My Husband Impregnated My School Daughter, Gave Me N25Million & Travelled Abroad…. Please Help

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my husband impregnated my school daughter

January 22, 2017 – Shock As Barren Woman Gets N25Million Cheque From Husband Who Impregnated School Daughter

My Husband Impregnated My School Daughter, Gave Me N25Million & Travelled Abroad…. Please Help

My name is Ladun. About eight years ago, I got married to Wande who is 10 years older. Life has been beautiful with Wande. Even till now, I don’t know if a man like him exists. He treats me like his greatest treasure. Even when we had cause to argue, he would never raise his voice or assert his role as my husband; instead he would drive the point home in a most subtle manner.

We stuck together like two peas in a pod, preferred to be in each others’ company and could never have enough of each other. Time passed, but I never got pregnant. I began getting really worried in the third year of our marriage.

However, Wande was unperturbed and had this soothing way of calming my fears. Our parents/siblings didn’t complain either; they only wished us well assured that eventually the babies would arrive. After the fifth year and still no signs of pregnancy, I became very uncomfortable and unhappy. But as usual, my darling husband was there for me, ever loving, ever considerate. He even showed more love and I just decided to be thankful for a wonderful husband and wait on the Lord.

Two years ago, while on holidays abroad with my husband, I stumbled on my school daughter. It was a most beautiful reunion. A few months later, she stayed with us when she came to Nigeria and told us of her plans to relocate back to Nigeria. And we decided that upon her return, she could stay in our house till she was comfortable enough to get an apartment. We had two vacant rooms downstairs and I felt her company would be great. More so, Bimbo was such a sweet girl and a born-again Christian and so there was nothing to worry about. She relocated and moved in with us about a year ago, in February, 2016.

Aunty Dupe, Wande’s elder sister and the first child of their parents who stays with us anytime she’s in Nigeria, arrived about that time. She lives in Atlanta, Georgia, U.S., but comes to Nigeria about four times in a year. I had been very close to her since I was a child and admired her fiercely because she had this way of having her way and being in control of every situation even when it had nothing to do with her personal life. She played a huge role in getting Wande and I married and I remember my sister telling me she wanted her brother to marry a wife she could easily control and one who wouldn’t frown at her husband’s lavish spending on her.

And indeed, she got everything she requested from my brother as I was sure to encourage my husband. I also helped over-look her business on Saturdays. She didn’t like the fact that I had a beautiful young lady living with us and she complained to my husband who allayed her fears. By the second week, she became very friendly to Bimbo and they were all over each other. Aunty Dupe spent a longer time than usual this time as she was expanding her business and even got Bimbo involved. It was a very exciting time for us all. When she returned to the U.S.in May last year, Bimbo left about the same time and told us she had decided to take some short courses and would return at Christmas.

Early this month, I stumbled on my husband and Aunty Dupe having a heated argument on the phone. In my eight years of marriage, I never saw my husband wear such a look of horror as he trembled with rage. I didn’t understand what the argument was all about and as soon as he saw me, he switched off his phones and told me he was taking a walk. Later in bed, he made love to me passionately, told me I was the best thing that happened to him and the most important person in his life. It was most unforgettable.

When he returned from work the next day, he shocked me by giving me a cheque of N25,000,000 (twenty-five million naira). I can’t even remember ever having a third of that in my account. I was too overwhelmed with joy. He then announced to me that he had to travel out of the country that night on an urgent business trip. Strangely, he told me not to hesitate to call the police if anyone made me feel uncomfortable in the house. I laughed it off as a joke and saw him off to the airport very happy.

The following night, Aunty Dupe arrived unannounced. And behind her was Bimbo carrying a baby. Before I could utter a word, Aunty Dupe told me haughtily that we now have a Wande Junior and I should prepare a nursery in the house. I didn’t need to be told Bimbo who wore a frown and avoided making eye-contact with me is the mother.

The trio has been in this house since the past 10 days. Aunty Dupe has made life hellish for me. She’s called me a barren and warned me severally that nothing must happen to Bimbo or the baby. It’s like a movie on Africa Magic Yoruba.

My husband is not calling but sends text messages first thing in the morning and late at night. The whole family is confused and I must confess, this is too much for me, too shocking. I can’t sleep at night.

I keep trying to figure out how it happened and why I should be treated this way by those I love so much. I’m going crazy. Do I leave the house for them? Please advise me.

22 thoughts on “My Husband Impregnated My School Daughter, Gave Me N25Million & Travelled Abroad…. Please Help

  1. my dear, ur husband has given u the go ahead, you are a legitimate owner of the house, please send Aunty Dupe out of your house.But show mercy to the unborn child which is your husbands child, except he denies.love your husband as he loves u.

  2. You don’t need to worry much just inform the police and tell them a woman is interfering with your marriage. Go back and throw the so called Dupe out of your house.

  3. Hey! madam ur husband still love u. so its time for u to show ur husband n his family how much u love them by loving d baby n d babymama cause is a sign dat God will soon bless u wit ur own child.

  4. First my dear girl I will say you are stupid by brining in a single third party into your home. And you think life is easy or good the way you see it “No” think before you trust ok. Listen you have done your worst mistake by taken a stupid action in brining in your so called school daughter into your home thinking she is born again forever as she claim to be rite. Please be wise next time in life don’t trust anyone not even your blood sister or cousin near your husband again bcos men are all dogs. Just ask GOD for mercy and marriage restoration and let Bimbo go then keep the baby and look after the baby as yours bcos is your husband child or less he denies it then you can let the baby go but for now, don’t live your home for any idiot ok. Fight until you win bcos is your home and you don’t live it for any fool or so called family member be wise. Go to GOD in prayer with fasting and read Bible verses psalm 30:5,91, 35, 109, 121, 128 and 138.

  5. My sis I was once in a similar situation like yours .pls evict dupeh from your home ASAP . Also look after the innocent baby with. your whole heart , that’s if he is the son of your husband . The gold digger called Bimbo will eventually quit and pls don’t quit your home for her my dear . You will be the conqueror in this case my sis .

  6. AND SO WHAT? MAY I KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AGAIN?

    HE HAS DONE IT HIS WAY, SO WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM AGAIN?

    YOU TOO SHOULD DO IT YOUR WAY.

    MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND YOU MIGHT COME ACROSS SOMEONE ELSE AGAIN WHO WILL PAY YOU OFF DOUBLE DEALING. YOUR LIFE IS DEAL OR NO DEAL AH AH

  7. My sis I was once in a similar situation like yours .pls evict dupeh from your home ASAP . Also look after the innocent baby with. your whole heart , that’s if he is the son of your husband . The gold digger called Bimbo will eventually quit and pls don’t quit your home for her my dear . You will be the conqueror in this case my sis .

  8. your story is very pathetic, to start with you are an Idiot, again you are a fool, thirdly you don’t have brain.

    am sure you are Christian.in your story you never wrote you prayed or visit any powerful men of God neither your hubby nor your Mother, that made you a fool!

    you are barren and yet you brought a stranger to your matrimonial home to stay with your family, a lady you never seen for years, yes you trusted your hubby and still trusted a girl you never you don’t know despite you claimed she was your daughter back then in school, you are a sheep, goat get sense pass sheep

    your saw the familiarity between your sister in law and your friend yet you did nothing about it, fool is better than you.

    after reading my comments you will agree with me that your brain has been replace with that of Sheep. I wish I could see you face to face to tell you how foolish you are. now woman in her right sense brings a strange woman to her matrimonial home even you have 12 Children for your hubby. sometimes beautiful women are brainless if at all that is your pics up there. am sure tomorrow now you will start running up and down for solutions to your barrenness.

  9. My dear commit your ways unto The Lord, and at God’s appointed time, you will have your own babies. It’s a pity that nowadays, many hide under the guise of religion to commit all kinds of atroucities like Dupe did. Forgive your hudband for he was lured into temptation. Ask God for the grace to bear what you are going through now. It’s only a phase. Above all draw near to God, meditate on His word day and night and be very prayerful. The Lord is your strength.

  10. Ladun pls there is no issue here ok you will o lay hurt your self if you think you can reverse the situation you can’t play back the of time. Since there is enough for all kindly accept the situation in good faith and pray God to bless your womb for your own child ok. Just let the sleeping dog lie and embrace God more for abundant Grace to overcome in Jesus name it is similar to Sarah and Abraham in the Bible about Ishmael and Isaac . So just keep ur peace forgive your husband and accept him back peacefully accept the chil and the mother as the remain under you while wande still remain your big aunty. May the good Lord bless his word into your heart in Jesus name

  11. You should have absolutely no problems with Bimbo. You should have figured out long ago that your lack of bearing a child might resulted to this. You dont need Phd to figure this out.

    Be kind and friendly with babymama. This might be blessing in disguise for you. The real problem might be your sister in law, Dupe. There is nothing wrong if your husband marry second wife. Get over that and give yourself rest of freaking mind.

    Your only worries is Dupe. Your husband mightjust need to out his foot down and tell her to mind her business.

    • Amanda, to be honest with you, would you allow your husband to marry second wife even though your religion allows plurality of wives? just be honest. I don’t physically know you but Im very sure and my instinct told me that you! Amanda will never accept the advise you are giving this lady.

  12. I actually interpret the he N25m he gaveu as an indirect way of settling u,please don’t give in. It’s ur home. Hold strong to it and prove to him u don’t need money. Show love to baby Junior like never before. Use the money on that child and God will wipe ur tears one day and put the devil to shame.

  13. Enough of all these name calling like idiot, fool, whatever. This lady has made the mistake and here she is, asking for a good, genuine advice or soothing words from us. The least you and I could do will be to advice if anyone has any or remain silent. It pisses me off when some people will even give advices that they may not be willing to take if they are in her shoes. Having said that, my sister, if your husband truly loves you as you said, tell him you want a DNA test on the baby, if the result proves he’s the father, accept it in good faith, but insist he does not bring in the mother to live in your home. Treat the baby like he’s yours and I know that God in heaven will wipe your tears away by giving you children, not just a child. As for the money your husband gave you, keep it . Don’t give it back to him and please, do not leave your husband or your marriage for that woman or any other woman at all unless your husband does not want you again.

  14. Really pathetic, you shouldn’t let another young female come live in your house even if it’s your sister or female cousin. It’s always good to prevent situations like this other than when it becomes too late.
    And I wonder y some stupid females will have the gods to sleep with their friends husband, I mean which responsible and God fearing person does that?
    You just have to live with it, and cope with the situation.
    I really hope the child is even truly ur husband’s Cos I don’t. Even trust these so_called born again girls that cover that rotten life with the bible
    But hubby would have found someone else other than your school daughter, it’s simply wickedness to have done such a thing to you and having the guts to pay you off indirectly.

  15. Bok u comment is really bad. Very bad. We all pass through one difficult moment in our lives that we feel as if its the end.am sure u aren’t an exception and perhaps urs is even worst yet u call somebody worst names. Its better u learn how to give comforting words and advice.it may save someone’s life #changebeginswithme#

  16. @Boks you are the fool who couldn’t give advice to a sis,you talk anyhow i think they need to talk some senses into your dirty head,

  17. that man truly loves you..don’t move out of YOUR house oo if you do it means you have been paid off God would see you though..must feel so ashamed

  18. Well let me also tell you my side, call your husband or send a text message across and let him know what is going on in his absence, secondly let the pregnant woman stay in the boys quarters if you have one, take care of them and pray as much as you can, ask God to have mercy on you and also bless you with the fruit of the womb. Be careful with the people around you and do not talk or complain to much. Be very very prayerful and God will see you through.

    God bless you

    • Thanks for the advice giving to her, she should just be patient and prayerful and no matter what the outcome is with the husband she should be strong. let God take charge of the situation and she must let go of anger and forgive.

      God will definite surprise her.

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