Father Of Dolapo, Abused Nigerian Woman Speaks At Her Graveside “Beware Of Satanic Spouse”

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June 18, 2013 – Father Of Dolapo GoodGod, Dead Abused Nigerian Woman Speaks At Her Graveside In Dublin Ireland”Beware Of Satanic Spouse”

Do you remember the touching story of a Nigerian abuse who was abused by her husband in Dublin, Ireland before her death in April? If you missed it please read it here.

Below is a very touching oration her father gave during her burial last week in Dublin Ireland.

Late Yetunde aka Dolapo GoodGod was buried on the 14th of June, 2013.

The oration reads:

” It is indeed agonizing to write this story; it is about our beloved daughter Yetunde Omodolapo Olotu Jagha, she had a happy and enviable childhood, committed parents, a dream secondary school, her dream university and graduated a truthful, fulfilled, Christ- loving adult.

Yetunde Omodolapo had just gained an admission into the federal University of Technology, Akure, Nigeriafor a master degree program when suddenly she brought Mr.Noble Oritsemeyin Jagha(Oti) for marriage.

It was marriage or nothing as they had agreed to suspend that admission for another year which never materialized.The entire (Idano) betrothal obligation that was expected to be provided by the husband’s family according to Yoruba tradition was not provided.  We bore the cost of these betrothal obligations: the entertainment at the engagement ceremony and the after-marriage party.

This was done in good faith just as we accepted the husband in all sincerity not minding his financial status.  We took him as a son. Not long after the birth of their first child, news started filtering to my wife and  I that Oti as the husband was fondly called stayed out late and had at some stages  beat his wife even with belt.

“I wonder why my daughter had to undergo this brutish act, despite the fact that she was betrothed to him a virgin; a virtuous woman she was! In this quest my daughter departed to Dublin, he continued in his night crawling; leaving their little child alone all the time. He was also involved in loads of unhealthy relationship with strange women.

This information became known to through his driver when my wife and I stayed a night in his house while he was said to have traveled. He even brought home women laundry. We did not inform our daughter about this discovery because we wanted to save their marriage which was at the verge of dissolution.

Hence, we encouraged Oti to join his wife.The first sign of financial unreliability we experienced from Mr. Jagha was when my wife’s nephew who lived in London sent Oti some money to be deposited into his bank account in a bank where Oti worked in Ibadan,Nigeria.

Up till date, the money has not been recovered from him..Then came his involvement in fraud which led to his flee from Nigeria. My wife also loaned him an amount of N1.2 million to repay his debt but he did not. Instead, he used the money as fare to flee Nigeria to London while he abandoned the entire family belongings.

The Criminal Investigative Department officers that were laying siege on their home were subsequently led to us in Akure from Ibadan by his office driver with a view to apprehending me. This great loss of assets and dignity was another reason our late daughter became fed up with the unwholesome corrupt life style of this ignoble Oti as a husband.

But after his pressure on us by incessant telephone calls and the fact that their innocent first, nursery age child was with him, also suffering in London, we persuaded our daughter to allow him join her in Dublin hoping that he would change for the better.

Unfortunately, he never changed, he proved correct the Yoruba adage which says “the character of a man never leaves him because it is in- borne.” He started his ignoble life style; fighting his wife over allowances from government that was meant for the children’s maintenance, the wife’s earnings from her daily toils, and his free life style.

Rather than pick up a job to join in the maintenance of the family, he prefers to loiter the street in quest for flings and speaking on the phone for hours with women. He finally made his wife to have another pregnancy that gave them the twin baby girls for which reason the stone- hearted husband abandoned the wife in the hospital because none of the twins is a male child. From that time, he boasted to me several times on telephone, that he must have a male child from any other source.

He hated the idea of our daughter not having a male child, he blamed and frustrated her for it even unto death. I pleaded with him that countries like Britain, Germany, India, Liberia etc had females as head of governments of their countries but this meant nothing to his resolute decision. Jagha was accused severally of having affairs with married women in the church whose husbands in return made dolapo’s life a living hell sending her texts and emails of curses and of threatening nature coupled with what she was facing at home and having to work 6 days a week to maintain the whole family, not long after, our daughter was diagnosed of breast cancer.

According to Mr. Jagha, he knew when the attack (Satanic Arrow) was sent to him and the wife but he dodged it while his wife could not. He did not agree with the wife to see a doctor when the lump was initially found and disagreed it should be removed when advised by doctors.  He insisted on prayer alone and our daughter succumbed to his wicked advice wanting to be obedient. However when it worsened she had to be hospitalized. The husband‘s main  concern all the time had not always been the health of the wife but to extort money for his free life style, even though he refused to take up any Job.

The wife finally had to approach the court for a safety and protection order/ judicial separation when she could no longer bear the physical and mental abuse she suffered in the hands of Oti.  The church persuaded our daughter to withdraw any legal action which she did in obedience. The church claimed that Oti resolved to be of good behavior and pleaded return back to their home which he had abandoned with the family car so that dolapo had to trek with the children to school in bad weather while under treatment until her condition grew worse, he was never supportive despite all appeal to him from quarters including his wife until she was moved to the hospice.

From the Yoruba perspective, it should be inferred that the so-called arrow of cancer was Oti’s diabolic act. So that once the wife was eliminated; he would be free to marry another wife as permitted by Christian faith, he had promised a certain lady in the church he was having an affair with that he would marry her when his wife dies, this was revealed to dolapo by the lady’s friends. It may surprise you that this man is a “PASTOR.”

One is therefore surprised that such an ignoble Mr. Noble Jagha could be appointed a Pastor of that reputable church in which he worships even against his wife’s plea that he needed to change, grow and restitute (she was ignored).  As the father of late Yetunde Omodolapo, it is my conclusion that her husband was responsible for her untimely cruel death; out of demonic acts and charms, long drawn oppression and neglect  even on her final sick bed. Oti was the primary killer while cancer was just a secondary cause of death, and why is this not a surprise for someone who tried to kill his own blood sister.

Throughout the time she was hospitalized her friends and church members drew a 24hrs roaster to take turns in taking care of her. The husband turned up once in a while to see if she was still breathing and urges her to transfer money to his account every week.  He stole her bank card at the hospital and robbed her a sum of One thousand Euros plus and transferred money from the deceased’s account to an unknown account of a man in Athlone (An elder in the church whom we gathered he owes) and also fuelled his car and enjoyed the luxury of our daughters stipend in company of her girlfriends in Athlone on the grounds that he was getting paid for looking after his own children.

We reliably gathered that on the day our daughter died, her estranged husband’s first concern was seizure of the death certificate and the approach of her late wife’s office for information of how to collect her terminal retirement financial benefits. How dare you lay claim on the benefit of a woman you cruelly hated and sent to her early grave, and whose corpse was yet to be buried?

This is unacceptable Mr Jagha!When Mr. Jagha arrived Dublin, I advised him to engage himself in a meaningful employment from which he would be able to earn good money from which he could repay and restitute the embezzled money from the bank and become a free man rather than hide in Europe. He bluntly refused; the image of a wanted criminal meant nothing to him.One could see, therefore, why late Yetunde could never be comfortable with a man without a conscience.

A man who chose to cover his slothful, ignoble, secret and sinful life style with the title of a “PASTOR”. This accounts   for his hidden agenda to eliminate his wife for not bearing a male child.Mr. Noble Oritsetimeyin  Jagha boasted several times that he would assemble his prayer warriors and hold vigils to hasten her death; no wonder my daughter was not shocked when she saw the prayer points in Noble Jagha’s purse which he forgot at the hospice while he came to ask for money from the wife as usual; the prayer-point stated that God should strike Yetunde’s heart and that she should do no other thing except what he (Jagha) orders her to do.

Little wonder, if this is the ideal prayer that a dying woman required on her sick bed. When she even pleaded with her husband to pray for her, he bluntly refused. On the night before the death of my daughter, while my daughter could hardly speak, he was in another bout of accusations about who said what about who reported to the child-protection agency that he left the kids at home for two days on a row to go to school and sleep all by themselves while he visited his concubine in Athlone while Yetunde was at the hospice.

Now that she is dead, how then, can Mr. Noble Jagha suddenly develop sincere love and concern for these innocent female children after the death of their mother? We are aware that you see them as your meal ticket/money bag and nothing else…….The wicked shall not go unpunished therefore; a so-called pastor who has not a fruit of the spirit to show for the prayer power he claims to demonstrate is another Elymasthe sorcerer and shall disappear into hell suddenly as such at God’s appointed time.

Therefore, no one seeking the true God, and therefore true success, true prosperity here on earth, and eternal life for that matter, should worship under such a pastor  regardless of what powers of prayer he demonstrates (Matt 7 -21-23). God’s word stand for ever “Surely the wicked shall be caught in his own craftiness; he shall not go scot-free. 13 As our daughter is interred into her eternal rest, all parents, friends, on lookers must strive hard that their children, and relations do not fall into the nets of the satanic wicked spouse.

Christian churches of the living God should strive hard that they do not hire pastors like the ignoble; Satan- possessed Mr. Noble Jagha that will send their innocent worshippers into eternal doom.

Yetunde, my beloved daughter, rest in perfect  peace, in the bosom of the living God of vengeance till we meet to part no more”.

OMG this is so sad…. It brought tears to my eyes.

Imagine what this woman went through before her death.

May the Lord bless and protect her children.

This is a lesson for all single ladies… Please pray very well before choosing.

May her soul rest in perfect peace.

If you missed her letter before death, read it here

20 thoughts on “Father Of Dolapo, Abused Nigerian Woman Speaks At Her Graveside “Beware Of Satanic Spouse”

  1. MY GOODNESS WHAT A PAINFUL WAY TO LEAVE THIS WORLD,MAY HER SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE, MY ADVICE TO THE PARENTS OF THE DECEASED IS JUST HAND EVERYTHING OVER TO GOD,I KNOW IT’S VERY PAINFUL BUT SAY NO MORE, HE SAID VENGEANCE IS MINE I WILL REPAY!!! YOUR DAUGHTER WAS A DEVOTED WIFE,SHE HAS DONE HER PART, AND SURELY THIS IS NOT THE END.

  2. I realy feel for ur daughter, bcos i av pass through hell just lik ur daughter, i married at 24 a virgin, but marriage became a thorn of d flesh for me, wat did i nt see or pass, i was floged wit d iron head of belt wich gav me serious injury wit bledin from my mouth and nose, my parent had to seek d counsel of d pastor wher i wed, but he refused, but d God hates divorce. Wat did i nt see, extra marital affairs, beatings, floging, humiliations, etc. But tank God in all dese things God gav me sound health. Every lady out there marriage is nt a bed of roses, u must av challenges, it is nt d beginin dat matter, bfore going into marriage seek d face of God. Bcos wit him all is posible.wen it comes to marriage women are mustly d victim, after going tru 9mths journey of pregnancy. DOLAPO GOODGOD R.I.P. As for Oti Noble Jagha NEMESIS wil catch up wit him.

  3. i have seen worst situations like this.
    honestly,d worst thing one can fall into,is getting married to a wicked/satanic spouse….Even after d person leaves,his /her children will keep suffering it,emotionally or otherwise.
    May her soul rest in peace,may she find rest.

  4. The lesson here for every singles is that you should inquire form God befr u choose a life partner. He knws d end from d beginning and He will always lead u aright. RIP Dolapo.

  5. I sympathize with you over the passing on of your daughter. You have every right to mourn her and to lament over the error that you could not corrected whilst your daughter was alive. Baba Dolapo; you are equally to be blamed for the untimely demise of your girl. You married her to an animal in the name of freedom of choice and happiness; you tolerated Oti’s ways all along in the name of happy marriage for your daughter. With your support, Dolapo could have escaped the evil her husband did to her. You married her to a stranger without and commitment (no dowry)from the man and doubt if you ever met your in-laws. You were bold to say that you footed the marriage ceremony’s bill. Ha ha. Baba Dolapo you could have been assertive and allow due process to prevail in your daughter’s choice of husband.
    Fathers, mothers and family members would learn from your gross negligence and be wise. There are many animals in human skin parading the earthly landscape; you find them in men and women and till the end of this dispensation so shall it be. Remember Titilayo and Arowolo and there are many others after Arowolo mercilessly butchered his wife. Parents are not supposed to do orations at their childrens’ funeral. We are in perilous times, children claim to know what they are going into marriage to beasts and when they are beaten black and blue would ask the parents they never honoured to clear the mess.
    I am not holding brief for the animal married to Dolapo but I am sure that nemesis would soon catch up with him, he would meet his equal. Every wickedness shall be judged. I say to the wicked that it shall never be well with you.

  6. hmmmm…. this is too touching but one thing i know is that GOD can’t be decieved, He will surely do what dat man deserves to get 4 his evil deeds.pls. 4 my young girls shine ure eyes well, well b4 u marry.don’t be in a hurry, leave age aside, for the appointed time God will give you the right man. wao…….

    • #BREAKiNGNEWS AFRiCANS WAKE UP ..COMMANDMENTS OF GOD(Allah) HAVE TO BE ENFORCED BY ANY COST …NO CHILDREN BEFOR MARRIAGE….RiP MY BLACK AFRiCAN SISTER ..PRAYiNG TO GOD(ALLAH) THAT EVERYONE LEARN A VALUABLE LESSON FROM HER SiTUATION …ALLOW ME TO LEAVE EVERYTHiNG THAT READS THiS MESSAGE THAT iAM LEAViNG ONE MORE STATEMENT “There is Trully No God But Allah And Muhammad is his last messenger ” #Salaam

  7. I cant hold back my tears when i read the message she wrote before her death..and now the sad and inhuman story continues…..the bible says “blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy”..may almighty GOD have mercy on her and grant her eternal rest….

  8. So why can’t the parents of the deceased take custody of their grand children, if not this wicked man will kill all of them one after the other please?

  9. so sad that this could happen to a devoted wife.May her soul rest in perfect peace. i blame the parents for all that went on, cos at a point in time they even forced the daughter to go back to the evil man.Also to the church, though the bible says i hate divorce, a bad marriage is a bad marriage and should never be encouraged.

  10. Lord Jesus may you forever be praised for this message… I would have been such a victim, but got saved!

    Ladies, even you guys out there.. SEEK GOD first before committing in marriage and even other life decisions/*

    As for the family of this beauty, pls b consoled in God:
    1Thess 4:13
    Phil 1:21
    Ps 116:15
    Rev 4:13
    ..as for Oti, his case is of the Lord not man!
    Pls dnt seek revenge.. Let God do his will with him++

    **God be with us all**

  11. 2 d family of d deceased, plz leave everything in God’s hand. I believe He will surely pass His judgement as we all deserves. RIP DOLAPO GOODGOD

  12. i honestly and whole heartedly agree with id comments, honestly dear sir with all respect to the dead u are to be blamed and you did allow so much to go on in the name of preserving de marriage.you could have easily reported him to de authority when you heard he beats his wife and worse stil throw him out of the house what is de big deal abt being married especially to a monster and all de signs where showing you all deliberately ingore it besides why on earth will your daughter not follow the advise of the doctors and inisist on following her husband when she knew all along he was no gud Yes God hates disvorce but you get out when it is your life at stake i do feel sorryy for de your daughter but shai she caused it all being obedient does not make you stupid. it is really heart disturbing when women think their whole identity and life depend on marriage and besides ladies take heed of advise you take from pastors, you can sit down and pray to god and seek direction BY YOURSELF,DO IT YOURSELF, you can hear God for yourself He is not far from you if your pastor encorages you all de time to come for to him for wisdom and direction he is no good honsetly shai tak kha and God Bless, pls teach her daughter to learn to stand up for themselves and know there is so much to life than marriage

  13. The worst thing that can happened to a man or woman is to marry to some one who does’t love you. From my own understanding this guy is a condemn human being, am sure God himself wanted to punish this man for the sins he has committed but Dalopo was blocking the way. She sacrifice her self for some one who does’t deserve mercy. Am sure every single lady will learn from this. Before you fall love over heals with some one try to find out if he or she deserves mercy or love from God. I pray God gives your family the fortitude to bear the loss. May God protect the children from the beast called man of God.

  14. so touching,GOD wil arrest the so called pastor,for the kids she left,they should be well taken care of .for the sake of their beloved mother,rest in peace sister,Single ladies pls be careful and do not be is a hurry cos broken relationship is better than broken marriage,alot are just desperate,pls watch out and do not make mistake .

  15. Sad and sorrowful experience. The man is a devil incarnate. He claimed to be a pastor and he cannot study the bible well to understand that he is under an hereditary curse from his background. How on earth will a man suddenly hated a woman you showed love to at the beginning of a relationship simply because God the determinant of what is good for every mankind gave you female children. It’s possible that his parents also got him from one ORISA in their search of a male child, and that is the kind of human being anyone can get from an earthly god. What good name does he have or property that he want to leave for a male child; a lazy man like him. A pastor without fear of God, destroyer of God’s holy name who cannot obey the law of God. The man must be fetish from the beginning and he already sees with his fetish eyes that Dolapo and her parents are easy people. In it all this guy will surely reap all that he has sown by the power of the living God. The book of Isaiah 3:11 says, Woe unto the wicked! it shall be ill with him: for the reward of his hands shall be given him.

  16. Sad and sorrowful experience. The man is a devil incarnate. He claimed to be a pastor and he cannot study the bible well to understand that he is under an hereditary curse from his background. How on earth will a man suddenly hated a woman you showed love to at the beginning of a relationship simply because God the determinant of what is good for every mankind gave you female children. It’s possible that his parents also got him from one ORISA in their search of a male child, and that is the kind of human being anyone can get from an earthly god. What good name does he have or property that he want to leave for a male child; a lazy man like him. A pastor without fear of God, destroyer of God’s holy name who cannot obey the law of God. The man must be fetish from the beginning and he already sees with his fetish eyes that Dolapo and her parents are easy people. In it all this guy will surely reap all that he has sown by the power of the living God. The book of Isaiah 3:11 says, Woe unto the wicked! it shall be ill with him: for the reward of his hands shall be given him.

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