Relationships & Romance
My Wife Is Dirty, She Doesn’t Know How To Cook – Husband Slams Wife Of 7 Years
September 27, 2016 – My Wife Is Dirty, She Doesn’t Know How To Cook – Husband Slams Wife Of 7 Years
40-year-old Olarewaju Osasanya today told an Ikole Customary Court, Ekiti, that he could no longer cope with the foul smell from his wife, Kafayat, due to her dirty ways of living.
“My wife is very dirty to the extent of packing used baby napkins with faeces for days in the house without washing them and this made everywhere in the house to smell.
“Again she doesn’t know how to cook food, always cooking tasteless meals and will never take to correction on her dirty habit.
“Above all, she does not care for the well-being of our two children as a responsible mother should be doing,” Osasonna said.
The petitioner further informed the court that his estranged wife was in the habit of cursing him and his family members whenever they had misunderstandings.
He, therefore, prayed the court to dissolve the seven-year-old marriage for alleged dirtiness and inability to prepare decent meals.
He also urged the court to award to him custody of the first child and promised to pay N3,000 monthly upkeep for the second child.
Kafayat declined to cross-examined her husband and said she would state her own side of the story when she testify.
The President of the court, Mrs Yemisi Ojo, adjourned the case till Oct 11, for the testimony of the wife.
ego
September 27, 2016 at 5:13 PM
Didn’t see all this qualities before marrying her. Wasted 7years of her life.
There’s two sides to a coin/story we haven’t heard the wife’s testimony.
@NG please keep us updated on this issue.
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September 27, 2016 at 5:50 PM
This guy is a joker and very unserious fellow, so he is just waking up after 7 years of marriage to make these great discoveries. Someone needs to caution him to pump his brakes, good luck man.
The lady needs to change too, if she is guilty of those habits.
Endure
September 27, 2016 at 6:27 PM
Dirtiness and inability of a wife to cook good food should not be a determine factor or a reason big enough to dissolve any marriage. This are mere excuses. Of course,one cannot rule out the fact that those points the husband listed as attitude exhibited by his wife is a major concern.
Nevertheless,those points also shows clearly that the marriage does not merit divorce and Is not beyond salvage.
The president of the court mrs Yemisi Ojo should try and use her God-given power of reason,wisdom and discretion to resolve their marriage dispute especially if the wife latter appear in the court and give her other side of the story. In the absence of any report of a misconduct such as adultery,I believe the marriage can still work out.
Rather than ending the couple’s marriage,they should instead be counseled and advised on how to make amendments,adjustment in their way of life at home for the purpose of the marriage unification.
betty
September 27, 2016 at 7:27 PM
@ ego thank u. dnt mind the useless man washing his dirty lineage outside.
fifelomo
September 27, 2016 at 8:24 PM
I don’t wanto be one sided. @Naijagists pls keep us updated.
Tendy
September 27, 2016 at 9:07 PM
Lol, he’s definitely eating from another pot and that one seems to taste much better. If she gets tired after d days work nd can’t wash d children’s already used pampers, couldn’t u also give a helping hand too? And sometimes give her a hot bath when she feels tired to do it herself? If you’ve gotten another good catch, can’t u say it openly other than looking for flimsy excuses of not being blamed here. Everyone wants to make news in the divorce/divorcée list aam sure you’ve gotten yourself d popularity u gunned for asshole #new_trend
Big Aunty Koks
September 27, 2016 at 9:39 PM
They have two children. If the wife has no domestic help and has to also work to augment the family income it could well be that she is overwhelmed and probably exhausted by the demands of running the home. Not every body is energetic enough to take on the care of two young children, a husband andlife’s other chores. We need to know some details of her circumstances before suggesting possible solutions.
However, counseling might salvage the situation and domestic help even on ad hoc basis can help.
huchennar
September 27, 2016 at 10:51 PM
I believe the man as tasted another’s woman meal and meal outside and see that his wife of years is below standard..
ALL THE ABOVE without hearing from the ladies mouth i can say it a lie.. these are just excuse to part way. imagine a man just realising that his wife meals are tasteless after 7years.. chai!!!!
Oga sir if you don’t pity your life consider that of the children.
#clueless human
#IT_CAN_ONLY_GET_BETTER
sola olaniyi
September 28, 2016 at 10:51 AM
This man is very useless…after chopping her for 7 good years,its now that you just realize that she is dirty and doesn’t know how to cook
ebuka
September 29, 2016 at 12:30 PM
May be the man is seeing another lady and never love the wife again because all these excuses giving here is not enough reasons to divorce your wife. if he throughly love his wife there is a way of making her what he wants her to be. my opinion anyway.
Babs2
December 28, 2016 at 7:20 AM
How can you excuse your wife of seven years of being dirty ummmm it implies to me that you are a very careless man to stay with a dirty woman for seven years.