In this recent chat with Global Excellence Magazine editor, Folorunsho Hamsat, the ever-loving husband of Nollywood actress Ireti Osayemi Mr Bakky Adeoye, clears the air on their marriage crash report and more.
Is it true that your wife abandoned you due to misunderstanding?
There’s no misunderstanding that can’t be handled domestically and privately. My wife is still at home.
Share your experience as a strong pillar behind your wife’s career.
Well, I’ll say it’s just simply natural for partners to rub on each other. It’s normal and expected to be a part of her growth in her composed career. All I did, still doing and would do in future are normal things I should do for my wife to assist her career.
As an experienced married man, what is the necessary tonic for a happy and lasting marriage?
There’s no marriage school and whatever I may say would basically be from my perspective and experience. Some of the necessary tonics are unblemished love, I always advise that the couple should love each other. That means that when chips are down, the lady or the man comes first. They should ensure great understanding between each other. The two have become one and they mustn’t hide anything from each other. No lies. They should be there for one another and weather the storms together because high and low times are bound to occur. They must be ready to support one another at all times and avoid third party in their affair. They should keep friends and family away from their issues and challenges. The couple must shun peer group pressure and influence. Both should be responsible and responsive. Beyond love, understanding and uprightness, a man loves to be respected. Respect him and give him peace of mind to blossom and be a good husband.