Open Letter: Igbo Man Blasts Tonto Dikeh For Insulting Nigerian Igbo Men

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Jan 4, 2013 – Open Letter: Igbo Man Blasts Tonto Dikeh For Insulting Nigerian Igbo Men: I will never marry a woman who has shown the entire world ‘my tattoos

Few months ago, Tonto Dikeh was alleged to have said and we quote “I keep waiting for an Igbo man, I will just end up like Genevieve Nnaji who is eternally single”.

A concerned Igbo man by the name of Onyeka Nwelue recently gave actress Tonto Dikeh a piece of his mind in an open letter to her.

The letter reads:

Open Letter To Tonto Dikeh From An Igbo Guy

Dear Tonto Dikeh,

I know you feel beautiful this morning! Well, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. For me, you are nowhere near ‘beautiful’. You are just there. But before I tell you what I really want to tell you, I need to tell you something. There is a lady called Adele. She is a singer. She sings. I need to explain what a singer means, because I understand that you have no brain at all. Because I hate sugar-coating, I am hated by a lot of people. You are just like me too. I will understand when people hate you, but, seriously, if you think Igbo men are nosy, then, you are right. That is your opinion and you must protect it.

I am an Igbo man. I will defend myself right now. Back to Adele. I will tell you everything about this young lady who transformed herself into something very beautiful in the eyes of men. I also understand that you don’t know her, but it won’t hurt if I tell you about her now. This is what TIME magazine wrote about her few days ago: “As talented and appealing as she is, few could foresee how utterly dominant Adele would be in 2011: in an era where even the highest-tier musical acts can struggle to move records, her sophomore effort, 21, sold 17 million copies worldwide and spent 16 weeks at the top of the Billboard 200 chart, the longest for any record since 1998’s Titanic sound track. Combined with sales of her previous album, 19, Adele has topped the U.K. charts for 21 weeks — a feat matched only by the bands Oasis and Queen.” Tonto nne m, Adele is 23. You are older. She is not worried about her future. You are. She is focused about her music.

You are worried that no Igbo man will marry you after you’ve created yourself into a bamboo stick. Truth is that I don’t know you personally, but you’ve created a strong mystery around yourself. People see you as a soul from hell. They say you’ve sold your soul to the devil. Me, I don’t know where the devil lives, but I think you have. You even went ahead to show us tattoos at your back. I just didn’t understand why you did that. As an Igbo man, I will never marry a woman who has shown the entire world ‘my tattoos.’ It is not good. I am an Igbo man, so I will
need to know who snapped the picture. Maybe, your secret boyfriend? This is the reason why we are bad, abi? Adele doesn’t go around seeking attention. She doesn’t pay anyone to publish pictures of her tattoos. Who knows? She may just have a lot of them. I haven’t seen them. I have seen yours.

There is nothing wrong in you tattooing your entire body, but what is my business with that? Are you not supposed to be an actress? Of course, I understand that you appear in pornographic films now? That is good. At least, you are doing what you know best. But to pick on Igbo men? This is very unacceptable. You insulted a lot of us. This simply shows how unintelligent you are towards anthropology. Men are the same all over the world. Igbo man, Yoruba man, Hausa man. We all treat women in similar ways. We love unconditionally.

And we all become nosy when our women start acting like you. If your father is an Igbo man, dearest Tonto Dikeh, you are a monkey. But I will be sorry if you didn’t say that. I only rely on the media, since I don’t know you personally. If you didn’t say it, Tonto, I am very sorry. I will publicly apologise. Yet, I believe you did, because you do so many things after marijuana. If it’s not good for your brain, stop smoking. Listen to Adele’s Someone Like You and you will feel good.

I don’t look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely,
Onyeka Nwelue

82 thoughts on “Open Letter: Igbo Man Blasts Tonto Dikeh For Insulting Nigerian Igbo Men

  1. Onyeka nwelue or whatever your name is, you need to go and get a life, you wasted your time and energy all to distroy her image, enemy of progress well, your one of those stupid Igbo man because if your not you should be doing something beneficial to your life and am hundred percent sure that you did not write this letter, am pretty sure you are one of those Igbo man that did not go to school, an educated man will over look what she said, if its really what she said and you comparing her with ADELE made you more stupid and ILLITRATE.POVERTY HAVE MADE YOU NOT TO MIND YOUR BUSINESS. SORRY DEAR. My dearest TONTO,girl you are beautiful even will be more prettier than that IDIOTS wife please live your life as you want it and never live to listen to peoples bullshits. ONE love

  2. Its only a jobless man that will sit down and criticize people just like you did, Mr onyeka please get a job go and keep yourself busy by working, not by distorying peoples image. it does not matter if its what she said, confronting her would have been the best thing to do, not coming to media sending a letter that you cant even pronounce any WORDS in the letter, your a very funny creature, the biggest fool i have ever encounter in my entire life .AM AN IGBO GIRL,I LIVE IN CANADA AND I DO NOT SUPPORT YOUR ILLITRATE LETTER IF YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEM CONTACT ME,or reply my comment.

    • @honey sweetcock black brain,among u and Onyeka who is the most stupid person,jus bcos of the particle of meatpie or debris of shawama that Toto di ike will give to u made u support her evil act. i guex u will end up with her jus the way Okiri said…ewe ne we boys. u beta dont say much again. God’s judgement is coming upon her soon dont b a victim bt b a witness. Tonto Dike continue i pray God help u. Good people of Nigeria,she isnt the 1 acting, if u [email protected] well she’s possessed with many spirit. i’ve u watch her porno film?

  3. Honey sweet if u wana b fwends wif tonto i bet facebook is d best place 2 start up ur cheap display of sarcarsm,wot tonto said is nt gud 4 any tribe or country,people r tryn 2 correct a mistake,England gav terry match ban n fine 4 racism, u claim 2b educated wel i bliv u cos only an educated fool will concur 2 tonto dike’s word of tribalism,wch is 80% of naija problem 2day,

  4. Ordo all man ar dsame, but we ar different in charaster u guys shuld take dat 2 una head! Igbo conduct is quiet different frm hausa own, nd dere something tonto c b4 she said so. So make una mind una business afterall no body cn change her account.

  5. I wonder why pple should side u at all Tonto cos u re really a fool. I praise d Igbo men 4 showing themselves moral enough nt to dally wit a morally debased thing like u. Life is not all about movies. Many actresses re able 2 strike dis difference. Why nt do same.Buy ur life back frm d devil to whom u sold it and have a life 4once. Chu.

  6. honey sweet guex u’re a coward who is looking for an helper. i’ve seen her Eve-like body b4 so is not a new thing. i disvrgin Tonto Dike inside a toilet(public toilet) y travelling. she’s jus frustrated bcos that was the last day we saw each other. honey sweet bitter stupid person like u,i guex u re as cheap as Tonto..abi?

  7. Is nt her fault, she see herself were she never expected 2 b dats y she behaves uncontrolable bt she need A BIG Deliverance

  8. Honey Sweet, am sorry u allowed urself 2b abused. Dats very painful. Pls without fear or favor, lets us all try & stamp out evil frm our society. Dis very issue everyone is fuming at, believe me dear, there’s something really wrong about it.

  9. Dis is part 1…waiting 4 Tonto Decay’s reply…d gal is jst trying to get attention…as soon as dis one comes down she will say anoda stupid thing,she knows her fame is fading…Onyeka Nwelue…weldone shaa

  10. Kelvin is rit,she is entitted 2her opinion.I think her opinion is based on her accessment or xpiriences with ogbo guys besibe no yoruba weman has ever pick offence wen u say they r dirty,wen u talk down on hausa’s no 1 has ever gone crazy so y picking @ her?stop d hatred 4 whatever she chooses 2do with her life should not be ur business.judge selves b4 judging Tonto Dike.

  11. TONTON u know say u know get respect o,when u com enter nollywood way u com tink say u n genny na mate?as u b like igbo smoker so,u wan compare urself?i tink ur brain is damaged!n of all na d igbo’s u pick on?ur wasted gal!!!

  12. thanks chigozie even their is no time for her to open face not to talk of book how sure do u people know she says what u are talking about, how can somebody say he nos she said it and at thesame time if is not true she shouldn’t be offended you people should no he is talking out of attred. the statements does not make sense as far he is not sure.

  13. Aint a fan of hers nd neva wil be..buh I tink mostof us r jst too quick to judge..lotta tins dey claim she said im sure she cnt b so dumb to say in public, hw wil she talk abt genevieve like dat, its nt possible !

  14. abeg!! make una leave my sister alone for me,This guy na confirm idiot, she want to live her life like oyibo people, none of your business,I pray she will get husband soon, she’s making money, you are here beating around the bush, big fool

  15. FYI Guys, Tonto is now happily married with a baby. Also is not Igbo, she is Ikwerre from Rivers State

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