Ladies, Read This Before You Fall In Love

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April 17, 2012 – Ladies, Read This Before You Fall In Love

Here is an honest tip for our ladies on love and relationship by a Naija relationship expert called Ali Baba.

Read it below

While chatting with some female friends of mine has shown that they often do not consider some major issues before jumping into love.

Just saying “I want a man to love me for who I am” or I want a man who is honest and caring” or anything in that line is inadequate prospectus. Will you buy a car by saying “I want a car that is fine and fast?”

When you know you live in an untarred road? Shouldn’t SUV and all roads be a consideration?

“I just want a man who is honest and sincere. I want to believe, when he tells me he loves me, that he means it”

The above doesn’t say much. You will short change yourself!

Ask these questions, amongst many more…

Honesty and sincerity don’t make a relationship

Does he know your birthday?

Does he understand your moods?

Does he know your weaknesses and strengths?

What are his own dreams?

What is your role in those dreams?

What kind of person is he?

Does he smoke? Why does he smoke?

Does he drink? What makes him drink?

What is his lifestyle?

How does he fund it? What does he do for a living? What does he want to do for a living? What does it LOOK like he CAN do for a better tomorrow?

What kind of relationship did/does he have with his parents? Siblings? Friends? Exes? Colleagues? Bosses?

How disciplined is he?

How mature is he? Age? Intelligence? Conscience?

What annoys him?

When he says he is done with you, what will you miss when he is gone? Does he want kids? Is he romantic?

Above all, are you prepared for the kind of person he may turn out to be after being what you wanted (“honest and sincere”)? Like no job, low sperm count, not always around,…

I guess all I am trying to say is that there is more to love that broad shoulders, sense of humour, love me and kind!

By the way, I have some relationships to attend to myself

21 thoughts on “Ladies, Read This Before You Fall In Love

  1. i wish 1day dos people who decieve demself’s in d net sayin d re searchin 4 tru luv wil end up wit a ghost or demon.c’mon piple growup is jus 4 fun” luv ya

    • Sarah collins u re wrong, there re good people on net, i found d love of my live on net , we re engaged now and very soon , we re getting married.

  2. To be sincere, des are d facts needed in any relationship, these are d facts dt will produce a lasting nd happy marriage.

  3. Truely there are many untruthful personality, in naija; but i want u to know, that the daughter they born in the same wumb, their character are defer; as u can find good, also u can find wicked from them, but if u are seeking for your lovely one, i am here for u, ready to love who love me, and i will care for u alot. If u are intrested u can write to my this email-, try it am not a deciever.

  4. Oh yx oo… U know, d word “LOVE” can lead 2 anytn so it hs 2 b wel understood b/4 jumpn into it.

  5. Ladies who looks 4 mr right end up getting mr wrong. Men can decive u if u expose u want. U only need God 4 u perfect man. Dont say i didnt tell u o.

  6. Mst tyms,a relatnship is sweet at d begining,buh gets sour as u both go on. Gals,dnt love a guy too much,atleast 60% is gud enof,nd wen he begins to treat u lyk crap,start tinkin fast on wat ta do,cos he wil end up hurtin u 1 way or d oda. Find out many tins abt him first. 2go,facebook nd internet boyfrnds are nat advisable,also long distance relationship. Gals pls avoid heartbreaks cos we are d cause of our problems.

  7. God is luv n is a gd thg to luv
    wen we commit our ways unto his care he wil make d best out of us. Wth him al thgs are made possible

  8. Luv is nt a smal mata bt kip away d sexual feelins & flexin 4 a while no kwn weda u stil feel or want dat person… Ma gal we shd tink 2wce guys r nt really as gud as we tink

  9. Wt our present situation in d state, deres nt trust. We can only trust God bcs he wil nt fail us, bt human being wil fail us. May God save us. Amen.

  10. Well I think true love still exist, if only we can always listen and follow our inner most heart, we won’t get in 2trouble or heart break, every woman/man has qualities and standards of the kind of person they want 2date, some time’s it’s good 4one not 2 compromise ur qualities& standard, and I also believe that when a guy is around a lady within one month u’ll no D kind of relationship he want’s from u, 2be on D safe side is good 4u guy’s 2be friends b4 starting a relationship. don’t mistake lost 4love,fun 4love, having a good time 4love. And don’t force ur heart 2love any one bcos of fame, money, or facial look’s even wen ur heart is telling u no no, am talking from experience!

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