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My Husband Is A Chronic & Incurable Flirt – Lagos Businesswoman Tells Court

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August 17, 2016 – Divorce Drama: My Husband Is A Chronic & Incurable Flirt – Lagos Businesswoman Tells Court

An Alimosho Customary Court in Lagos on Wednesday dissolved the five-year marriage between Mrs. Fausat Umar and her husband, Abudu Umar, over the respondent’s failure to appear in the court.

The President of the court, Alhaja S. O. Mumuni, in her judgment, said that it was obvious from available testimony and the respondent’s refusal to appear in court that the marriage had hit the rock.

“Throughout the duration of this case, the respondent refused to honour court processes, therefore, the court has no other choice than to dissolve the marriage.
“The marriage between Fausat Umar and her husband Abudu Umar is hereby dissolved from today in accordance with the Lagos State Customary Law, 2013, Cap.19.

“Both parties are no longer husband and wife, they are free to marry any partner of their choice, without any hindrances and molestation,” she said.
Fausat, 35, businesswoman, had approached the court to end her marriage which did not produce any child, claiming that her husband was “a chronic and incurable flirt”.

She also accused Abudu of adultery.
“My husband is a flirt, he runs after anything in skirt. In fact, he is addicted to women and always behaves as if he is cursed.

“I am always afraid to travel because if I travel, my husband will bring women of different sizes and colours into our matrimonial bedroom.
“On many occasions, I have met women in my bedroom and they will even be threatening me to leave my husband for them.

“He always receives series of love text messages and calls his lovers at odd hours.
“Anytime, I confronted him with those text messages, he always tells me to leave if I cannot accommodate them,” she told the court.

The petitioner said that she packed out from her husband’s house on March 11, 2015, due to his (Abudu’s) “shameless attitude”.

“I packed out of my matrimonial home March last year, on that very day, one of his concubines packed in.”
According to her, her husband does not care for her, adding that he only cares and send money to his lovers.

She, therefore, prayed the court to dissolve her marriage.




  1. bettyb

    August 17, 2016 at 6:26 PM

    what women go through. may God help her

  2. Bokemb

    August 17, 2016 at 7:32 PM

    what happen to Sharia law?

  3. Endure

    August 17, 2016 at 7:34 PM

    If what you are accusing your husband of is true,then the court did the right thing by dissolving the marriage. This is in full accordance with what is obtainable according to the bible. Either the husband or the wife has the right to divorce the other provided it is confirm that the other person have defiled the marriage bed by engaging in extra marital affair. If what the woman is saying is not true,why didn’t the husband show up in the court to prove his innocence? I believe the mind to forgive would have been there for the wife,but the wife couldn’t help but to seek for the dissolution of the marriage considering the fact that it wasn’t the first time the man have being sleeping with all sort of women. Therefore the court did the right thing in dissolving the marriage.

  4. fifelomo

    August 17, 2016 at 8:18 PM

    Who’s the man? Is that man so handsome that he chases anything in skirts? Madam, better for you, you can now travel since ur marriage is dissolved. Mchew!hmmmmm.

  5. TIno

    August 18, 2016 at 5:28 AM

    Women don’t run after a handsome men anymore my dear, what they are after now is money! Cash! Kudi! Ego!

  6. Sweetchy

    August 18, 2016 at 7:53 AM

    Incurable flirt? This is extreme!

  7. sola olaniyi

    August 18, 2016 at 9:37 AM

    she should free the man abeg

  8. Maryf

    August 18, 2016 at 11:05 AM

    True true, no love and care again from the man to his wife. I pity him

  9. huchennar

    August 18, 2016 at 11:50 AM

    stories of divorce everywhere this is to bad but i will keep asking “why would you venture into marriage when you know you not ready”.. leave marriage alone and flirt around if that is what you still want.


  10. huchennar

    August 18, 2016 at 11:52 AM

    it been days now since i last saw @D_HUNTER on this forum hope no troubles @

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