Relationships & Romance Articles
Why Do Men Abuse Women?
By Chukwuka Grace Amara
Is the only thing that comes to a man’s mind after sighting a woman is just sex? The soul she carries, the person that she is does it really not matter?.
Why can’t most men deal with the fact that a woman is human just like they are and deserves to be respected and cared for. Some men can’t even be in any sort of relationship with a woman without being sexually involved.
Some men just can’t bring themselves to think of a woman as a companion but objects to be belittled, they see women as an embodiment of sex, someone created for the satisfaction of their sexual desires and to perform domestic duties.
This belief becomes imparted to the younger generations, and that is why we have young boys who don’t even respect the females in their house, so why wouldn’t they molest a woman they see outside?
Most men see women as an opportunity to exert authority and show manliness. Even men who claim to make love to their wives are even concerned only about their own satisfaction, because they believe that’s what she was created for , to satisfy their desires, if she refuses or claim tiredness then she is a bad wife and they have an excuse to cheat.
Some men even beat their wives in the presence of their children, this breeds insecurity in the female child and hatred in the male child, the male child starts thinking that all women deserves to be beaten and trampled upon.
Men still haven’t learnt to respect the women in their lives, they consider every thing they do as their duty, like it is what they are created for.
You would even see a guy saying “women are weak including my mother.” Such a child needs to be lectured. It starts from the tender age.
When a young boy starts seeing a woman as being useful for only domestic duties and sexual satisfaction, he starts to disrespect women, especially when he starts seeing the need to satisfy his sexual desires and most boys starts by molesting the females in their house.
Men should always remember that women are the missing pieces in the puzzles of their lives, they are created to fill the void and help them with things they can’t do on their own, women deserve to be respected always.
Dr. Oluwole Caleb Falode
December 29, 2018 at 2:25 PM
The importance of women in any society cannot be over-emphasized. Infact, without them,life becomes unpleasant to men. God realized this and created Eve to be Adam’s companion. I do not abuse women, neither do I support men molesting them in whatever form. However, I think it is high time womenfolks started respecting themselves especially in the way they are dressed. Hardly will you see a man exposing his private part under the guise of civilization in dressing, but our ladies have lost the dignity they deserve when they parade themselves half nude. If you want people to value you, portray yourselves as women of good virtues.
Rosy
December 29, 2018 at 11:34 PM
You have said it all. But to me, I see men who molest and see women as a sex object to satisfy themselves as illiterates, as those who doesn’t even know why they are created, infact, animals in the forest are better than such things with serious mental problems.
Anderson Curtis
December 30, 2018 at 4:37 PM
I stand, respect & support women in every sense. Like music; imagine a world without women.
MADAM ERANKOOO
January 2, 2019 at 10:49 AM
IF YOU WANT MEN TO RESPECT WOMEN , THEN , WOMEN NEED TO BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT AND STOP RELYING ON MEN FOR FREE GIFT AND TELL THEIR PARENT TO STOP TAKING BRIDE PRICE ,BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT FOR SALE .
IF MEN TREATED YOU LIKE SHITHOLE , IT IS YOUR FAULT, BECAUSE AS SOON AS YOU ARE ON DATE WITH MEN , YOU TURN YOURSELF TO BE A STRONGER.
MEN ARE GETTING SMARTER , THEY KNEW THAT YOU ARE ONLY AFTER THEIR CASH AND YOU ARE A PAY AS YOU PUSSY. AH AH AH AH AH AH
SO , THEY WILL TREAT YOU AS WHORE , BECAUSE AS SOON AS YOU ARE DATING , WITHIN A WEEK , YOU STARTED USING YOUR MOUTH TO SUCK MEN DICK.
THEN , MEN WILL USE YOU AS YOU SHOW YOURSELF , THEY WILL SAY YOU ARE PUBLIC DICK SUCKER.
MEN ARE NOT CHEATER, BECAUSE KING SOLOMON HAVE MORE THAN ONE THOUSAND CUMCUBINES .