Relationships & Romance
My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Viewed Naked Pictures Of Girls Online, I Want Her Back..
June 26, 2016 – My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Viewed Naked Pictures Of Girls Online, I Want Her Back Please Help
Looking at naked pictures of girls online crashed my relationship.
I am a 22 years old boy and I love someone dearly. She is a very decent and Godly lady and I’m glad she loves me too very much.
I bought a new laptop for my school work and got connected to the internet and one night I viewed some naked pictures of girls. I did not know how to delete the browser history and next day my girlfriend came to my room and asked to use my laptop to do an assignment.
She is very Hi-tech and knows her way round the computer. Before I knew it, she viewed the browser history and I was caught. The shock on her face as she faced me with the laptop said it all.
She stormed out of my room and has refused to pick my calls since then. I’ve said sorry to her for more than 100 times as I really love her. I knew that I have made a very big mistake. I did accept my mistake in front of her many times but now she is ignoring me, not talking to me and she also turned off her phone.
I’m going mad without her as I can’t live without her. We’ve been in a relationship for more than two years. Now she has become a most essential part in my life.
Help me friends and tell me how I can console her or say sorry to her or else my life will be ruined.
Kola writes from Ibadan Oyo State
bobola
June 26, 2016 at 5:26 AM
Find some people to talk to her on your behalf. An elder in her family will do
Truce
June 26, 2016 at 6:30 AM
Ah ah, she decided to flee from d devil, imagine u are not married and things like that are happening, how maany of d skeletons in ur cupboard will she av to uncover after marriage. Change ur ways and pray she accepts u back.
fifelomo
June 26, 2016 at 7:04 AM
Face your studies. You still av a long way to go. More so, you don’t value what you have until you lose it. Naughty boy.
Beauty Obireh
June 26, 2016 at 7:05 AM
Carry your cross and face your studies
sola olaniyi
June 26, 2016 at 7:16 AM
@22,a girl should not be your priority young man
buzu-k
June 26, 2016 at 9:44 AM
young man please leave dat girl alone and face ur studies,or u go and look a whore to date,bcus u dont deserve such a lady, like what u said dat she is a very highly decent and Godly lady,so allow her to achieve her God given destiny,bcus if she continues with u now u will like to b practicing what u saw in ur laptop with her ok,so allow her to locate highly decent and God fearing guy me Buzu-k.
hyper
June 26, 2016 at 11:18 AM
If she truly luvs u, she cnt walk of d r/ship cos of dat instead she will find a way 2 talk u out of it if its ur habit, u dint cheat on her per say! Man if u av apologized like u shld jux hold ur ground, wats urs is urs wats nt urs dnt use a hook to get it! B strong nd patient buh dnt give up nd change for beta!
Eze lucy
June 26, 2016 at 1:20 PM
My dear, I understand how you feel, make sure truly you have repented from what you have done, still acknowledge her at all times, do ur best n leave d rest to God, no human is perfect.
oke Joe
June 26, 2016 at 2:35 PM
The most important thing is acknowledging your mistake,repenting from it,and if I understand you well I doubt your likelihood of going back on it. Of course pornography is inappropriate and must not be encouraged by any decent person. But your girl friend must understand that though love forgives all things. Her continually avoiding you irrespective of your effort at seeking forgiveness put a comer to her professed love.
Maryf
June 26, 2016 at 3:06 PM
Find who she’s loyal to and beg the person to help you calm her down. It will be ok soon, she’s just angry and will forgive you surely. Make sure you go for introduction immediately.
Maryf
June 26, 2016 at 3:14 PM
Find who she’s loyal to and beg the person to help you calm her down. It will be ok soon, she’s just angry and will forgive you surely. Make sure you go for introduction immediately.
Alice
June 26, 2016 at 4:11 PM
Keep apologising she will definitely accept u back provided u don’t go back to that habit again,else she may hate you for life
Emmanuel
June 26, 2016 at 7:43 PM
Face your studies my guy there are a lot of girls out there
muyi
June 26, 2016 at 10:29 PM
Face your future young man. This is not time for serious women affair. Are you intending for marriage now? if otherwise use your time well, not watching naked women’s picture because out of the abundance of the heart, the mind speaketh. If you continue to watch naked ladies picture, you are settling for doom. Your mind will be too focused on sex.
Endure
June 27, 2016 at 12:18 PM
Addiction to pornography is what I fear should not happen to you. It can be dangerous not just for a relationship with the person of the opposite sex but to your personal relationship with God. Consider it a mistake and try hard never to return to it. On the other hand,what you considered as unbroken heartfelt love for your girlfriend is just a mere infatuation. Why because you are still young. You will get over it with time. But make sure you fight the urge of viewing porn ok.
Lady
June 27, 2016 at 2:23 PM
I understand how u feel..what u did was also wrong tho it is not cheating per say but from viewing those nude pictures u might start cheating on her..
If she truly luvs u,she would not walk away just like that…She would @least have an hrt2hrt talk with stipulating her likes and dislikes about the issue ,hence, she might be pulling ur legs tho so u could feel much pain and neva return to the previous mistake.
Just let her be for now because i wouldnot advice u to persuade her friends,3rd party can ruin the whole mess aqain