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Lagos Pastor Divorces Wife Over Sex & Food Starvation

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August 30, 2016 -“My Body Is Not A Stone Or Iron Rod” – Lagos Pastor Drags Cheating Wife To Court Over Sex Starvation

A 39-year-old pastor, Andrew Ndubisi, yesterday approached an Igando Customary Court, Lagos, to dissolve his four-yearold marriage over sex and food starvation.

He said: “My wife (Saraphina) starves me of food and sex. She always gives excuses whenever I want to make love to her. Despite all my pleading, she will not allow me; my body is not a stone or iron rod.

“Apart from sex, she also denies me food; she is a poor cook and hardly cooks. Whenever she does, is either the food is too salty or watery. “If I complain, she will take the food and dispose of it and she will never apologise; I used to buy food to eat or go hungry.”

The petitioner, according to the NAN, also accused his wife of infidelity.

He said:

“My wife is having an affair. Last February 1, I called my wife with a new SIM I just bought. “Unknown to her, she never knew who was calling; she said is it because my wife was around that I refused call or visit her. It was then that I knew that my wife was having an affair.

“I refused to respond. I waited for her to do the talking; she started calling me sweet names and told me how much she loves me. “She insisted I should say something; I later revealed myself to her and she was shocked. Before I got home, she has packed out with our three-year-old daughter.

“When she did not return for days, I reported at the police station; I also went to the radio and television stations including a newspaper, to place announcement of a missing person.” Saraphina, a 31-year-old businesswoman, welcomed the divorce. The petitioner, however, denied all the allegations against her.

[Agency Report]



  1. Metu Nyetu

    August 30, 2016 at 5:31 AM

    I FEEL like not having need to hear the other half of the story. This pastor’s side is very weighty, very convincing. I strongly believe that any partner who perpetually starves the other half in a marriage has broken the vow already, and is cheating. Marriage, what a charade these days! It has simply become a make-belief. It is very heart-rending that pastors now compete with world celebrities as regards divorce rate.

    MY PROBLEM—IS it actually mine?—is not that they are divorcing, but rather, how they conduct themselves after divorce. Fornication is celebreted even by Christians these days, and nobody cares. I know that if people had understood marriage as something they do only once in their lives—except in the event of death—they would have been more careful in choosing their spouses.

  2. D Hunter

    August 30, 2016 at 6:20 AM

    Hence you have to be very prayerful and allow the Spirit of God to lead you to your divine better half NG soon to be groom @ Metu.

    When you allow the beauty alone in a woman to lead you, you will end up marrying another “SERAPHINA“, maybe worse.

    Still strolling…

    • Metu Nyetu

      August 30, 2016 at 9:09 PM

      @D HUNTER, YOU SENIOR me with 7years o! Dey there until I use you as my bestman for my wedding. Lolzzzzzzz.

  3. Endure

    August 30, 2016 at 7:25 AM

    It baffles me and many at times I became shocked at the rate of divorce this days as a result of marital disloyalty,adultery,Infidelity among many spouse. Sex and food starvation is the worst punishment a man could receive from a wife. But how could a woman who is not adulterous or having an affair with another man act that way towards her husband? If she is an innocent wife who loves and care for her husband who is also free from her husband’s alligation,she wouldn’t have consented to the court order to have there marriage dissolved. And on top of it,she fled from home with there baby after her promiscuity conduct has been exposed. She didn’t even care to come to the court to prove her innocence. Therefore,her welcoming the dissolution of their marriage shows very clearly that she has being engaging in what she was alleged of by her husband. Such an immoral woman should be left to pack her load and go for good. Pastor’s wife for that matter.

  4. sola olaniyi

    August 30, 2016 at 9:12 AM

    i strongly believe this lagos pastor..the wife is a cheat

  5. Maryf

    August 30, 2016 at 2:05 PM

    That is why is good court a want to settle for at least one year before getting married to her.

  6. fifelomo

    August 30, 2016 at 4:06 PM

    Better for them to go thier separate ways….

  7. huchennar

    August 30, 2016 at 6:28 PM

    Mummy G.O is stingy daddy G.O is angry marriage is Crashing church is praying their children future is shaking #LOBATAN


  8. Big Aunty Koks

    August 30, 2016 at 7:47 PM

    That the man is a pastor does not mean he has to be forcefully made to maintain “holiness” by by abstaining from sex and forced to go on “permanent fasting” from food. This woman appears not to have been ready for marriage in the first place. Too bad the pastor walked into her orbit. They are better off divorced in the circumstances.

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