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My Boyfriend Slaps Me At Will Yet I Love Him! He Is So Manly – Confused Lady Confesses
I am not a fool even though many people have called me that. Just read my story with an open mind and tell me what you think.
I am in a very serious relationship with two guys, yes two guys. I have always been very particular about not putting all my eggs in one basket.
My relationships are finally at the stage of decision making and I have to let one of them go.
This is my problem: I love both guys and if I could, I would marry both. But the truth is one is just too calm and gentle for me. He never waits for an apology, he apologizes for everything even when I am at fault. His greatest display of anger is walking out.
He is too loving but I really find it boring.
The other guy will never apologize even when he is wrong, he makes me beg and more than three times, he has dished out hot slaps on my face. OK, to be honest,he slaps me at will… Yet I love him! He is so ‘manly’.
My friends think he will kill me once we get married but I think the calm one might turn violent, although he seems not to have a violent bone in his body. About the sex, they are both great! I’m so confused… I don’t want a man that will make me a punching bag.
Who do I let go?
[Matters Of The Heart With Labos, Gold Myne]
JJC
April 3, 2018 at 9:48 PM
Ladies like you can never learn why are u asking for advice when u have already made up ur mind
Fool like u
Metu Nyetu
April 4, 2018 at 5:33 AM
SHE DIDN’T ask to be insulted. JJC, take note. But this is the kind of woman that makes men say that women do not know what they want. A particular lady had equally told me she loved men who beat her, but let the men apologize and pet her at last. I begin to wonder why women seem to like violence. Or maybe I should say that this is a fetish thing. Some people are dominant by nature, and like to play dominant roles in their relationships, whereas others are submissive by nature, and are submissive in relationships. I bet this lady is the kind that would like her man to punish her during sex, maybe, tire her hands at the bed posts and whip her very well before making love to her. She is a sub, and needs a dom.
DB
April 4, 2018 at 8:17 AM
Ask google
uzoma
April 4, 2018 at 1:39 PM
Some women like men that are violent. They are attracted to braggarts and the macho types. They are the type that will lie to their parents, siblings, and friends that they fell from the stairs whereas it is their partner (husband/boyfriend) that gave them the black eyes. They are the type that will send a man to prison because when you inadvertently kill them, the law will not say she wanted it that way but will send you to prison if not executed. I once met a girl in school who said she likes her man to beat her and that is the only way she could learn. What surprised me most was that she is an American.
Jilo
April 4, 2018 at 2:18 PM
There was a time that I made a comment in this forum about a lady whom I met in Europe more than 2 decades ago. She said she loved her boyfriend beating a hell out of her and make love to her afterward. I knew some people may be thinking I made this up but I did not. She said it in front of 5 guys including me that her fantasy is for her man to beat her up before she can enjoy sex. Here is another example.
Now tell me, should we be blaming some guys who inflict injury on their loved one? may be that is their fantasy who knows. We may all think that is a bad idea but we all forgot that one man’s meat is another man’s poison. Some ladies out there do not want a gentle man they prefer rough guys who can knock their head against the wall. Let’s try to observe the situation of two lovers before we intervene in their fight.