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Couples, Your Bed Is Yours And Not Your Children’s

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Couples, Your Bed Is Yours And Not Your Children’s

your bed is yours not your children's

March 4, 2012 – Couples, Your Bed Is Yours And Not Your Children’s

As we know it’s exciting to have your little one with you when you’re sleeping it’s an act to demonstrate bondness among family members.

Do you know it has harmful effect also?

That act exposes children to ‘doing what mummy and daddy’ do. How? You never know what kids are up to when you assume they are asleep.

As parents, when you share same bed with your children, you sacrifice your privacy for sex which is the essential feature of a rich and full marriage.

Do you know that during sleep, the normal adult male will have an erection approximately every 90 minutes? Imagine his daughter waking up to see!

Points To Note:

Do not engage in sexual activities with your partner when you have your toddlers or pre-teens in bed with you. Don’t assume that some children do not hear those sounds you make during intimacy.

Couples, Children and Their Privacy Tips

Make them sleep in their rooms

When a child refuses to sleep in his bed and comes to you demanding comfort, get up and go with the child back into his room. Tuck your child in, talk softly and offer words of comfort. You can lie on the bed next to your child, offering the comfort of your physical closeness and nurturing touch.

Encourage your child to think positively about things he/she can do or think of what will lead to him feeling strong. You can promise that you will stay until he falls back to sleep and when this happens, return to your own bed. Repeat this routine as needed. Your children will learn that their room is their own special and safe place in the house. They’ll develop a sense that they can take care of themselves.

Plan to have the child sleep in his or her own bed by the time he/she ceases breastfeeding (age 6 to 12 months).

If you insist on having your child in the bed or bedroom with you, plan scheduled times (once or twice a week) for couple privacy, when the baby is alone in another room for a short few hours. It is imperative the couples maintain a focus on their relationship without distraction and interference, even from a young infant.

There is nothing as good as a happy family but it’s even better when daddy and mom have their privacy.



  1. Abraham Isuwa

    March 10, 2012 at 7:24 AM

    This litle baby should have been provided with a bunk aside, so as not to distract d happiness of a home.

  2. Ogborigbo Ernest C.

    May 22, 2012 at 3:32 PM

    I was suprsd seeing a girl of jst 5yrs old tryn 2 display wat she sees ha parnts do on d bed

  3. blessing

    June 18, 2012 at 2:17 PM

    I love this family, but pls you guys should be very carefull in other not to do wat you are not supposed to do in the present of ur child. i lv you all cheers.

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