Nigerian Musician Gbemi Adetuberu Kicked Out By Wife 2 Weeks After Wedding

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Jan 27, 2013 – Nigerian Musician Gbemi Adetuberu Kicked Out By Wife 2 Weeks After Wedding

An upcoming musician, Gbemi Adetuberu, married to Ibadan society lady and interior decorator, Laide, has been booted out of the latter’s apartment allegedly for physical assaults barely three weeks after their society wedding on November 8, 2012, at one of the Akure branches of RCCG.

Mrs Olaide Adetuberu reportedly sent her husband, Mr. Gbemi Adetuberu, out of her apartment for allegedly making the heat in the kitchen unbearable for her with his endless beatings. It was alleged that Gbemi was seen 20 days after the N4m wedding, beating the living daylight out of her wife in Lagos during an event that had foreign guests in attendance.

The interior decorator was said to have kept mum over the battery allegation but eventually did opened the Pandora box after getting the nod of her lawyer. The lady confirmed that she had been through hell in the hands of her husband. She described her husband, Gbemi, as a violent husband whom she had hoped would change in marriage. Hear her: “He used to beat me even before we got married, but I believed he would change once we got married. I was wrong.”

Claiming that she had invested millions of naira in her husband’s fledging musical career since they started dating a year and a few months ago, Laide said Gbemi was not appreciative enough “to show some seriousness in his career” to justify her investment in his life. “He had always been interested in music, a passion that I passionately invested money in just to please him even though my parents wanted him to be a prophet. Because I wanted to support him, I paid almost N200,000 for him to participate at the NIMEX exhibition held at the Muson Centre, apart from other amounts spent on him”, she added.

At the exhibition on November 28, both had agreed that Laide would stay in the car outside the venue of the exhibition to get some rest as she had been exhausted by preparations for the event, and that Gbemi should join her in the car once he was done auditioning at the event. Gbemi was said to have been through in less than 30 minutes after he was called on stage, but didn’t go to join her wife in the car as both had agreed. Worried, she looked for Gbemi and found him chatting with an usher.

Not wanting to cause a scene however, she walked up to her husband,
asked the usher to excuse her as she wanted to talk to her husband, and
both strolled into the venue of the exhibition. They talked briefly but
Laide said she could sense from her husband’s countenance that he was
getting worked up. Laide ignored Gbemi, who had shouted at her that they should leave the event and go home. “He didn’t care whether we were at a public place, he continued to raise his voice at me”, she said.

Laide said she was ashamed as Gbemi continued to shout at her that
she should leave Muson Centre and both should start going home. She
refused to do as she was instructed by her husband and his next action
was to slap her. “I was stunned. He just kept beating me right there in public and astonished guests couldn’t do anything.

It took the intervention of security officials before I could be rescued  from him. He beat me blue black. I never expected he would beat me like that in public. I had expected that he would wait till we got home, he didn’t. He has come to beg me, but I am afraid of losing my life because that is how he has been beating me from time. Even my friends warned me not to marry him because each time he came to beg me after beating me, I always forgave him. But I’m now afraid for my life”.

She said that her in-laws were aware of the ugly development, but that each time she reported Gbemi, his parents always waded in and Gbemi would always promise not to beat her  again. She also said she reported these beatings to some of her friends. “After the Lagos beating, I decided to send him out of my apartment because the suffering was getting too much for me. I reported to the police at Iyaganku in Ibadan, because he has started threatening me via e-mails since he can’t come to my house. I have refused to take him back but I’m still afraid he may break into my house one day to injure me.”

This is obviously the shortest celebrity marriage ever…..However, we need to hear the husband’s side of the story.

[Tribune]

22 thoughts on “Nigerian Musician Gbemi Adetuberu Kicked Out By Wife 2 Weeks After Wedding

  1. dat which u cannot change during courtship, cannot change when get married. well Dear all you hace to do now is to pray for God intervention not to seperate from your spouse just be serious with God, he can still change him

  2. Marige z somtin dat dos nt need consideratñ b4 goin insid it. If u dnt lyk his/her character pls dnt mary cus he/she can nt chnge cus it’s prt of him. I wis u wil giv him d last chance pls.

  3. My sister ,u are big fool, for marry a Man or woman that always beating u,black Blue,thinking after marriage he or she will change.u see it clear now a beater or cheater is always,like that,dont take him back,divorce the useless man,b4 he kill u and over take all ur propertity,look at Bisi,not marry,the man take over all propertity now is court case.

  4. When she said the guy was chatting with an usher in an event ,that means that the usher is his level ,that is where he belongs nd he enjoy being around that ,I didn’t say that ushers are not good enough but why would a fiancée sporsor him to a show nd he will finish. and instead going to meet her in the car and show some love ,he was busy chatting an usher ,they are all like that ,when u try to upgrade them they always bring theirselves down ,I will never advice my enemy to marry a wife beater ,he will beat u to the extent that he will make sure that no man is interested in u when he lives u .

  5. My dear sister,most cases of”accidental death” of spouses world over are due to wives/husbands who thought their spouse would turn a new leave and stop beating/molesting them. Some ended up de-faced by acids or other toxic substances,others are not so lucky.Once a wife/husband beater,always a wife/husband beater,except they undergo spiritual deliverance.Because is a spirit they can not control.They may beg you later,but that does not cut it,as the damage is already done! If he/she loves you truly,he/she can never raise his hands against you.Please,make a wise decision,review your relation,even if it means you have to pay him off,your life is worth more than billions f dollars! If he can not be ride of the spirit of anger spiritually,please let him go,you may move to your parents’in the meantime .

  6. Oh, this is quite disturbing and very unsettling. It’s obvious the handwriting had always been on the wall but we always ignore hoping things would change. I?m married and I feel for a man to beat up his wife at all is bad enough but to now do it in public is totally unacceptable. My dear, you deserve a lot better. Even though there seems to be a dearth of marriageable men out there, the fact remains they still exist. Just ask God for guidance. Get rid of the scumbag never mind what anyone says becos ur life and overall wellbeing is far more precious. All the best in future. Cheers.

  7. @platinum. you dont have to re-arrange your statement how you talked down on ushers. the first statement that came out from ur mouth came out from your heart.are ushers not human being? For the records, just because the woman sponspored her husband to the event dosent mean she should be policing him about, she should have waited for the man to discuss what ever he was discussing with the usher, betterstill, send him a text or call him on the phone. still @platinum.your type are called husband riders. I am not in support for what the stupid man did,it”s only a stupid and a foolish man that will raise his hands on a woman.

  8. infct u ar lucky he asn’t condemd ur face. Is d love by force or he charmd u? Many man ar out der who dserve beauty like u. Be wise n talk sence into urslf o. If dat animal calld husbnd dnt love u as wife, we love u as person.

  9. my dear Laide, i share your pain and i can imagine how terrible your past situations with the animal you called hubby. Thank God you took right decision by sending him out. he could have some day used a knife out of anger. However, please make sure you do proper legal divorce documentation and move on with your life. i will never raise an arm on ma wife neither do i pray to even shout at her in the public.

    God will see you through to a better man.

  10. My dear arrest him n sue him 2 court,he’s a disgrace 2 d men folks.he’s nt 4 u 4 even layin hands on u,mayb wen he gets 2 d prison n he gets [email protected] he’s bn doin 2 u,he wil change by den n u wld hv muvd on wit ur life.Take it or leave it,he’s nt ur husband fm heaven.It’s so painful [email protected] ppl marry 4 d wrong reasons dis days.

  11. i knw gbemi personally, and am stunned to hear gbemi is a wife beater, bt am nt surprised the marriage dint last. cos the last time i saw them together, gbemi looked more like the puppy in d marriage, d wife, d dog trainer. lol if its true… may God help u o… bt am still nt sure abt dis story of hers, cos i knw quite enuf abt the wife too.

  12. My dear brethren i am always happy to share my story when i read an article like this. Let us humans not animals learn to ask Gods will in our life especially in marriage. i have been so creative about the issue of marriage, and also understand what courtship is meant for. study ur bible u ‘ll knw much about courtship and marriage. courtship is ton help you know who you want to spent your life with but its a pity that some out beauty, handsomeness and wealth they refuse ti bent what has to be bent before marriage. you are very free to say no even at the alter before the ring is fixed in to your finger becos u are not yet join together. imagine you saying he used to beat you and your friends warned you about him. Any God might just save you from death but run for your dear life no two ways.

    SEE MY STORY I DATED A VERY WONDERFUL GUY FOR 6 YEARS WE EVEN HAD A BEAUTIFUL BABY GIRL TOGETHER. WHEN I MEAN HUSBAND MATERIAL HE IS ONE IN TOWN. WITH HIS DEVINE CHARACTER AND GOD FEARING SPIRIT I REFUSE TO FORCE MYSELF OR GO EXTRA MILES WHEN HIS MOTHER SAID HE SHOULD NOT MARRY ME JUST BECAUSE AM NOT AN IGBO GIRL. I FASTED AND PRAY FOR GOD INTERVENTION ALL TO THE WILL OF GOD IT DID NOT WORK. WHY BECAUSE GOD KNOWS IT BETTER THAT MY LIFE MIGHT BE CUT SHORT IF MUST GO THERE, NOW HIS MOTHER GAVE HIM A WIFE EVEN THOUGH HE COMPLAINS HE DOSENT LIKE THE GIRL THAT’S THEIR OWN BUSINESS. NOW AM IN TOO MUCH DEPRESSION AFTER SORROW COMETH EVERLASTING JOY. WHEN THE GOD SENT MAN COME I WILL NOT DIVORCE OR BE MOLESTED TO DEATH BY EITHER WICKED MOTHER INLAW,BROTHER OR SISTER INLAW EVEN HUSBAND WHO CAN NOT HAVE HIS STAND AS A MAN OF HIS OWN OPINION JUST BROTHER INLAW BURNT PREGNANT BROTHERS WIFE ALIVE. DARKNESS CAN NOT WALK WITH LIGHT PRAY HARD BEFORE YOU AGREE FOR BETTER OR WORST. SO LETS SEE WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IN THE MARRIAGE WHERE MOTHER GET A WOMAN WHOSE HIS SON NEVER KNEW FOR ONE MONTH IN COURTSHIP BEFORE MARRIAGE

  13. Laide,you will make a good story writer,but you forgot to mention ur flaws, are you a saint in this story line, I guess not, how could a man beat you up in public,it either you have too much secrets,that were exposed after the wedding,or you did some voodoo that backfire and what usually ends such relationship is serious beating,blood shedding,if luck is on ur side, as it was for u , u will be alive.SO MRS,can we have the full version of ur story. GBEMI,we are expecting the full version of the story soon, if MRS Laide refused to complete the story line.

  14. Though this story is quite disturbing, I’d still want to hear the other side of it. Something seems to be amiss in the entire story. Why does he constantly beat her up? What motivates him to do that? I detest this devilish attitude, but the woman can’t be an angel in this either. Won’t judge anyone just yet. Such a shame!

  15. Oneze’s questions are begging for answers. All the same, it is q well known fact that great marriages experienced ups and downs so this is not an exception. Gbemi persistence (if is true) is barbaric but can be pardoned for so many reasons like not have d experience of managing home/marriage (many men suffer this in early periods in marriage), and so many others. My own questions is would she have packed out of d house (with or without kids)if Gbemi owns the house or if he is comfortable financially. All am saying is that the situation could have been handled very carefully between d two families and not allowing it to become a subject for public discourse. There is no marriage in this world that has not faced challenges like this even those who call themselves ‘men of God’. Laide should have restrain and take the case to their court and certainly not public/press court. I still believe that the situation is redeemable and repairable if LAIDE in particular allow God to mediate in d whole issue. Am very sure GBEMI too will have plenty of thins to say about this urgly incident but that is not so important except for the sake of lasting reconciliation of the two lovers. Most people make mistake of saying bcos they do not date themselves long enough which is a wrong notion bcos i have seeen marriages collapsed even after several years of courtship. This is all about putting God first and been able to manage themselves effectively and also tolerating their shortcomings. I pray to ALLAH to forgive the two of them and bring them back as husband and wife,. The two families and the officiating miniters during the wedding should also be seen playing a major role in this reconciliation train. it is very very important that they do something about it. I rest my case now

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