Jumoke Orisaguna The Bread Seller Disrespects Me – Unemployed Husband Sunday Orisaguna Cries Out
Sunday Orisaguna, the husband of bread seller turned accidental model, Olajumoke Orisaguna has cried out for help following the downward turn of events in his marriage.
In a recent chat with EElive, he said his wife celebrity status is now causing her to misbehave towards him.
Here is what Mr Orisaguna told the interviewer.
“Sujimoto has been of tremendous help to us, though he couldn’t help me as he promised. I appreciate that it was him God used to put a roof over our heads.
Every time I attempt to get a job, I get scorned because they keep seeing the mother of my children as a superstar. I can work even at car-wash outlets, as long as the job is legitimate, I don’t mind. That’s how bad things are,” he said.
Although they live together and have two children, the lovers are not married; a situation that Sunday blames Olajumoke for.
“My parents had sent words to her mother for about three years now that it was time to formalise our union but Olajumoke has continued to turn down the proposal while insisting that the time isn’t right yet. So, marriage or no marriage is up to her.
I think she was better when she was with Azuka because Azuka and TY Bello have great connections that paid Olajumoke more. I just know her manager calls her, they go out and return late.
Sometimes she returns as late as past 12am and without explanations. She doesn’t even tell me where they go and what happens. To be honest with you, I’ve had to be tolerating her rudeness.
She talks to me recklessly and I get very upset. I know her attitude to me is this reckless because I’m not rich or have a robust means of income.”
However, on her own part, Olajumoke said:
“The world expects more from me. That’s why I want to own my house before the expiration of the 5-year rent which Sujimoto paid on my apartment at Surulere, Lagos.
It’s a tastefully furnished apartment and it was Azuka who spoke to her friend, Sujimoto, who later got us the place. She was also the one who spoke to the Payporte CEO who gave me one year contract. God will provide. I trust Him, He never fails me.”
Olajumoke you did not answer the question. The question is are you disrespecting your husband since your fortune changed? Do you go out and return past midnight without your husband knowing where you’ve been? If so please tread softly. God have used you to bless your family.
I knew it was only a matter of time. Those who helped her should have done something no matter how little for the husband. It takes a great level of grace for many women (not all anyway) to maintain a level head when they are the ones shining. Her case becomes worse because of illiteracy. I hope they can resolve their issues before the guys with money take advantage of her and dump her and by then it will be too late to return to her man. I hope she doesnt fall into that trap. The same people celebrating her will be the first to crucify her. Jumoke dont do this! When the going gets tough again, you wont see any of these people but this man and your children!
what else do yo expect even from day 1? thank God you have 2 kids together already. But just know that with her now anything can happen. sit her down and have a good talk with her to know where d two of you are heading to.
I’m not going to judge the couple because that is one the disadvantages that comes along when one is rising to become a celebrity. I’m just going to implore Mr. Orisaguna to be very patient. I know how it feels especially for an African man not to be able to have good communication with his wife.
Right now Jumoke had tasted poverty and she had seen little bit of comfort. Trust me if someone cajole her to leave you for juicy model contract she won’t even think twice before opting for money. Did you hear how she responded during her interview, she said right now, I need to maintain my status in order to keep our apartment in Surulere. Mr. Orisaguna, can you come up with another 5 year lease when your rent expires? that’s is the reason why I said you must swallow your pride for now and let her use her influence as a celebrity to stabilize your finances Or you can tell her to stop all those outings and continue paying the rent due at the end of expiration of your lease.
Mr Orisaguna I’m directing my words to you because you only have two options left;
1. Let your wife have her way since she is the only provider for now. Anything may happen in between the process of trying to secure her contact then you have to ignore, turn a blind eye or try to pay no mind. Her job determines how long she stays outside. She may travel with her boss and stay for like 3 days. You need to start learning how to put up with her rudeness, disrespectful and carefree attitude she’s showing towards you. OR
2. You may call it quit so that you can have your pride, your self esteem and your worth as a man. I don’t wish separation in your marriage but these are the facts and this is one of the reasons why most of celebrities marriages don’t work.
AND to you Ms. Orisaguna celebrity life doesn’t last for ever, you may be experiencing some temptations out there but you need to learn how to hold your house together. The fact you are making more money than your husband now does not mean you have to denounce or disrespect him. I believe you should be more respectful than before but I understand your status will not permit you to do that but don’t let your husband feel bad about himself. Both of you have been coming all along and have not only one but two beautiful kids. Remember model contract will end one day and you may need your husband by your side. Just go and sit down and thing about your life and where you want to be in future. When things fall apart center cannot hold. Just an advise.
@Jilo, you gave her a sound advise but the problem is that she does not tell her husband where she is going and comes back after midnight and don’t care to explain to her husband. It is true she is making more money now than the husband but let her remember when she was hawking bread in the scorching Lagos sun. Many women are like that in Nigeria even those overseas who claim to have seen the light. If she explains to her husband the man will understand. My only prayer is for her not to be deceived. Let her not emulate some of the wayward actresses.
Uzoma, this situation happens everywhere not only in Nigeria alone. We are in the era where some women are making money than men. If you are a traditional husband who believes in decision making as the head of household It is not going to work.
Check this out! This is Nigeria where unemployment has reached its peak. Do you think that lady wants to go back selling bread again? even if she doesn’t want to be rude to her husband, stardom will not allow her. As I have said before the decision lies on this man. Is he either suck it up and allow her wife to have her way OR be firm and be a real man even if that will results in taking him back to his previous status.
Uzoma I understand where you were coming from but at this age we are right now only few women are logical in reasoning. After stardom the lady has established her preferences, it is left for her husband to make his too. There is this Nigeria Actress, her husband gave her option to either become a Nollywood star or become his full house wife and she decided to jettison fame for marriage. We all have decision to make in life, let him choose the best option for himself.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO RELY ON WHAT SHE HAD GOT , YOU NEED TO GO OUT THERE AND CREATE YOUR OWN THINGS ,
IF YOU CAN NOT GET A JOB YOU WANT , WHY NOT USE YOUR HAND TO LEARN SOMETHING AND CREATE A SMALL INDUSTRY OF YOUR OWN , LAZY IDIOT .
SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO GET MARRIED TO YOU , NOBODY WOULD GIVE YOU THE POWERFUL CERTIFICATE TO TAKE AWAY ALL WHAT THAT SHE HAD ACHIEVED .
BEING IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CONTROL HER MOVEMENT ,
IF SHE GO OUT TO DO HER THING , WHY NOT YOU GO OUT AND DO YOUR OWN THINGS.
GO AND CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE STOP LOOKING FORWARD TO WHAT JUMOKE HAVE ACHIEVE ,
SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO GET MARRIED , TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT MARRIAGE IS NO MORE A YARDSTICK ANYMORE . IF YOU ARE NOT PLEASED THEN GET OUT OF HER LIFE . MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE.
madam erankooo i can see that u are bird of the same fielder is that a good advise from u,av u forgot wen dey where hursling together b4 wen der is nothing. if it was d husband that react like dat u will av been saying rubbish dat she suffer wit him
uzoma
February 21, 2019 at 4:32 PM
Olajumoke you did not answer the question. The question is are you disrespecting your husband since your fortune changed? Do you go out and return past midnight without your husband knowing where you’ve been? If so please tread softly. God have used you to bless your family.
Nika
February 22, 2019 at 4:04 AM
He is not her husband. Read the article well.
DB
February 21, 2019 at 4:44 PM
I knew it was only a matter of time. Those who helped her should have done something no matter how little for the husband. It takes a great level of grace for many women (not all anyway) to maintain a level head when they are the ones shining. Her case becomes worse because of illiteracy. I hope they can resolve their issues before the guys with money take advantage of her and dump her and by then it will be too late to return to her man. I hope she doesnt fall into that trap. The same people celebrating her will be the first to crucify her. Jumoke dont do this! When the going gets tough again, you wont see any of these people but this man and your children!
KVS
February 21, 2019 at 4:47 PM
what else do yo expect even from day 1? thank God you have 2 kids together already. But just know that with her now anything can happen. sit her down and have a good talk with her to know where d two of you are heading to.
Jilo
February 21, 2019 at 6:02 PM
I’m not going to judge the couple because that is one the disadvantages that comes along when one is rising to become a celebrity. I’m just going to implore Mr. Orisaguna to be very patient. I know how it feels especially for an African man not to be able to have good communication with his wife.
Right now Jumoke had tasted poverty and she had seen little bit of comfort. Trust me if someone cajole her to leave you for juicy model contract she won’t even think twice before opting for money. Did you hear how she responded during her interview, she said right now, I need to maintain my status in order to keep our apartment in Surulere. Mr. Orisaguna, can you come up with another 5 year lease when your rent expires? that’s is the reason why I said you must swallow your pride for now and let her use her influence as a celebrity to stabilize your finances Or you can tell her to stop all those outings and continue paying the rent due at the end of expiration of your lease.
Mr Orisaguna I’m directing my words to you because you only have two options left;
1. Let your wife have her way since she is the only provider for now. Anything may happen in between the process of trying to secure her contact then you have to ignore, turn a blind eye or try to pay no mind. Her job determines how long she stays outside. She may travel with her boss and stay for like 3 days. You need to start learning how to put up with her rudeness, disrespectful and carefree attitude she’s showing towards you. OR
2. You may call it quit so that you can have your pride, your self esteem and your worth as a man. I don’t wish separation in your marriage but these are the facts and this is one of the reasons why most of celebrities marriages don’t work.
AND to you Ms. Orisaguna celebrity life doesn’t last for ever, you may be experiencing some temptations out there but you need to learn how to hold your house together. The fact you are making more money than your husband now does not mean you have to denounce or disrespect him. I believe you should be more respectful than before but I understand your status will not permit you to do that but don’t let your husband feel bad about himself. Both of you have been coming all along and have not only one but two beautiful kids. Remember model contract will end one day and you may need your husband by your side. Just go and sit down and thing about your life and where you want to be in future. When things fall apart center cannot hold. Just an advise.
uzoma
February 21, 2019 at 8:35 PM
@Jilo, you gave her a sound advise but the problem is that she does not tell her husband where she is going and comes back after midnight and don’t care to explain to her husband. It is true she is making more money now than the husband but let her remember when she was hawking bread in the scorching Lagos sun. Many women are like that in Nigeria even those overseas who claim to have seen the light. If she explains to her husband the man will understand. My only prayer is for her not to be deceived. Let her not emulate some of the wayward actresses.
Jilo
February 22, 2019 at 12:26 PM
Uzoma, this situation happens everywhere not only in Nigeria alone. We are in the era where some women are making money than men. If you are a traditional husband who believes in decision making as the head of household It is not going to work.
Check this out! This is Nigeria where unemployment has reached its peak. Do you think that lady wants to go back selling bread again? even if she doesn’t want to be rude to her husband, stardom will not allow her. As I have said before the decision lies on this man. Is he either suck it up and allow her wife to have her way OR be firm and be a real man even if that will results in taking him back to his previous status.
Uzoma I understand where you were coming from but at this age we are right now only few women are logical in reasoning. After stardom the lady has established her preferences, it is left for her husband to make his too. There is this Nigeria Actress, her husband gave her option to either become a Nollywood star or become his full house wife and she decided to jettison fame for marriage. We all have decision to make in life, let him choose the best option for himself.
Ogechi
February 22, 2019 at 6:36 AM
WELL SAID @ JILO
big toto
February 21, 2019 at 6:14 PM
another man they komb am for you…na you sabin…just look for a new lady ….the toto don finish
iron bar
February 21, 2019 at 6:37 PM
omo..go and hustle..with all the red carpets and endorsements ,u think she will serve u amala when u want..its the culture here.depend on nobody
Fifelomo
February 21, 2019 at 10:55 PM
She’s long gone! She has tasted fame and she will do all to keep her in that lane.
Ogechi
February 22, 2019 at 6:35 AM
WELL SAID @ JILO
MADAM ERANKOOO
February 23, 2019 at 8:53 AM
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO RELY ON WHAT SHE HAD GOT , YOU NEED TO GO OUT THERE AND CREATE YOUR OWN THINGS ,
IF YOU CAN NOT GET A JOB YOU WANT , WHY NOT USE YOUR HAND TO LEARN SOMETHING AND CREATE A SMALL INDUSTRY OF YOUR OWN , LAZY IDIOT .
SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO GET MARRIED TO YOU , NOBODY WOULD GIVE YOU THE POWERFUL CERTIFICATE TO TAKE AWAY ALL WHAT THAT SHE HAD ACHIEVED .
BEING IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CONTROL HER MOVEMENT ,
IF SHE GO OUT TO DO HER THING , WHY NOT YOU GO OUT AND DO YOUR OWN THINGS.
GO AND CREATE YOUR OWN LIFE STOP LOOKING FORWARD TO WHAT JUMOKE HAVE ACHIEVE ,
SHE DOES NOT HAVE TO GET MARRIED , TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT MARRIAGE IS NO MORE A YARDSTICK ANYMORE . IF YOU ARE NOT PLEASED THEN GET OUT OF HER LIFE . MARRIAGE IS NOT BY FORCE.
sammykee
February 26, 2019 at 11:15 AM
madam erankooo i can see that u are bird of the same fielder is that a good advise from u,av u forgot wen dey where hursling together b4 wen der is nothing. if it was d husband that react like dat u will av been saying rubbish dat she suffer wit him