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Sisters, Stop Playing Games With Your Destiny, Sex Before Marriage Is A Sin

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Sunday January 27, 2018 – Sisters, Stop Playing Games With Your Destiny, Sex Before Marriage Is A Sin

Madam Temilolu,

In this 21st century, I see in you an unusual mother of all when all mothers fail in their parental responsibilities to their children! Go on with the work of the kingdom, an icon of holiness. Your reward is in heaven. God bless you!

Evang. Elijah (Kaduna)

Dear Aunty Temilolu,

I have a boyfriend who I’ve had sex with a lot of times but ever since I began reading your column, I’ve made up my mind by God’s grace to stay away from pre-marital sex no matter what it will cost me. But I have a challenge, my boyfriend will be going for service this month and that means I won’t see him for a year. He will want me to visit him and if I do so, he might force me to have sex with him. How do I save this situation ma and if I decide not to see him for a whole year, won’t it affect my relationship?

Dear J.

To start with I thank the Holy Spirit for breathing upon your life through this column and I pray God mercifully beams His light on you further till you are completely lost in HIM! Now, my dear, what’s your business with the devil? Yes! I mean that stupid, bad, devil who has nothing to offer you but trouble, whom God has given you dominion over to trample and have permanently under your feet! I must confess it’s so disappointing for you to even think of how your boyfriend feels or what would happen to your relationship if you refuse to sleep with him, if you continue to preserve your beautiful life and your glorious future, if you continue to move closer to your glorification! ‘! And I challenge that spirit which wants you and everyone reading to backslide with the fire of God, I command it to burn to ashes in Jesus name!

It really amazes me how a lot of people would rather place over God an ordinary human being whose existence in one’s life could make one wish one was never born! Is there anyone worth it? Is it possible for anyone to walk the path of righteousness and not be rewarded? You should be more concerned about what God thinks about you and not what any boyfriend or anyone for that matter thinks. What makes you think you even have a future with this boy and how are you so sure you’re the only one he’s been sleeping with? Or he told you he’s not touched any girl since you stopped sleeping with each other? Hmmm….girls…girls…girls, may sense fall on you! If I were you, I’d forget him! Yes! It may be hard because you love him but you have to make a choice between him and God. He’s been your partner in sin! If you’re destined to be man and wife, both of you would have to re-align with God’s divine agenda and he’ll eventually come back to you even if he’s on his way to the end of the world!

Fornication is certainly not part of God’s divine agenda and so you would both have to be cleansed by God and passed through some fire of purification if God made you for each other! For now, please let him be the least of your problems! You’re still young though this should also be a period when you should be bombarded by suitors. If you’re done with your tertiary education and you’re already thinking of settling down, I’d rather you take a closer walk with God, launch into the supernatural and get rid of the negative power of your ancestry/foundation over your life so you won’t be yoked to the wrong person in marriage! This is so important and you have the power to fight now provided you allow the power of God to saturate your life through chastity and holiness! By the time you arrive, I mean by the time God is done with you-you will be perplexed by the type of suitors that’ll bombard your life! I pray you do just as God inspired me to advise! I love you my sweeties!

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  1. Praize Mannuel

    January 28, 2018 at 4:48 AM

    Children of these days will not agree with this but that is that fact.
    Our society nowaday is morally bankrupt.
    That is why we have the highest rate of divorce and killings of unwanted babies through abortion.

  2. Omoluabi

    January 28, 2018 at 7:39 AM

    Sister Temilolu Okeowo, this your campaign supposed to start from the European and American countries and let us see how successful it is. African youth inherited those sinful habits from those countries that claimed to be Christian nations. Despite the fact that Bible did not support premarital sex, those countries could never allows such practice. And they claimed to be predominantly Christian country. No matter how alleged holy spirit be prevalent in those countries, premarital sex would never be eradicated. That is why Christians must separate Christian culture supported by Bible from Western cultures practiced by western nations. In case we could not do that, forget your campaign Sister and look for another one. Satan has taken over our African society and originated from those American and Europe in the name of civilization. Any country which still practice your campaign is considered uncivilized and devoid of freedom. So, I advised that snake must be killed right from the head, not tail. Look at in olden days in Africa, people still met women virgins after gotten married but nowadays when we claimed to be civilization by those countries, see the result. In every home, pornographic films are prevalent. To make things worst, our Bollywood films makers also are shameless. They do not act to defend our culture anymore but acting to promote pornography. Take a look again at our actresses, non of them proved moral,either married or single. Divorces are rampant amidst them and if you investigate the course, you realize that it would be an accusations of fornication and adultery. All these originated from diverting away from our culture. Besides, Bollywood plays a pivotal role in shaping our society, They must be advised to desist from acting pornographic films and stop dressing provocatively. They are also a role model for incoming generation. The pop musicians are not left out again, look at their videos, it is full of sexual twerking and song. I think again if we must be successful again in this your campaign my sister, our search light must point on those I mentioned, thanks.

  3. Danti

    January 28, 2018 at 4:05 PM

    I am not surprised, it is end of the month; when the force of the moon start messing with some folks’ consciousness.

  4. Reality

    January 28, 2018 at 10:01 PM

    the world has turned into something else, relationship of boyfriend and girlfriends of this generation is nothing but immorality, if a boy is dating a girl he must test her otherwise u are not civilized what a foolish way to think and the ignorant girl will open her legs to be tested cha!!! it pains my heart,then what is essence of wedding when u people have already join yourself through sex, this generation is worst than that of Sodom and Gomorrah. look at the naija music of today 90% is preaching sex with naked women rubbing themselves on a broad day light God is watching and his judgment is coming be warned!!!

  5. juliet

    January 29, 2018 at 3:01 PM

    Truth cuts

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