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My Desperate Ex Boyfriend Wants Me Back, He Forced Me To Cheat On My Fiance – Heartbroken Lady Confesses

i cheated on my fiance with my ex boyfriend

By Gold Myne

My name is Laura. It all started three years ago when I clocked 25. I got into a very serious relationship with a Man of 32 after having being single for eight months. We were very much in love and happy, but he wasn’t employed. He tried his hands on so many businesses but failed.

Then, my Father got a slot in a big company and I pleaded with him to give Ben (his name) the chance…after much pleading and persuasion, my father grudgingly agreed and Ben got a job with the Sahara groups, a oil and gas international firm. Ben’s gratitude knew no bounds, he was grateful and it showed in his attitude towards me.

He respected me more, cared for me more and loved me much more!
Ben was secured at last and I later got a good job too.

He asked me to be his wife four months ago and I said Yes.

Two days after my official engagement, I received a call from my ex boyfriend…I was shocked because I hadn’t spoken to him in a long time.
He begged to see me and after much persuasion, I agreed to see him. We fixed a date and agreed on a meeting point. On the set date, we met and I was glad that whatever chemistry existed between us before was dead.

“Laura, I need you back in my life” He said two minutes after I sat and I smiled, looked at him and told him to go to hell. Still he persisted.
However, I didn’t tell Ben about this latest development, even when He suspected I managed it as expertly as I could… I denied seeing him. I do not know why I did it.

One saturday, four weeks ago, I was alone in the house, tidying things and getting ready to go out when IK surprised me with an unannounced visit, I wasn’t just surprised, I was angry.

I lashed at him angrily but he calmly reached for me again, this time I let him and before I knew it, He was kissing me. I probably didn’t resist because I was trying to check his effect on me…Ben walked in, then walked out.

I haven’t seen Ben in four weeks.
Efforts to reach him failed.
Messages got no response.
Couldn’t reach him at home or at work.

IK proposed to me a week ago and although I said No, he left the ring.

I’m sad and confused. I want Ben…what do I do please?



  1. Agborike

    June 5, 2018 at 7:07 PM

    U ha ve no excuse to cheat young lady, why did u allow him into your house in the first place. You ruined your relationship yourself. If I were Ben, I won’t trust you again, I will just cut off the relationship

  2. fifelomo

    June 5, 2018 at 7:12 PM

    You just missed an opportunity. For no reason you should not have given your ex audience. You ruin everything my dear. Keep trying, if he’s yours he will come back. Goodluck.

  3. Big Aunty Koks

    June 5, 2018 at 7:57 PM

    Marry IK. That is where your heart really is otherwise you won’t toy with the emotions of a good man who according to your story showed you so much love.

  4. uzoma

    June 5, 2018 at 9:53 PM

    You blew it. Your ex might have heard you are engaged and decided to ruin your marriage. He will not marry you. If your ex had met you in a place not your house he would have had sex with you. If your husband had not come in hour ex would have had sex with you. I don’t blame your husband for walking away. If it were to be me (God forbidding) I would have done some kill v or maim him because that was an insult to come to have sex with another man’s wife in his house.

  5. Iconic

    June 6, 2018 at 12:22 AM

    Lol if you are still confused, forget about two of them and come and marry me

  6. Mon

    June 6, 2018 at 1:57 AM

    What are you really confuse about here, who among them love you or you don’t know which one you love?
    You didn’t tell us why IK was your ex, what lead to that,distance or quarrel? Because that will give an insight to tell you what to do or the type of person you are….. and i guess you know Ben’s office or house because this is not a phone call matter. Anyway,waiting for the next episode


    June 6, 2018 at 8:06 AM

    This is Okafor’s Law in action, lol. You made big mistake to dishonestly lie earlier not seeing your ex. Get someone he loves and adore with respect to plead on your behalf. Stop anything you do with your ex, infact avoid him like a deadly plague (Ebola).

  8. DB

    June 6, 2018 at 3:35 PM

    Reach out to his friends and explain to them, even though you have a lot to explain

  9. Jilo

    June 6, 2018 at 6:09 PM

    Just stick with IK if you think he is going to marry you., Ben is not going to trust you anymore. You may send the entire village to beg him even if he listens to them, you have put clause in his heart because he will always think you are cheating on him and that is not good for a healthy relationship.

    Just move on with IK and don’t try to chase two rats because you don’t want to loose both. This will serve as a lesson to some women who never let go their feelings even after committed into a relationship.

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