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My Boyfriend Doesn’t Know I Have Kids – Should I Tell Him?

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My Boyfriend Doesn’t Know I Have Kids – Should I Tell Him?

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May 19, 2012 – My Boyfriend Doesn’t Know I Have Kids – Should I Tell Him?

I met my boyfriend on a 6-hour flight and we kicked things off. He never asked about my family or if I have children. So, I didn’t bother to tell him.

Being a single mom, I’m afraid if I opened up to him about my two kids, he will leave me.

We exchanged numbers, and have now started dating. Things feel so good between us — only I can’t seem to bring up my two kids. It’s like I’m afraid he won’t stick around, even though he’s given no indication that he’ll bail on me.

What do you think I should do?

20 Comments

20 Comments

  1. Vicciblaze

    May 19, 2012 at 2:01 PM

    my dear tell him if he truely lov u he wil lov ur kids as well …bt if he finds out himsef he wil neva trust u on anytin else cos he wil beliv der is stil mor u r nt tellin him

    • oyenubi aliu

      May 19, 2012 at 8:20 PM

      Tell him before everything becomes unbearable for you. Then you may ђăƲe invested on him which may turns you a looser.

  2. Stella kamara

    May 19, 2012 at 9:34 PM

    If u dnt tel him nw d truth wil com out 1day n it wil b 2 late. He shud luv 4 who u r, mak sur u convinc him dat u truly luv him n dats y u r telin him. D earlier d beta

  3. Shola efunyemi

    May 20, 2012 at 10:36 AM

    My dear, it’s better to always be honest from the on- set, tell him, we all have past , we’re all come with some sort of packages either small or large, he’s only human he will feel hurt that you didn’t trust him enough to reveal such natural and normal situation, you never know he will take to your children like they were his own. And love you even more that you are a mother.

  4. Haddy Egan

    May 20, 2012 at 11:38 AM

    Tell him you have a child befor someone wil tel him it will nice to here it from you
    If he love you he will you with your kids.

  5. Agnes Okon

    May 21, 2012 at 3:22 PM

    TELL HIM THE TRUTH, IF HE TRUELY LOVES YOU THEN HE MUST LOVE YOUR KIDS. LOOK AT WHAT YOU’VE PASSED THRO RAISING THEM. THEY’RE YOUR TREASURE SO LET HIM KNOW ABOUT THEM. IF HE’S THE REAL MAN. HE WILL GET ALL OF YOU TOGEHTER AND BECOME THIER FATHER. GOD TOUCH IS HEART AS YOU TELL HIM.

  6. Opeyemi Soji

    June 14, 2012 at 8:27 PM

    My dear if d guy real love u ad he real want 2 marry. Y not is beta, but if his nt ready 2 marry u , u should tell him.okay.

  7. Tolu

    June 17, 2012 at 7:43 AM

    Why wnt u tel hm

  8. blessing

    June 18, 2012 at 1:48 PM

    my dear is better you tell him now oo before is too late.

  9. Micheal

    July 16, 2012 at 10:33 PM

    Dear,my advice 2 u is dat u av 2 study him well b4 saying such a thing if is d kind of man u can go on with gud reason.if he lv u he will sign u and ur kid.

  10. austin cash

    July 17, 2012 at 10:10 AM

    U self. Ur own too much,too kids no father.he dey sweet u abi.jst tel him the truth any tin when happen next na u knowm I don’t really like ur kind.

  11. Reagan

    August 1, 2012 at 7:44 AM

    My dear d Bst advice 4 u is 2 let him knw b4 tym runs out of ur hand.

  12. EMMANUEL ANNAN

    August 17, 2012 at 6:12 AM

    Yes you have to tell him, So that he won’t find as a lie. Or is better you stop the relationship between him.

  13. oyindamola

    August 22, 2012 at 8:07 PM

    jst let him knw as soon as possible..

  14. lanre

    May 15, 2013 at 12:03 PM

    Yes, tell him! o matter how hard it may be. I lost ‘my love’ just because of a case like this. I had a son before I started dating Bukola Adedipe[my love]but because of the love I had for her and the fear of loosing her in case she didn’t like the idea made me conceal it from her until my brother’s friend who was interested in my girl downloaded everything to her to have a chance. Eventually, what I feared most came upon me- she left! I was burdened because I was not the one that told her. I should have been bold enough to tell her, if she truely loved me as she professed, she shd have stayed!!!

  15. Benny

    May 15, 2013 at 3:01 PM

    My dear for keepin d 2 children am proud of u, bcus most us young ladies of nowadays hav aborted more dan 7 children n later liv a regretabl lif. Dear u dnt av 2 b afraid of anytin jus open up 2 im may b he is d angle God snt 4 u. Jus giv it a try o.k

  16. sobo lola

    May 16, 2013 at 9:05 PM

    just summon courage and tell him if he loves u he ll marry u but if he leaves u he his not meant for u

  17. KAT

    February 16, 2016 at 3:08 PM

    I don’t know how I ended up on this page but my only comment is that people need to learn how to spell prior to telling someone else how to live their life. Some of these comments are impossible to read without putting extra thought into trying to detangle the nonsense and laziness of someone omitting letters.

  18. malune l

    March 16, 2016 at 4:05 PM

    Excuse yourself! If you didn’t have an answer then you shouldn’t say anything. If you had any sense in the world you would understand that these individuals are from the Caribbean and that is some are use to writing, speaking, etc…..

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