My Husband’s Laziness Pushed Me Into Adultery – Divorce Seeking Wife Tells Court

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July 28, 2017 – My Husband’s Laziness Forced Me To Start Having An Affair – Divorce Seeking Wife Tells Court

An adulterous wife, Bola James yesterday told an Idi-Ogungun Customary Court at Agodi, Ibadan, that her mother was aware of her extra marital affair.

Bola is seeking divorce on the grounds of joblessness and laziness on the part of her husband, Gbenga.

She prayed the court to end her 23-year-old marriage, saying that she had made up her mind to love another man.

“My lord, my husband’s laziness made me to be having an affair with another man who is assisting me to cater for my family.

“Mother even knows about the affair.

“Gbenga lives with me in a house I built with my sweat; he is jobless and not ready to do any work. I shoulder all the family responsibilities.

“I can no longer cope with his laziness,’’ she said.

Responding, Gbenga, pleaded with the court not to grant the request.

“My lord, I still love my wife; my love for her is still intact. Don’t grant her request for divorce.

“It is the current economic situation that is affecting my business and finances; I promise to find another means of livelihood,’’ the electronic repairer told the court.

The first child of the couple, Lara, also pleaded with the court not to dissolve the marriage.

She appealed to her mother to forgive her father for her sake and that of her three siblings.

The President of the court, Chief Mukaila Balogun, urged the couple to resolve the matter amicably.

He appealed to the petitioner to put the welfare of the four children into consideration.

Balogun adjourned the case to Aug. 2 for report of settlement or continuation of hearing.

14 thoughts on “My Husband’s Laziness Pushed Me Into Adultery – Divorce Seeking Wife Tells Court

  1. MUMU,MARRIAGE OF 23YRS AND CANNOT HEED YOUR DAUGHTERS ADVICE TO STAY ..WETIN ELECTRONIC REPAIRER DE MAKE FOR THIS RECCESSION.WHO DE EVEN REPAIR ELECTRONICS NOWADAYS?UPGRADE YOUR MAN SINCE YOU HAVE THE RESOURCES AND REAP FROM YOUR MARRIAGE.IT SHOWS YOU ARE ALREADY FED UP WITH HIM,GO AND GRAB THE MAN YOU KEPT FOR BACK YARD.

  2. Please allow the court to grant your wife her wish and move on with your life before things will turn deadly because she’s already fed up and may end up killing you one day.

    • I concor, the lazy man was thinking about fear of unknown. He will be thrown out of the house and no job and he will rather stay and even agree to eat from the food she will bring from the man friend. I pity the guy shaaa but he need to let go and or he will be poisoned one day.

  3. Life is too short for any body to hold another against his or her wish through whatsoever means including marriage. Yet I urge the woman to tamper justice with mercy, at least for the sake of her children.

    • WHO IS lazy? Did you not read that he repairs electronics? Or maybe you mean poor men don’t deserve a wife. I understand. Women hardly respect men, but rather the money that the men possess.

  4. so after 23 years u just realised ur man is lazy?I think u don’t believe in the marriage from d onset

  5. I hope those asking her to stay will not be d ones judging her for adultery? i wonder what d man would have done if the taBle was turned.

  6. A MAN IS supposed to be the breadwinner and carter for the welfare of his family no matter what. The reverse is a misplaced priority.

    If he knows that his electrical work cannot provide for his family why blame recession? Give out the shop, diversified into farming or better still, come join me in hunting and be happy.

    I take a stroll…

  7. Lazy man why would you look for better job when everything is already provided for you. Had it been that you lacking you would have done something.

  8. This is no more a marriage because the woman is already fucking another man.
    From this woman testimony she already in another relationship which she is getting money to feed this man and his children. This is sad because who put the food on the table runs the house.

    I’m not advocating for their separation but let this man be a man by accepting his fate and look for something else to do. He cannot continue to live his life like this. Let his wife continue to take care children since she has sugardaddy who is financing her needs. Continue staying in that relationship is hazard.

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