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Pastor: My Wife Is Fond Of Cursing Me With Her Private Part, Please Separate Us

September 25, 2017 – Pastor: My Wife Is Fond Of Cursing Me With Her Private Part, Please Separate Us

A cleric, Bernard Towoju, who said he cannot tolerate his wife’s ill-nature and trouble, has approached an Igando Customary Court, Lagos, seeking dissolution of their 25 years marriage.

He said his wife, Abosede, was fond of stripping naked to curse him with her private part.

“I cannot continue to make love to a woman who always curses me with her private part,” Towoju said.

He said Abosede is stubborn, wayward and troublesome.

“I am afraid, I cannot sleep under the same roof with her,” he said.

The petitioner implored the court to dissolve the marriage, as he was no longer interested in it.

Abosede accused her husband of calling her a witch.

“He claimed everywhere he went for solution to his problems that they told him I am behind his predicament.

“My hands are clean; I know nothing about his woes,” said the respondent.

“Bernard abandoned me and the children 10 years ago. I have been taking care of the children,” the 36-year-old fashion designer added.

The mother of four urged the court not to grant her husband’s request, saying “I still love him.”

The court President, Mr. Adegboyega Omilola, adjourned the case till October 31 for further hearing.



  1. Endurance

    September 25, 2017 at 3:47 PM

    The request of that husband should not be granted by the court. The husband is the one that is “wayward” leaving behind 4 children for an abandoned woman to take care of. It is so shocking to observe how religion have brought so many woes, troubles and misery into the lives of many. People have allowed themselves to be deceived and be fooled by some religious leaders who claim to be seeing people’s problem by means of some divine vision from God while in reality, they are all lies. If not, why would the husband called his wife they’ve been married for so many years a witch? Didn’t he know that his wife was a witch when he got married to her? This is the consequence of allowing yourself to be fooled by those who parade themselves as the men of God. The court should endeavor to counsel this couple rather than dissecting there marriage. They can still live together happily.

  2. Vivienne B

    September 26, 2017 at 2:09 AM

    She still loves him yet can’t stop using her “obo” to lay curses on him? Yoruba women…CHAI! By the way, does she realize when she curses him, she’s also cursing herself?
    I hope they resolve their wahala!

    • Endurance

      September 26, 2017 at 5:14 AM

      I believe the woman used her private part to curse her husband out of anger of been unjustly accused as a witch after the foolish husband have been brainwashed by some fortune tellers. None of us can take it when anyone accuse us of what we are not. The woman may have even used her private part to swear so as to prove to her husband about her innocence. But her husband may decide to twist the matter in the court so that he can be free to mary another beautiful girl he has been eyeing out there. The woman should not be blamed that much. Every intelligent person can understand her pain, anger and frustration and why she behaved that way. Many men are very bad. When they are tired of there wives, then there next move is to head to the court to cook some lies against there wives so that they be let loosed to marry another young lady. If the stupid husband insist he one’s to leave his wife, then the court should mandate it that he must pay heavy amount every month end in order to take care of those children he’s leaving behind. I pity women a lot. They are always the victim of oppression in marriage.

  3. Stagga

    September 26, 2017 at 3:12 AM

    That is a serious curse that is capable of having damaging effect on the cleric, in terms of misfortune. What then differentiate her from a wish ?

    • Endurance

      September 26, 2017 at 5:29 AM

      Have you asked how many years the woman has been left to take care of those 4 children they both produced? Can you take it when your spouse suddenly start accusing you as a witch instead of appreciating your effort in taking care of the children he left behind for about ten years? Let’s always be fair in our judgement. That woman may have done what she did due to the pain of been accused as a witch. My take on this is that the court should ensure they make it compulsory for the husband to take good care of there children should he insist he’s quitting the marriage.

      • Jilo

        September 26, 2017 at 7:14 PM

        Endurance, before you judge this case you have to fully understand what has transpired between the couples. You don’t know how they treat each other behind the closed door and you have already concluded is the man’s fault. Endurance, I would like to make it clear to you that you are wrong in your judgement. Some women that you think are weak are the ones mostly tormenting their husband at home so also as some men.

        This is not the first divorce case you are going to hear about, you have read about some women who were more trouble makers in their home than you can ever imagine, they are the one causing all problems in their marriage Vice Versa to some men. You cannot just render guilty verdict on this man alone, you have to judge from both statements.

        • Endurance

          September 26, 2017 at 11:23 PM

          Whether anyone knows how they’ve been treating one another behind close door or not is left for both of them and there God. But going by what has been said here by the couple, one can easily detect what is going on between the two. Does it really make any sense to you @jilo that a woman would just woke up and start cursing her husband using her private part? An intelligent and highly reasonable someone would know that something must have caused it and it is mostly likely from the husband. I am not backing what she did using her private part to curse her husband. But the question you should ask yourself is, what must have moved this woman to curse her husband in this manner? Do you know what it means when your spouse for that matter accuse you of been a witch? A woman you have been sleeping with over the years and has given birth to 4 children for you and has not killed them, has not killed you and you just suddenly woke up and start calling her a witch? How do you think any woman will accept such a silly accusation? Common Jilo be reasonable! She might have even swear using her private part to prove her innocence to her husband that she’s not a witch and that God will judge whoever is accusing her unjustly. Then the husband in turn might have capitalized on that and used it as an excuse to file for divorce, seeking for marriage dissolution with a wife whom has been taking care of there 4 children for the past 10 years of abandonment. Obviously, the husband’s action stems from the report he’d been given by some vision seers that his wife is a witch. This is nothing but a gross oppression and maltreatment from the husband. Accept it or not, that man is to be blame. He’s a stupid husband. Its a shame he’s even a cleric. A cleric who is divorcing his wife not on a scriptural ground for divorce which is adultery but on a mere ground of ‘my wife is using her private part to curse me’. What a shame! It is so sad that those who claim to be men of God are the real devils and deceivers who will reap there reward in hell.

  4. Jilo

    September 27, 2017 at 6:32 PM

    Thanks for your response Endurance but let me pick it up from where you stop. First, I have a question for you Endurance, are you married at all? It appears from your response that you still have a long way to go in dealing and understanding women issues. A highly responsible and intelligent person like you should know how not to judge when handling men/women affairs. You are one of those people whom many couples used to settle their fight whenever they determine to reconcile. I’m not bragging, I have better judgement than you when it comes to handling husband and wife issues.

    You and I have read a lot of divorce cases in this forum where sometimes either husband or wife was at fault. Some women will even request from the judge that they don’t need any reconciliation, I’m not saying men are 100% right at all times but we have to take caution whenever we are in the jury position. If you have 10 kids with a woman does that mean she cannot kills you? and some men are out there they will never satisfy with whatever their wife might have done to satisfy them. Marriage issue is not one sided that is my point. Have a nice day!

    • Endurance

      September 28, 2017 at 7:10 PM

      I should be the one asking you if at all you’ve married going by your overall poor assessment about this issue @jilo. And you are the one that has a very long way to go in terms of marriage. How can you openly support a man that has left his wife for more than 10 years leaving that poor woman to fend for herself and there 4 children all in the name of ‘my wife is cursing me using her private part? If that suffering mother of 4 is your sister, would you have accepted any man to maltreat her that way? Calling her a witch after she has catered for those 4 children for the past 10 years alone is absurd and senseless? If the woman is truly a witch and wants to kill her husband, do you think she wouldn’t have attack her husband wherever he may be living in a spiritual way ever since she was left to take care of those 4 children for the past 10 years? It amazed me how you reason honestly. And who are you to tell me you have a better judgment than I am when it comes to handling of husband and wife issue? This marital discord between this couple has really helped me to see your inner mind, your carriage, your level of thinking and behaviour. From all your imprecise reply, you’ve not been able to tell me how this woman wants to kill her husband. I can’t even figure out your overall point in this issue. I just wondered how you’ve been living with your wife if at all you’ve married!

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