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Israel Houghton & Wife Officially Divorced After 20 Years Of Marriage.. See His Adultery Confession
February 24, 2016 – Israel Houghton & Wife Meleasa Officially Divorced After 20 Years Of Marriage.. See His Adultery & Cheating Confession
I Cheated On My Wife, I Failed & Sinned In My Marriage – Gospel Singer Israel Houghton Confesses To Facebook Fans
It is official, popular gospel singer Israel Houghton has divorced his wife.
The talented gospel star took to his official Facebook Page on the 22nd of February 2016 to make this shocking confession to fans.
In his confession statement, Mr Houghton told fans he cheated on his wife in the course of their 20-year-old marriage and has tried to seek for forgiveness but it didn’t work out.
The famous worship leader at Joel Osteen’s church in Houston apologised to friends and family members for cheating on his wife, Meleasa Houghton, the mother of his three beautiful children.
See his adultery confession statement below…
Oh! How are the mighty fallen in the midst of battle!
So sad!
Comment Thin
February 24, 2016 at 8:21 PM
And so what…he cheated, can you show me a married man who haven’t cheated? He got caught abi….Smart wife, she’s now going to marry another man who won’t cheat abi…nonsense! Make she sit down there!
Holly Moses (The Sanguine Arbitrator)
March 30, 2016 at 1:48 AM
Do I perceive narcissistic machismo here? Speak for yourself. Just because you ***** up does not mean every married man is ***. It’s sad and vain to lean upon the 11th commandment:Don’t Be Caught.
I was married for 25 yrs and never looked at another woman. She was the one who cheated. No man should touch a wife that cheats on him:once a cheat always a cheat. It’s the dirtiest thing to do: reconcile with an unfaithful woman. Even if children are involved, don’t touch her with a sanitized 10 foot barge pole. Your home will forever be defiled. Same goes for the women. But they are most likely to forgive a cheating man. Alas, I guess that’s the way the cookies crumble.
Holly Moses (The Sanguine Arbitrator)
March 30, 2016 at 1:52 AM
Omotola Jalade and her man are married for blissful 20 years. Not everyone has your ***** of unfaithfulness. I hope your wife does not cheat on you – what goes around comes around. That’s Karma
Amazon
February 24, 2016 at 8:49 PM
For all has sinned & come short of the Glory of God, it only takes God’s grace to withstand sin
my lady
February 24, 2016 at 9:26 PM
men will always use their hands and destroy their peace because of what they have at home
Metu Nyetu
February 24, 2016 at 9:33 PM
Those that you apologised to are equally guilty. You should just focus on God and your wife: they are the only ones that can forgive you. Sensual temptations are the hardest to resist. I don’t just know why women are too strong and men so weak. May God help us all!
Joy
February 24, 2016 at 9:34 PM
Pls my people i have a question kindly say your opinion .. why is it difficult for some men to have sex with only their wife through out their mariage ?????
Ms ERANKO
February 24, 2016 at 10:15 PM
I WILL GIVE YOU THE ANSWER,
MEN AND WOMEN WILL ALWAYS HAVE PROBLEM IN THE BEDROOM BECAUSE AFTER TEN YEARS TOGETHER SEX WOULD BECOME BORING
MOST ESPECIALLY WHEN WOMEN GIVE BIRTH TO CHILDREN, SOME MEN FEELS THAT THE PUNANI WOULD NOT BE THE SAME.
MEN END UP HAVING NIGHTMARE, MOST ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY WITNESS THEIR WIFE GIVEN BIRTH.
THEY END UP WANTING TO TRY SOMETHING NEW, BECAUSE THEY FEEL THAT THE PUNANI WAS TOO HOLE BIG FOR THEM. AH AH AH
WITNESSING THEIR BABY COMING OUT OF THIS HOLE, WAS JUST TOO MUCH FOR SOME MEN, THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS .
I WOULD SAY DIVORCE WOULD NEVER DIE, COPLE WOULD ALWAY MARRY AND DIVORCE.
Bench
February 24, 2016 at 11:22 PM
Mens be like Buhari. They like change.
Anointed
February 25, 2016 at 6:41 AM
Would you like to be a product of divorced couple? Any Parents that endured their marriag, their children will always be proud of then especially at old age.
Jojo
February 24, 2016 at 10:21 PM
They cannot have sex with only their wife because they are he goats .Once the marriage clocks one year, you hear them start saying, person nor go fit eat only Okra soup everyday and that’s when the law of diminishing returns takes its course.my sister leave wetin them write for motor and enter motor jare
Bench
February 24, 2016 at 11:08 PM
Me sef go follow to answer Joy. Have you see persin weyris eat only yam bifor? Or only rice? Or only fufu? It can’t posibul. If you eat yam for moning, make you eat rice for aftunun and drink tea for night. So mens are no fit having sex with only their wife. Fok her today and fok Mama Seyi tumoro and fok Eyadaba next tumoro. Na change be the name and na Buhari cause am bicos na he carry change come. We was not sabi wetin change mean bifor. Na he tell us. So make we holam.
Bench
February 24, 2016 at 11:17 PM
I never finish o. Womens be like car. You know say if you dey inside your moto and you come see another fine moto, you go want to buy am. No be say your own moto is no dey fine o. But you still go buy another one.
Anointed
February 25, 2016 at 7:09 AM
This is difficult for those who lack self-control, self discipline, lack of moral etc. My dear Joy, if you have not marry,pls investigate the backgroud of partner and possible future behaviour before you enter trap.
frankfurt
February 24, 2016 at 10:20 PM
Someone should answer joy fast.
Jacob Flow
February 24, 2016 at 11:20 PM
Better stay put ,cos if you leave someone else will occupy ur spot ASAP.
JESSY
February 25, 2016 at 2:06 AM
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG SPENDING ALL YOUR LIFE SEXING ONE SAME WOMAN CALLED YOUR WIFE IT IS THE BEST LIFE TO LIVE,I MAN CAN GET TIRED ONLY IF A WOMAN HAVE ATTITUDE PROBLEM OR THE OR THE MAN JUST LOVE TO CHEAT.
D Hunter
February 25, 2016 at 7:01 AM
I tink 4 d 1st tym in a long yll nw, I tend 2 agree wt Ms ERANKO who has made sm points w/t her usaul shouting.
In my candid opinion, I tink most men bcms weaker vessels whn it cm 2 d issue of d oposite sex.
Dats y great men falls even men of God. Women has since d creation of d World bn a strong tool of temptations 2 men.
#IamWalkingAway#
sola olaniyi
February 25, 2016 at 7:20 AM
@ Eranko you re very funny
Maryf
February 25, 2016 at 8:07 AM
Wife forgive your husband because another man you will marry will still cheat and even worst. Men can never be satisfied with just one woman.
DD
February 25, 2016 at 8:28 AM
Ms Eranko, you are so funny in this your answer. Men feels that women p*ssy after giving birth is too wide. What a*** talk why wouldnt the woman think that after the husband got him pregnant the dick is smaller or not strong any more. What night mare and what something new are they trying ? P*ssy that will not get wide open when it gives birth.? Some of you men are jigolos. Discipline is the watch word.
John Emeka
February 25, 2016 at 9:42 AM
A gospel singer…wot z then d message u re passing through
GIDEON
February 25, 2016 at 11:06 AM
MAY GOD DELIVER ALL MEN FROM THE TEMPTATION OF THE OPPOSITE SEX IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN
Dede
February 25, 2016 at 11:58 AM
My sis Joy, your honest and humble question is so pertinent and fundamental to human existence in such a way that every man(the guilty and the innocent of the said failing) has no choice but to pause and ponder over it. You chose to be cautious in the coinage of your question when you used the words “some men”. However, the brutal truth is that most men{greater than 95%} are seriously plagued by this cancerous virus of unfaithfulness.
For me, the causes of marital unfaithfulness can be grouped into; a) Biological/Natural factors, (b) Social factors, (c) Cultural factors, (d) Psychological factors, (e) Spiritual factors and (f) Miscellaneous
BIOLOGICAL FACTORS
Biologically/naturally, man is almost always ready for for sex unlike his female counterpart. The act of sexual intercourse is easier for the man than for the woman. If you are experienced in that area, you will understand what I mean. Again, from Jan to Dec he doesn’t menstruate nor does he have a taste of the stress(headache, severe abdominal pains, weakness due to blood loss, mood changes, etc) associated with monthly menstruation(12 times or more in a year). Immature husband has the tendency to run away from his wife during this period instead of showing her love and care to ameliorate or mitigate the sad experience his wife is going through. Some men who have very high libido(sexual desire) find it extremely difficult to curb their sexual urge during moments like this. Some go as far as sleeping with their wives against her wish when they are in flow, while others say in their mind ” God, you see, this is where you made a mistake, I mean I can go to someone else and satisfy myself as I wait for my wife.”
When a woman is pregnant , she is faced with diverse physiological changes. Sometimes they are plunged into a very miserable state for months just because they about bring another life into existence and this period is definitely not pleasant for romance. Then the man with the trait to cheat faults God over this beautiful experience of procreation and off he goes looking for an illegitimate alternative to quench his animalistic sensual thirst.
Another biological reason is encapsulated in what MS ERANKO said.
We are not ruling out the negative effect of libido inequality btw husband and wife. There may not be any problem if the discrepancy is narrow but , where there is a chasm (huge gap) btw the husband’s libido and that of the wife(either way) , hmmm, serious palava dey.
SOCIAL FACTORS
This can be attributed to negative influence on the man both from friends and they kind of work he does( musicians, actors, some so called men of God or men of god, long distance drivers, captains, pilots, politicians, merchants, etc). I am not saying that all of these people are philanderers but they are more exposed to sensual challenges than other men.
Some men got themselves exposed to too many women sexually before the got married to their wives and now their wife is nowhere close in bedmatics to that sex machine they once had as a girlfriend, what do expect from this man?
….to be contd
JENNY
February 25, 2016 at 12:03 PM
YES BECAUSE EVEN HAVING SEX WITH JUST YOUR WIFE CAN MAKE YOU MORE SERCURED FROM CONTRACTING SO MANY DISEASES. PLEASE MEN LEARN TO BE FAITHFULLY MARRIED TO YOUR WIFE.
Dede
February 25, 2016 at 2:10 PM
CULTURAL FACTORS
In some cultures, it is not a big deal for a husband to sleep around. There is this country in Africa(can’t remember the country now) where it is the norm for men to share their legitimately married wives with other men. Even before the advent of Christ, it wasn’t a problem for a married man to mess around. Someone in the old testament days had 700 BEAUTIFUL wives of royal blood and also had 300 concubines on top of that. That is king Solomon for, the man named in the Bible as the wisest man that ever lived.
PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTORS
There is this air of freedom and authority around the male folk than their female counterpart and this makes us think or feel we can indulge in any activities even the most dangerous ones. Also, most men have this sense of ownership over the women(most women like men who are intimidating until it start biting them) and that makes us overly adventurous.
SPIRITUAL FACTORS
Satan is a master strategist and he knows who/where/how/when to strike and whooz, the peaceful family structure comes down crumbling. That is why he strikes the husband mostly(the head of the family). He use the most appealing, most powerful but most subtle weapon (extramarital sex) to gradually erode peaceful homes. This is where the wife ought to be spiritually alert(I mean prayerful). She should be able to see it(sensual temptation coming on her husband’s path), pray fervently against it and if need be caution her husband about it lest the enemy strikes with his most lethal weapon and the rest is history.
Some men are very good husband, easy-going and they are the pride of their good wives but, they are under spiritual influence (either from their family or from the former girlfriend[s]) and these men no matter how hard they try not to cheat , if they are not freed from that influence from within, they will certainly fall one day.
The conclusion of the matter is, no matter what a man is using as his excuse for cheating on his wife, God says ” Oh man, you are inexcusable before the judgement throne of your creator _ Romans 2:1. Just like Elijah in book 1Kings 19:18 who thought he was the only prophet remaining only for him to shocked by God who told him that there were 7000(seven thousand) undefiled prophets in Isreal, that’s the way we till have millions that are faithful to wives in our generation.
As for me, the worst sin a man can commit against his wife is the sin of adultery.
You betray your wife each time you sleep with another woman.
You expose your wife’s nakedness to the public each time….
You say to your wife ” you are not worth it each time…
MAY GOD BLESS NG.
JOY
February 25, 2016 at 2:18 PM
THANKS FOR ALL YOUR RESPONSE YOUR OPINION MATTERS A LOT !
Jacob Flow
February 25, 2016 at 2:48 PM
9ice one dede
Dede
February 25, 2016 at 4:46 PM
My bro Flow, max respect to dear.
JETO
February 25, 2016 at 7:01 PM
AS IF SAY NA ONLY MEN DEY CHEAT, IT TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD AND SELF CONTROL WHICH HAPPENS TO BE ONE OF THE FRUIT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT TO AVOID ADULTERY, THOSE OF U WHO ARE CALLING MEN THIS OR THAT, JUST PRAY FOR UR MARRIAGE AND URSELF NOT TO FALL IN THAT TEMPTATION, THERE ARE MANY DEVICES THAT THE ENEMY WILL USE TO TRAP ONE INTO THAT. BUT GOD FORBID.
Metu Nyetu
February 26, 2016 at 1:12 AM
Jeto, nobody says that women do not cheat. But if you would ever be honest to yourself, women respect marriage faaaaaaar more than men do. I’ve been saying this before now. If you have never noticed this before, start now to observe.
Dbest
February 25, 2016 at 9:51 PM
Nice answer master dede. U are good my guy,I heartly appreciate your comment.
Nolie
March 13, 2016 at 11:40 AM
Men will be men..God ordained marriage not adultery hes we all have sinned…but Christ died so we could have life not lust abundantly
LB
March 17, 2016 at 5:59 AM
When a state court gives you final divorce papers that say
THEY DISSLOVED YOUR MARRIAGE
Jesus said, if you touch another person (remarry) after you get those papers you are committing adultery.
Do you really think the state court dissolved your marriage?
“A husband must not divorce his wife.” 1 Corinthians 7:11
“The Lord God All-Powerful of Israel hates anyone who is cruel enough to divorce his wife.” Malachi 2:16
“The Lord was witness to the covenant made at your marriage.” Malachi 2:14
“Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” –Jesus Christ
Thou shall not commit adultery.” Exodus 20:14
“The man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys his own soul.” Proverbs 6:32
“Adulterers…will not inherit the Kingdom of God.” 1 Corinthians 6:9
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” Hebrews 13:4
“For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.” Romans 14:1
“A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives.” 1 Corinthians 7:39
The bond of marriage ends with death. Romans 7:2-3
Jesus calls remarriage after a divorce ADULTERY because…
“A woman is married to her husband as long as he lives.” 1 Corinthians 7:39
Divorce does not make you single again.
TRUE LOVE WARNS!
Ip9876
May 14, 2016 at 11:38 PM
Its all about your daily commitment with God and you daily prayer time and reading his word that makes you flee from cheating on your spouse.Yes we all fall short….but some have taken marriage to lightly….and find a easy way out….those people should have never married in the first place. Come on people…come on people of God…we can do better….its your heart that needs daily molding. No prayer no= no commiment!!!! Got to commit to prayer everyday.