractive! Pls give me a break!!!

  9. Robert

    November 28, 2012 at 2:12 PM

    I understand it was her large p**** that finally made him suspicious :-)

  10. louis

    November 28, 2012 at 10:46 PM

    na wah 4 this life when we they so wonders shall neva end man when turn woman na wah God has made u man why nt be the man God made u he knws why, why change ur self this wan na sin before the Almight nd human oooh

  11. Enuel

    November 29, 2012 at 12:33 PM

    Heartless woman! But outa all d women na man self d guy go fall inluv wit? Such is life. I pity him doe

  12. salawu dauda

    December 26, 2012 at 7:22 PM

    Wonders upon wonders na wao..

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