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How Married Man With Kids Lied To Use Me To Get Permanent Stay In UK – Heartbroken Lady
By Labos, GoldMyne
I met a guy, good looking, charming and has a good job. We started dating in a long distance relationship, I was in the UK at the period, came home briefly for a vacation and that was how we met.
I discussed him with my friends in Nigeria and got a shocker: He was married with two kids. I confronted him and he flared up, accusing me of believing ‘strangers’ instead of trusting him.
All I wanted to know was his marital status and he was playing the victim card. I got angry too and told him I needed to know the truth, he simmered and told me that although he was married, the marriage had ended.
According to him, his wife no longer lived with him and the divorce proceedings was already going on and his wife had relocated.
He said his marriage was a chapter of his life he wished he could forget! He wept as he told me these things over the phone and my heart went to him… I comforted him and told him it didn’t matter since we loved each other.
Well, my mind couldn’t rest after then and I snooped around until I got hold of his wife’s social media details, and I realized he lied.
They weren’t separated, in fact, they just celebrated their fifth year wedding anniversary with beautiful photos of them on her page! They were living together with their two kids, every Sunday, they went to the same church and from the photos, they appear to be a happy family.
I could not hold what I had seen, again, I confronted him, and he got angry again, I was scrutinizing him, I was investigating him, I didn’t trust him or love him, he turned the table and made me feel bad!
Yet I saw the things I saw, still he kept lying blatantly about it…
To be honest, I apologized again until I was alone and realized I was mad! Why would I apologize to a liar! A pathetic liar, a cheat and a man whore!
I called him and called his bluff, sent him all the photos I saved from his wife’s page with the dates… Trust me, his words were “I don’t believe you don’t trust me!” Ha! Is this one mad?
Please who has ever being in this position? How do men find the courage to lie this way and still look you in the eye! It beats ME!
fifelomo
March 20, 2018 at 3:30 PM
Laughing, thank God you realise this on time…..my dear let him go to blaze’s joooo. God radiance to bad rubbish!!!
iron bar
March 20, 2018 at 4:14 PM
A typical flaw when infatuation takes place,you were carried away with his good looks good job etc ,and did the first things at the 11th hour.you would have asked him that u want to get in touch with his family especially when the friendship or courtship is on the high gear with wedding promises getting louder.not all that glitters is gold.u now get it.
Big Aunty Koks
March 20, 2018 at 6:18 PM
That line he quoted for you is as old as the hills. It ia a variation of the ” my wife does not understand me” story cheating husbands love to use.
Now you know sha o!
Lola O
March 21, 2018 at 6:25 PM
Every cheating husband tells the same story, “we are having problems “, “my wife and I are separated “, “the only reason I live with her is because of my children “, “we are getting divorced soon ” etc. When will women become wise? I remember Jennifer Flowers who went public to say that she was Bill Clinton’s mistress for 12 years, oloriburuku obirin – misfortune headed woman. How can any woman in her right senses stay in a relationship for three years or more if the man is making no effort to end his marriage to be with her, how much more 12 years??? Women prefer to be lied to, and smart men have realized the only way to enjoy the best of both worlds is to keep lying. If a man is cheating on his wife to be with you, he will do the same to you some day, what goes around comes round. By the time the woman begins to realize she’s being fooled, alarm has blown and she’s become old model that’s no more attractive to men. Good looks guaranty nothing, such men are fawo r’aja, professional Casanova. Wake up, women!